Im not sure if hes a nerd/geek or mommas boy
Hes 38, is a Computer Consultant, makes $200k a year. Lives at home with his Mom, sleeps on the floor in his room (he has no bed) has 2nd grade running trophy displayed. Star Wars sheets on the floor. Does not pay rent, has no expenses.
He only wears dress shirts, dress pants, has no casual clothes. Dress shoes. Has 20 pairs of the same dress pants that dont fit him hang down, 20 dress shirts of light blue. All from JC Penney Has no jeans, sneakers, casual clothes at all. He went to the Zoo once with dress pants and dress shoes, dress shirt. I couldnt believe it.
Has no girlfriend, no social life,not interested in dating, told me he considered a mail order bride.
All he talks about 24 hours a day is how much money he makes and the stock market and his retirement account.
I asked him, "hey dont you want your own place"? He yells and says "are you nuts, ill move when i marry"
I said but no girl will every date you, I get no answer
2007-11-03 08:53:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I met him for dinner once with my aunt, he didnt talk, starred around at everyone in the place, was quiet, doesnt know what to do with his hand.
When he talks to me he stares(its weird)
I told him dont you want to wear jeans and sneakers to the zoo? He says "Who cares i like my dress clothes"
He also had a girlfriend before who was an illegal immigrant who could barely speak english for about 8 years but he didnt want to marry her because he said hes too good for her. ever since he has not met anyone..
What is wrong with him?
beleive it or not in his 20s, he was into rock music and alot of girls were after him, he was in a band and he was popular socially
2007-11-03 08:57:49 · update #1
he weighs about 300 pounds, in his 20s he was 145 lbs
2007-11-03 08:58:42 · update #2
i cant IM, post it here.
2007-11-03 09:05:33 · update #3
i also invited him to a Rob Zombie concert recently to make him happy since he was into that once. He was acting so goofy like moving his hands so nerdy.
weird, its like his old self is dead
2007-11-03 09:08:22 · update #4
cat lady you are right, he has never been for a check up, i told him recently your dad had a heart attack at 40, you need to get a check up make sure everything is ok. he doesnt listen
i try helping him he wont listen or he gets mad at me.
2007-11-03 09:18:11 · update #5
When was the last time your cousin had a physical check-up? I think he may have something physical that is contributing to his weight gain.
His weight alone can make him socially backward. If he had an active social life when he was in his 20's and weighed 145, I am sure he knows what he is missing. He is probably terribly shy, and wears dress clothes because he probably thinks he would look bad in anything else.
Encourage him to go to the doctor, to get on a weight loss program. He needs to get back into life. Help him.
2007-11-03 09:11:28 · answer #1 · answered by Cat Lady 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like your cousin may have some mental issues. At the very least, he should have a complete physical and mental evaluation. He may be severely depressed. His mother should have set some guidelines for living with her and one should have been routine health check-ups.
2007-11-03 09:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you don't be attentive to the meaning of a mommas boy you will desire to no longer call him one. A mommas boy is whilst your guy placed his mommas needs and desires in the previous yours and he spends extra time along with his momma then he does you.
2016-09-28 06:37:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's possible he's just eccentric. He's probably very smart and sometimes people with high IQ's can't see outside of their area of interest so they don't notice they dress funny, act funny, etc. But it also sounds like he might have social complexes, perhaps, I don't want to tag someone with that because of course I don't know.
2007-11-03 09:19:16 · answer #4 · answered by The Scorpion 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your cousin sounds like a very unhappy person who has been very disappointed by something that happened to him.
2007-11-03 09:25:12 · answer #5 · answered by jcf6865 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said his dad had a heart attack, so i guess he died, maybe that took a toll on him.
he sounds depressed, maybe something happened that u dont know about.
only he can change thoug
2007-11-03 10:11:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is his problem!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
he is all of the above
2007-11-03 09:01:44 · answer #7 · answered by Nocurfew313 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
please im i have your answer
2007-11-03 09:03:22 · answer #8 · answered by stoner_dude_2007 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋