Family - November 2007

hi this is me again and thank us sooooooooo much for clicking. The problem is its my birthday annnnnnnnd my parents want to get me something nice so they gave me a choice of any present i want. There are certain restrictions.
1. Price range is $100
2. Can't be and iPod (cause i already have one and my dad doesn't want me to get an upgrade)
3. no new cellphone(same thing as above)

PLEASE I CAN'T THINK OF ANYTHING
ALSO
I LOOOOOOOOVE GREEN DAY but i want something that i will value and to tell u the truth i would value an iPod and/ or a cellphone but that's just beside the point im sorry its just that im in a really bad mood. Like today was like one of the worst days EVER. AHHHHHH also feel free to tell anything about r life too...really

2007-11-04 23:46:27 · 8 answers · asked by i have aquestion... 3

I have been part of this family for just over a year. I'm sure it is a question of respect, since he has none for me or anyone else. I.m at my wits end. Also my own to sons are very upset over this. Any suggestions?

2007-11-04 23:43:03 · 9 answers · asked by chris s 1

Here is a link to the question I asked before. Basically my dad has had a midlife crisis I guess and run off with a girl the same age as me 26 and they have a baby now.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AkMXV9nrTW6HhM1MSMUyISXsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071104082910AABYOKq

2007-11-04 23:35:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister has 2 young children who I am very close to.Within 2 weeks of splitting with the kid's father,my sister met a new man and had him move in.He is on parole,came right from a drug rehab center,and things got worse.I started to notice his inappropriate behavior with the younger of the 2 kids.I talked to my sister about it but she said I was being paranoid.Showers,backrubs and other worrysome things continued between him and this child,and eventually I called child services.They were extremely concerned and have recently told my sister an investigation will be done.My sister has found out that it was I who made the report and has said I will never see her children again.I spend time with these kids everyday,we live next door to each other and I take care of them while my sister works.This is breaking my heart.I understand her feelings of betrayal but I felt it needed to be done.How can I explain & get her to listen when she'll have nothing to do with me?Was what I did wrong?

2007-11-04 22:43:21 · 8 answers · asked by Ava =) 5

Ok I do nothign to provoke him but like he will be playing with my neck (such as sqeezing that hell tender bit that makes u go all goose bumpy) and then all of a sudden he will either spank my *** really quickly or pinch it?

He does it when we are alone and also when there are other members of my family around (such as my cousin...he is soo hot drool lol)

anyway do you think it is his playful thing or sexual assult?

2007-11-04 22:23:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

how many of you will like to know all your family members? all cousins, nephews,aunti's, uncles, 1st to 8th cousin?

2007-11-04 21:41:58 · 3 answers · asked by Meboy 1

help out non-stop and when you cannot help on one occassion they cut you out of their lives? if so how did you deal with? cannot talk it through other party refusing to communicate!

2007-11-04 21:36:02 · 13 answers · asked by tkf57 3

PLEASE ANSWER! I know it's long, but I really need your feedback!

Can't get over mother's abuse?
Ever since I was little, I was yelled at, screamed at, hit, beat, punched...when I was in my mid-teens my parents divorced. I tried to call my dad long-distance..it showed up on our phone bill (.38 cents) and she strangled and choked me on our stairs for "making her look dumb". I was ignored, neglected, abused, kicked out, made fun of and demeaned until I hit my adult years. I had a child and left her home.

She saw what a good mom i was and told me how proud she was ... admitted she was never meant to be a mom and that she had 'many issues'. I always felt sorry for her and tried to gain her trust. Long story short, she moved out of state and I went to visit her 2 years ago for Thanksgiving (hoping we could patch up the past and start anew).

2007-11-04 20:13:55 · 6 answers · asked by Lynn A 4

I grew up in a very strict military family. At age 18 I met a wonderful man who happened to be 32. We dated, fell in love and decided to travel around the world together. My father wasn't happy with the idea of me being with a older man and he told me that it was my boyfriend or him. I chose my boyfriend.

After traveling around the world and living together for a year and half we were married in December. I am now expecting a baby this December. Should I let them know I am expecting?

2007-11-04 19:38:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My gf and I just got married. I'm 23 and she's 22. We're both studying medical science. Problem is that we have sex every now and then and we just can't help it. It's putting a negative impact in our study life. By that I mean, we can't concentrate in our studies. What do I do?

2007-11-04 19:01:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My dads family has kicked me out because i was named after my grandfather. They are very screwed up. Should I just consider myself lucky they arent in my life?

2007-11-04 18:29:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-04 18:13:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

im a stay-at home mom, my husband and i hv commitment that we dont leave our childrens to a babysitter or else. my husband strongly said that he is the one responsible earning money for the family.but my mother-in law disagree and say 'things' that depressed me so much,about me not working and not making money.she interfere with my family matters. what to say and what to do? tks b4.

2007-11-04 16:58:21 · 7 answers · asked by angels'mom 1

Ok, I want my mum to divorce my dad because he doesn't treat her well, even though he is the one supporting the whole family. My mum does EVERYTHING for dad, yet he doesn't know that? *well he tried to be "cool" about it and just gives off a smirk everytime I mention it to him. (I mean, would you just sit and watch your wife mow the lawn?!!?) (not only this but there's more to it..just would take AGES to tell everything)

So yehh, I told my mum I wouldn't care if they divorce because I am SO sick of his stupid immature attitude! However, I also feel a bit sorry for him if he has to move out because he wouldn't be able to do anything without my mum's help!! (he doesn't understand/speak english well either)

so yup...i am in a tangle at the moment and don't know if my opinion is right?
i dunno...i'm just confused!!!

2007-11-04 16:04:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-04 16:01:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My uncle is divocred and got a new gf (nothing bad about that in and of itself) and she shows up at various familly events.

The thing is that she is an very mean and nasty person. She puts everyone down (including me) and she makes a lot of racist statements (which I really do not care for). If I had it my way I would not have anything to do with this vile b*tch.

Please help!

2007-11-04 15:56:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Some of our family is coming for visit for a month, during which I will have to live in our closet of a computer room on the floor. I've gotten past that, but the last remaining problem is that when they come to visit they try to control my life (I'm 15). My parents work all day so when they are gone my relatives tell my brother and I when to do our homework, when to clean, where we can go, who we can go with, and they expect us to occupy their time the entire time they're here. I'm sick and tired of them controlling me, but I don't want to come off as a rude teenager. How can it get this situation under control and loosen their hold over me?

2007-11-04 15:32:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

English is my second language please for give my bad English.
She constantly makes problems.And She dislike her mom mom,too.She wants to stay with us.She is 15.
She tells a lot of lies hard to trust her.
But every week some thing happens.
Of course I up set and say to her father to teach her !
But always end up I got alot alot alot of bad wards form him mainly It means I am the one making things worth ...and she got non these punch of the words.
I really wondered why?
Only one guess I can make is he loves his daughter very much. May be more then his wife.
If I said that he deny it but I can't believe it!
I am so unhappy and I have night mare at night..I love my husband but very close to my limit!
Last week the cash in may wallet vanished..
What I can do this situation....

2007-11-04 15:24:31 · 14 answers · asked by august2007 1

I flipped the hell out. My son just sat and let this boy beat him up. I went off on the lil boy and as for my son i snapped out on him. His dad told me i need 2 just let him handle it cause i got so upset. If it happens again what should i do? My son beat this same boy up 2 months ago for hitting his lil sister.

2007-11-04 15:03:04 · 7 answers · asked by catherine b 1

This is quite long- winded, but im looking for genuine answers only. please be kind.
so.. im a 21yr old, my parents divorced when i was 7 as my dad left my mum for another woman. after this i saw my dad at wkends, At first it was great, i used to put my dad up on a pedestal as he seemed to understand me and was a kind man. however as i grew older the visits became less frequent, up until now when i have not seen him since december 06. i have msgd him a couple of times and he replies after a couple of days. not once in that time has he initiated contact with me. the main thing for me was on my 21st birthday 12 days ago i did not recieve a phone call or message from my dad. i have spoken to him since and received a bday card but i have told him it is unforgiveable. i never answered my dad back once in the past but when i spoke to him after my bday i really let rip on him and told him what a crap dad he has been. i know this isnt really the best place to ask but do u think i was wrong?

2007-11-04 15:00:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Her boyfriend is not the father of the kids and he tells her not to let me see them. How can I protect my grandchildren from him. He smokes marijana infront of them. When he gets upset with my daughter he takes off with their diapers and steals her money. He bites my granddaughter on the cheek and leaves a mark. Looks like a hickie. My daughter will cals me to pay her bills and if I say no, she denies my visitations. Can I take her to court for visitations? My grandkids lived with me for over a year, so they are very close to me. when my granddaughter comes to my house, when I take her home she cries and doesn't want to go with her. What can I do legally? Please help!!!!

2007-11-04 14:56:00 · 14 answers · asked by leesa22006 1

I am wondering if the signs I'm seeing could be signs of my 11 year old little sister being pregnant...

to start off, she's always been big and chubby, but the last few times I've seen her (I only see her about twice a week) she's grown a lot tummy-wise... she eats twice as much as usual, and goes to the restroom way too often... I know she started having periods when she was 10 but it's impossible to tell if she's having them now...

I wanna talk to people in my family about it, but some people such as my mom, see her as a saint and would probably kill me if I ever said anything like that so I don't wanna tell anyone so that it could get back to mom... I told my math teacher who I've grown to trust more than anyone so it's partially out, but not too far...

any advice?

2007-11-04 14:46:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

my dad is about to leave for 8 months because he's in the military :( i want to feel better what should i do to keep 4rm crying please ??????????????????????

2007-11-04 14:44:27 · 5 answers · asked by it's HG !! 2

My stepdaughter and I have been having so many problems I am getting to the point that moving her into a tent in the yard is a wonderful idea.She is causing so many problems when her dad isn't home that I had to record her for him to see.Now he believes me.Today she tells me that she doesn't want me around any more and to stop acting like a mom.Going to be very hard to do since she lives with us - my husband has sole physical and legal custody of her - and I have no choice but to perform the role of mom.For the last 6 months she has become a huge thorn in my side.My husband and I decided today that I am no longer going to be a mom to her.She is to do everything herself.The funny thing is she keeps coming to me for help.I tell her to call her mom and ask her.She then says my mom won't do it.I say well then I sorry you asked me to stop being a mom and that is what I am doing.She has a rude awakening - her mom lost custody of her for a reason and it wasnt because she is a good mom.

2007-11-04 14:41:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

The baby died of SIDS (Sudden Infant Death Syndrome). This is such a good family, I wish there was more that I can do. The who community has pitched in to help, but it doesn't seem like enough. So if you have any suggestions, please let me know. Thank you.

2007-11-04 14:40:14 · 4 answers · asked by cnhanna87 5

So my husband got a really good job at a really good company. Coincidentally, my cousin also works there.

As a kindness, my husband put her name down in the "referral" box on his application. When he got the job, my cousin received a $2,500 incentive bonus because the company thought that she referred him. She did not refer him or help him get the job in anyway - she didn't even know the position was open until after he interviewed and put her name in.

So she got $2,500 for doing absolutely nothing, and my husband didn't get so much as a 'thank you'. Really, she didn't even say thank you.

She sends thank you notes to other people for things (like when my mother helped her move).

Then, to add insult to injury, my father overheard her talking to a group of people at a neighborhood get-together. She was telling everyone that SHE got my husband the job - as if she was the one who did US a favor!!! My father set her straight right there.

Opinions please?

2007-11-04 14:27:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents, particularly my mom has done so much to hurt me, and I know she doesn't care. She lies, she's insensitive, she's demeaning and she really doesn't even care how much she hurts me. I'm hoping that someone can relate or at least that someone out there has parents that are there for them. I don't really know what to do. How can it be that the people that are supposed to be the ones I can depend on would stab me in the back. What do I do?

2007-11-04 14:26:15 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

No rude comments please, but please let me know if you agree with me that it's messed up for my mom to stay with my step-father who molested me.

I'm 24 and recently told my mom what my step-dad did as a child. While she's angry at him, she thought "we should stay with him so he can give a roof over our head. I don't have enough money blah blah" He works out of town right now, but he visits every month and expects me to treat him like a real father. Our family is East Indian, so culturally my mom doesn't know how to be independent and is scared of the world. But by staying marrie him, is she indirectly saying that money and family reputation is more important than what happened to me and my psychological health? My step-dad knows that we need him for money, and he takes advantage of that and verbally abuses my mom for it. My solution is is that I'm going to move out on my own, even though my mom is getting mad at me for it. I will find a way to financially support myself.

2007-11-04 14:22:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

ummm if ur 14 and you have family problems can u dicied not to live with them? if so is there other homes or places u can help out and they can lamd u a hand?

2007-11-04 14:21:05 · 7 answers · asked by alkqn 1

Your Aunt(mother's sister) got married and her husbands(now uncle through marraige), his daughter from a previous marriage,has a son...Is he 1.)your cousin? 2.)your cousin by marriage or 3.)no relation?

2007-11-04 14:17:04 · 5 answers · asked by Loving the parent life 2