Family - November 2007

arrgh! takes me TWICE the time to do my Laundry! *giggle*
Let them be Little?
Let them Sleep in the Middle

2007-11-03 19:46:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

A couple days ago I asked my oldest kid for copy paper to copy some religious information and she gave me some paper to use. After copying my information and sorting it out, I scanned the other side and it had copies of a "diary" of intimate, crudely gross things that she had done with her boyfriend. I nearly dropped the papers in disgust and now I can't even look at her, let known deal with her without those words coming back to me. I wish that there was a way I could forget even seeing one word of the filth that she had written but I can't. I even broached her gently by letting her know that some of the paper that she had given to me had a diary written on it and she did not even care! How do I continue to deal with her?(She is 26 years old and still relies on my financial help because she does not work.)

2007-11-03 19:43:33 · 8 answers · asked by phyllis_gene_levy 1

My 7 yr old daughter has a lump on her gum w/pus what do I do to treat it till mon.so we can c doc?
she is not in any pain but it is a big bump scary looking and I just seen it she doesnt have a fever...

2007-11-03 18:30:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

myself, my husband and our 5 month old son live live in arizona near my mom and dad. We lived in chicago by my inlaws for a while, then moved here about 10 months ago.
My husband and my mom and dad dont really get along that well. He hates spending holidays with them and i could either take or leave holidays with them. But this year we hit financial hard times, he told his family (before we had found jobs here) that we would all come out for christmas to chicago and spend it with them, not stay here with my family. But things got financially bad and i had to find a fulltime job. I have only been there for 2 weeks and have no vacation time or time off around christmas. He got extremely shitty about it and told me "i guess you will have to stay here and the baby and i will go spend christmas with my family" "he is not spending his first christmas here with your family" "it is not fair that my family is always on the back burner" etc... then he asked if i cared..
i said if you have your

2007-11-03 18:26:02 · 7 answers · asked by jordy 1

Looking to find maybe brothers or sister. Also what is in those gens

2007-11-03 18:14:37 · 2 answers · asked by garyoglen 1

My family and I are invited to a wedding I would not want to go to. Here's the story. Some time ago, a man I'll call Nik introduced me to a man I'll call Sam who had a seriously bad reputation (unbeknownst to me) at a dinner function. The guy nearly raped me, but thank God I got away, and talked the guy out of it.
Now, Nik's son is getting married, and he invited my family to the wedding. I do not want to go because of this. I have never spoken to Nik about this situation, but as a lady who was almost had the unthinkable done would you go?

2007-11-03 17:43:09 · 3 answers · asked by Born Valentine's Day 5

2007-11-03 16:37:47 · 12 answers · asked by gary t 2

They help me out and are my only friends. I can't seem to make any other friends cause nobody else likes me. I rely on them and have tried to look after myself but find it hard. What can I do? Please don't say I am pathetic

2007-11-03 16:23:12 · 5 answers · asked by Janina 1

First let me tell the story.
My dad was fired at work because they didn't need him anymore, before that we weren't 'rich' but we weren't 'poor'
I would consider us poor now, because we have a house, food, water, ect. but we don't have as much money as we did before. Okay well now my mom is the only one working and that's doing good. But I need some ideas for things I can make or my cousins, brothers, aunts and uncles, and grandparents, because homemade stuff is better and a little cheaper. So do you have any ideas on how I can help them save money, and ideas on what I can make for my family.
I have
2- 12 year old girl cousins (one preppy one skater)
1-18 year old cousin ( skater)
1- 18 year old brother (kinda punk, kinda skater)
1- 2 year old boy cousin
1-15 year old boy cousin (very preppy)
1-15 year old brother
1- 22 year old brother
1-23 year old sister in law
1-6 year old girl cousin
2- Grandpas
2-Grandmas
1-15 year old girl cousin
4-Aunts
4- Uncles
THANKS

2007-11-03 16:07:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-03 15:14:58 · 26 answers · asked by strawberrygirl 3

When my mom passed away 3 years ago my dad begged my family to move in with him. I agreed(my husband no so much), but now he acts like we are the worst people ever. Hes always putting my kids and my parenting down. yea im not perfect but I try. But he lectures us 2 to 3 times a day now. And now its like he hates us. He blew all of my moms life insurance policy and now tells us he cant afford the mortgage payment by himself. every month hes threatning to raise our rent but we pay all of the other bills. Not to mention we have three kids and this place is just to small for all of us. We want to move out but I dont want to ruin my relationship with my dad. Hes all I have left. But if we move out and he loses everything I know he will blame me.But if we stay I risk my marriage. My husband is at the end of his rope. Anyone out there have any good advice?

2007-11-03 15:11:54 · 11 answers · asked by bethybee 2

My father is dying, he is 73. I am the youngest of his sons, I am 36. He has probably less than 4 months left. I have not spoken to him or my step mother in years, we had a falling out, in which he said he never wanted to see me again.

I stayed away, moved, did not contact or stick my hand out at Christmas or anything, I broke clean and declared him dead then.

He got prostate cancer since then, it spread into his bones, liver, ect.

My stepmother went to my old roommates house, he called me, put her on the phone and she tried to guilt trip me, I told her i would not come and they both had made this choice and hung up.

I feel i made the right choice, knowing what my father has done in the past and what a hypocrite he is, I dont believe me going to his death bed would be a healthy thing for me.

I am catching flack for this choice from family members, so i am asking for opinions.

Thanks

2007-11-03 15:10:49 · 53 answers · asked by rough_master2001 1

I lost my grandpa in 2001 on October 25.And this year I lost my uncle on the June 28,2007.I sometimes feel like no one understands me.I also feel like I can never get over either of their deaths.I have lost other family members, but these are the two I was closetest to, besides my mom,dad,and sis.who are still alive.Can anyone relate to me?I know this was probably a stupid thing to put on Yahoo!Answers, but I know that there is someone else out there who feels the same way.(Or at least I think.)Please no rude answers

2007-11-03 14:50:27 · 6 answers · asked by MJeandron 3

It is about a 16 year old girl who is surrounded by her four perfect and popular siblings. While on a business trip, her mom elopes to a guy she just met and him and his 2 kids come move in with them. The families hate each other and their is strong competition between them. The book shows the main character that through the struggles her family goes through, her family isn't so perfect and she is more normal than she thought. In the end, blah blah blah the families bind as one and figure out that they don't hate each other as much as they thought. What would be a good title?

2007-11-03 14:49:53 · 17 answers · asked by charley 3

Yeah, that's all I get to help raise my ADHD son and his Dad (and I use this term lightly) only has to pay 10% for his doctor care and meds.

2007-11-03 14:27:22 · 12 answers · asked by whata waste 7

She was finished with the computer and she got on another website then she had to go home and change clothes.We missed our ride and her momma had to take us then we had to stop by the store to get some change so her momma could give her some money.Then, when we got there the game was sold out.Should I get mad at her or what?

2007-11-03 13:41:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-03 12:23:35 · 25 answers · asked by luckypetals 1

we have been together forover 18 yrs, n have 2 sons, 17 yr old and a 4 yr old connor, i dont love their dad no more and he know it, now he lives in scunthorpe and ilive in castleford but spend all the time at his, because he wants us there to look after him when i tell him i want to go home he turns into a 4 yr old and says WHAT ABOUT ME even when connor should be in school when i am at home he takes connor back to scunthorpe because he says connor wants to be with his dad not with a NASTY BITCHlike me. yes that is what connor calls me most of the time, soi end up back in scunthorpe to be with connor reminding him every day that he should be in school, BUT WHAT ABOUT ME he got sack 3 months ago, so hes gonna lose the house hes renting hes no money coming in, i only get 114 each week and the 2 boys have 1 xmas present each so far, but dad hs to have his weed when he runs out,to me hes nasty bastard whoionly thinks of himself but says he will win custody of connor WILL HE????/??????

2007-11-03 11:20:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

and she will get her face done as well ,she will say to the kids to pick the design on her face ,how can i tell her to stop it cos there poeple staring at us , but the kids love it when she gets it done, can anyone help me

2007-11-03 10:28:15 · 20 answers · asked by dazza 2

I live in a house where no one cares for me. I am not old enough to move out but I can not live here anymore. i am in a situation where i am the most helpful but the least valued, and i have no friends because of the clothes i have to wear. I want to be adopted but don't know how to go about it. What can i do?

2007-11-03 10:23:39 · 7 answers · asked by Elizabeth S 2

When and how did your parents tell you? Do you feel "different' because you were not conceived in the traditional way?

And no, I wasn't conceived that way. I was born before that procedure came into being. Just curious since there must be many people coming of age now that were "test tube babies"

2007-11-03 09:50:05 · 1 answers · asked by susandiane311 5

Yesterday's situation: having a texting conversation with like 5 friends, then my dad just took away my phone.....FRIDAY NIGHT!....
Today afternoon: Got my phone back, with 17 new messages!

2007-11-03 09:39:05 · 10 answers · asked by ♫TheStrokes♫ 2

My parents both got divorced seven years ago and I have been living with my father. Recently I have started wanting to see my mother which I think is only natural in a way. If I talked to him and convice him he could let me see her but I was wondering since next month I will be turning 18 years old so could he still have control if I could see her or not.

2007-11-03 09:25:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im not sure if hes a nerd/geek or mommas boy

Hes 38, is a Computer Consultant, makes $200k a year. Lives at home with his Mom, sleeps on the floor in his room (he has no bed) has 2nd grade running trophy displayed. Star Wars sheets on the floor. Does not pay rent, has no expenses.
He only wears dress shirts, dress pants, has no casual clothes. Dress shoes. Has 20 pairs of the same dress pants that dont fit him hang down, 20 dress shirts of light blue. All from JC Penney Has no jeans, sneakers, casual clothes at all. He went to the Zoo once with dress pants and dress shoes, dress shirt. I couldnt believe it.
Has no girlfriend, no social life,not interested in dating, told me he considered a mail order bride.
All he talks about 24 hours a day is how much money he makes and the stock market and his retirement account.

I asked him, "hey dont you want your own place"? He yells and says "are you nuts, ill move when i marry"
I said but no girl will every date you, I get no answer

2007-11-03 08:53:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Since we won't be having their party until after there physical birthdays what can I do special for them that doesn't cost money to celebrate? My youngest is turning one and my eldest is turning two. Help PLEASE!

2007-11-03 08:32:37 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

and on Match.com but he wont tell me or my brothers that he is.We know becuase we've seen him on it before but he always says he is going out with some of his buddies when he is really going on a date.And I don't want him to get re-married.I am so sad because Nov. 11 is 5 days after my b-day and it just puts a whole damper on my BIRTHDAY..what should i do?
nobobdy in my family really likes to talk about my mom that much and i feel like i am losing our memories together....how can i remember her?

2007-11-03 07:33:10 · 33 answers · asked by Elizabeth<3 2

My parents and his has been friends for more than 30 years and there's never been bad blood between me and his family but since i got together with there son the gossip never stops. and it's all bad things said about me that's not even true.His mom who was the worst died recently. After a big family fight between my fiance and his family we dont see any of the family. That's the way we chose it. We're getting married December, a intimate wedding and we're only inviting his father and suster from his site of the family.

2007-11-03 07:18:37 · 19 answers · asked by asaukv 1

I just think my life would be so much better if I could have zero contact with them ever again and move somewhere to the other side of the world so I'd never even have to know what's going on with any of them. Anyone else ever feel that way?

2007-11-03 06:49:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my partner for just on 4 yrs now. My family acted as tho they liked him at first then they showed there true feelings when we moved out. We have a son together, we love each other, we want to get married but i know my family isnt going to like it, my mum and brothers act like they like him to his face but say **** about him behind his back to me and even tho dad doesnt say anything on it anymore i pretty sure he hates him. should i invite them to the wedding or just let them not know.

2007-11-03 06:38:45 · 8 answers · asked by tibnlhasa 1

I got relatives who live in my area and far away. My mom's side all live in the same state as I do, my dad's is in 2 other different states and others at New Zealand.

I've been wronged by my mom's siblings, her uncle, and her mom (grandma). I have forgiven them I guess but I have never forgotten what they have done or what they are. My dad's side cousins are a bunch of shallow cocky snobs, I don't ever want to get on the plane to visit them.

One day if I ever become successful and prove them all wrong then I will permanently cut our bonds, meaning they will no longer be my cousins, uncles, aunts, and whatever. I'm still thinking about this meaning I do have a heart unlike them. What do you think?

Thanks for reading.

2007-11-03 06:33:56 · 10 answers · asked by Closed 5