I lost my grandpa in 2001 on October 25.And this year I lost my uncle on the June 28,2007.I sometimes feel like no one understands me.I also feel like I can never get over either of their deaths.I have lost other family members, but these are the two I was closetest to, besides my mom,dad,and sis.who are still alive.Can anyone relate to me?I know this was probably a stupid thing to put on Yahoo!Answers, but I know that there is someone else out there who feels the same way.(Or at least I think.)Please no rude answers
2007-11-03 14:50:27 · 6 answers · asked by MJeandron 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you seem like a girl with a very good heart and soul. there is nothing wrong in grieving for people that we love and felt the closest to in life. but, don't grieve to the point of letting this pain take over you life. your departed loved ones would feel so sad knowing this. love that you knew them, loved them, and know you will always have a place in your heart for them. let them be at peace knowing that you will always remember them and that you are strong enough to go on with your life and make them proud of you. this is what they would want for you. rejoice for them, knowing that they are at peace and with the Almighty where everything is perfect and beautiful. there will come a day, when God decides, when we will see our loved ones again. until then pray for them and be happy that they are at peace.
2007-11-03 15:09:27 · answer #1 · answered by try 2 help 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my grandpa on 2002 and still grieve for him. Not a day goes by that I don't think about him. I just wish he could have lived even a year or two longer to provide the love and guidance that I so desperately need in life. He was an amazing man and has had a lasting impact on my life. I feel like he was the only one in my family that loved me or understood me.
2007-11-03 22:12:27 · answer #2 · answered by Evie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have faith that God put you when and where you were needed to be. The time will come when you will come into your own and be completely content with who you are.
I know from past experience. I used to feel the same way. Like I was always on the outside looking in. Then I found my own, and all is well. I'm still a loner for the most part, and mostly self reliant, but it feels right this way.
Have faith.
P.s. I lost my father to cancer Feb. 11 2005. Just weeks after my great grandmother, and weeks before my baby girl, his granddaughter was born. He's with me, looking down.: )
2007-11-03 22:01:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry...I lost my father April 29th, 2004 and I had lots of people die before him, but I loved him more than anyone and never thought I would lose him so soon so it hit me hard. I still grief for him and feel that that was it. I'm not close to anyone else but my boyfriend and he's not even family...I act out sometimes and I don't think my family understands that I do because I miss my father and I just want him back so badly
2007-11-03 21:58:12 · answer #4 · answered by Philly_Mami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself a chance The grieving process is not the same for everybody Talk to your grandpa just like when he was alive He hears you very well Ask him to help you through this period of sadness and he will LOve
2007-11-03 22:03:26 · answer #5 · answered by lala 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my father and an aunt within 45 days of each other. The peace came in knowing that they're not suffering anymore.
2007-11-03 22:00:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋