Family - November 2007

Not long ago, i moved out of home, because my mum got a new boyfriend and started shutting me out, ignoring me and blaming me for absolutely everything.
Her boyfriend is a JERK. he usually yelled at me and called me very offensive names.
So i moved in with my grandparents.
A couple of weeks later, my friend told me that my mums boyfriend told her that he had said i was a bad daughter and that i didn't love my mum cause i left her.
I think i did tha right thing by myself, as it had gotten too much for, because of school and all my exams and stuff.
Too much strees.

2007-11-06 16:23:34 · 8 answers · asked by Lanabee 2

Can someone please tell me what this possibly is? Am i depressed? or just too stressed? I feel like i have so many problems in my life when it comes to family, and i feel like my boyfriend is the only one who supports me. My mom is always mad at me or my family, my dad is ok but we have our differences too, and i dont really get along with my brother. I feel like everyone in my family is selfish and only do things to their advantage. If i argue with them i start to get really emotional, it gets to the point where i will cry so much that i can't even breathe properly and i have to take really deep breathes to calm down, i also feel my heart beating really fast when im that emotional. It's just something i can't control. I also feel like i cant control my own life; and on top of everything i have ocd but i dont tell anyone because i don't want them to think im nuts or something... So what is this am i depressed or whats going on? and how can i fix this?

2007-11-06 16:17:33 · 10 answers · asked by Ooh-La-La! 3

2007-11-06 16:04:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

should i go out and find my mother? my parents divorce so me and my little brother stay with dad but dad gettiing worst..

2007-11-06 16:02:17 · 7 answers · asked by Walter 2

My brother is always trying to tell me how to do things ,

Example.
If i am listening to music , and doing my homework.He'll get all smart say that i can't concentrate .

He doesn't help pay for gas, though i drive him almost every single day to school. We both go to the same school.

Went and told my Dad about having 8 tardies

When i went and ate fast food , mentions the fact it's unhealthy that i am going to get fat.

Likes to say his better driver than me .

Once i went to the mall to get something to wear for this date. But all he wanted to do was go straight home. So i bought him this t shirt, because i like to be nice.
He mention that me buying him a t shirt, was his treat, for having to go to the mall with me. And not straight home, like he wanted to do.

Once he went through my wallet , asked why i had my insurance card. Asked me , these are his exact words, "If i had it all figured out" . I guess his jealous that i am growing up.
And he whats to prove his more mature than me

2007-11-06 15:54:26 · 8 answers · asked by Moanika 6

OK i am doing a tribute for my grandma who died at around 6pm tonight she lost her battle with cancer so i need some songs for my tribute if you could find some pinao songs that would be great

2007-11-06 15:52:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

my cousin shes a tomboy but she doesnt wear deodorant, perfume, doesnt use soap she takes showers in plain water, doesnt put lotion on her skin and she doesnt brush her teeth. she lives with me and my mom and i notice these things everyday. ive told her about herself but she simply ignores me. people are starting to talk what should i do im sick of it!?

2007-11-06 15:50:18 · 15 answers · asked by sexy sasha 2

My sister had 2 kids by a worthless drug adict abuser and married a great guy who adopted her kids and loved them like his own. He is still involved and takes them nearly every weekend. She screwed around on him for nearly a year and finally got divorced. She said she just "lost the spark" and has been completely wreckless with her kids. She is fake and says that she is "every man's fantasy because she is a "camellion" and can change to please anyone, meanwhile her kids pay the price. She is nearly 30 and needs to grow up. The adopted father would take the kids, but she is vicious and he is afraid to get into the court system, given the circumstances. She is now in trouble with the law & pregnant by the guy that she was cheating with (who is now unemployed). DHS really isn't an option, she's an eternal victim, and knows what to say. She can really tell a great story and those who don't know her are taken aback by her BS, I just know better. I want to stay close to watch the kids.

2007-11-06 15:38:01 · 6 answers · asked by michims 2

My husband has been accused of sexual things with out grand child, but it has not happened. I have been accused of being a witness to the happenings, but be assured my husband would be dead now if I had caught him doing anything with any of our grand children. He has been interviewed by the police & they even said that if they thought he was guilty, he would have been locked up. I really want to see my grandie, what steps can I take?

2007-11-06 15:30:27 · 6 answers · asked by Cynthia S 1

so many people say "You shouldn't have three children, because someone will always be left out" is this true? If you have three children do you feel obligated to have one more to even things out?
I would like to have three children, but my husband thinks children need to come in sets.
Are there struggles with having three that aren't an issue with two?

2007-11-06 15:13:21 · 13 answers · asked by LolaMola 4

For starters im not a kid so dont mistake me as some teenage kid but im having issues with my father hes a christian and im not really all that big on religion and hes always throwing stuff in my face about the devil and he told me I was gonna burn with him or some bs and he always blames everything negative on the devil even when he does something wrong he will turn the blame against somebody else he hasnt done much as a father either and hes stressing me out I have health issues with my heart and its not good for me to be under stress right now and he kept going off about the devil and told me he wasnt going to stop until I change and im not that bad hes wrecking what little relationship we have and today I asked him if he wanted a relationship with me after I moved out and he got all mad and was like I dont owe you nuthin and blah blah blah what do you think I should do about this situation? Cuz hes actin a pain in the you know what

2007-11-06 15:12:14 · 11 answers · asked by Musiclover2000 2

My biological family had my adoptive mom put in jail. I had nothing to do with it and was powerless to stop it. I need to write a letter apologizing for what they did and how I had nothing to do with it. I don't think she blames me but I need her to know the truth. I need to find a way to explain to her that I am not my family and I don't always agree with them. I even moved out of their house after they did this. How do I tell her so that she understands that you don't pick your family and you don't always agree with them? I don't want her to hold this against me and I want to be a part of her life again after all is said and done. HELP PLEASE!! Thanks

2007-11-06 15:03:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a father in-law... who is EXTREMELY hard to buy for... cause he has everything he wants.....

I can't think of anything apart from the likes of a TAG watch...

Any Ideas??

2007-11-06 14:55:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

help.....he scares me....what should i do?

2007-11-06 14:54:01 · 60 answers · asked by Kakashilove<3 3

my mom and dad are getting a divorce and they're going to court sometime around this month. i want to keep the house and live with my mom, but then my dad is an *** and he's demanding my mom for 110k if he's going to give up the house. also, he said my mom have to give 30k for the van, since my dad's getting the older car w/ less value. i think this is unfair b/c years ago, he would gamble and lose lots of money AND 30K which is how much the van costed. he also said he's going to take custody of my brother, which doesn't make sense, cuz he's legally an adult now(18). I am 15 and ever since i was little, my dad would abuse me physically, especially my brother. do u guys think that in court, my mom wouldn't have to give my dad so much money because of the things my dad has done?

2007-11-06 14:37:04 · 3 answers · asked by mandii 2

It all started soon after my fiance proposed to me. His mother all of a sudden became this obsessive control freak who felt that she had full rights to make decisions pertaining to my wedding. My future in laws have ostracized my fiance from their family, because we told them that they we were making the decisions as it is our wedding (and MY parents are paying for it). Then they told my fiance that they will not be attending the wedding and that they are no longer going to be involved in our lives. My fiance is crushed by this and his parents have manipulated their whole family into believing that my fiance "told them that he doesn't want them in our lives." This is completly untrue and I am at a loss of what to do for my fiance's sake. His whole family has abandonded him and the wedding is in in 7 months. Should we just let his family be or should we try to do something about it? Also they refuse to see me as I am "an evil person who is mentally unbalanced" oh yes and Selfish.

2007-11-06 14:01:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a 14 year old girl, and my mom died this past year...She had been fighting with cancer for a few years. I had been kind of the typical teenager, pretty rude at times, all "rebellious", moderately ungrateful...there were good times, too, and we were still pretty close...but there were big fights, rudeness, all the teenage stuff. That's all normal, but she died before I had the chance to stop being a teenager and tell her how much I really do love her and appreciate her...I'm scared that she died not thinking that I love her. I'm kind of scared that that's the reason she died, that it broke her will...if you were in this situation as a mother, would you know all along that your daughter does love you? would you know that she's just being a teenager, or would you be thinking that she doesn't love you when you die? please tell me the truth, I just want to know if I really did break my mother's heart or if she knew how much I would always love her. thanks

2007-11-06 13:50:41 · 17 answers · asked by Cricket 2

and your kids will do exactly as you say all the time they're under your roof? Or is it our house, and we'll work out things together?

2007-11-06 13:34:13 · 10 answers · asked by DavinaOpines 5

2007-11-06 13:06:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I live in the house that my parents died in and my aunt lives here with my daughter and I. My aunt however hasn't worked in almost 2 years and is SO depressed that when my daughter and I come how it's like walking into a dungeon. It's always dark and gloomy in here. My aunt hasn't showered in weeks and fights with me over the littlest things, I think to make her feel better. Anyway, she refuses to get a job or even go outside..I see a professional because I went throught the same visual trauma that made her depressed in the first place.(which I choose to not disclose) but my time here I feel is done. My daughter is only 4 years old and I don't want to subject her to this anymore, not to mention that it doesn't help in MY recovery either. I still work and I went back to college and I'm a single mom just trying to be the best that I can be for my daughters sake, but now I feel bad that I want to leave my aunt. SHe obviously needs help but won't seek it. I need to get out of here though.

2007-11-06 13:03:32 · 7 answers · asked by ♥CUTIE♥ 4

I have a grandma that cries every time I come to my friend's house in her town. I talk to her on the phone one day because she saw me at a church dinner and I didn't talk to her. We went home and she called and was mad because I didn't come to her house. I tried to tell her that I was only there for one day, but she started crying and hung up. I called her back later and told her that I was only there for one day and she got all cleared up. The strange thing of it is that she started being mad and flustered to being sad and crying. What should I do to make her feel less sad about me going to my friend's house?

2007-11-06 12:58:17 · 7 answers · asked by Bionacca Waters 3

My sis is supposed to have a baby (her first) in the next couple of days. She wants me to be at the hospital for the grand occasion, however i cant really do that as i live 500mi away. The rest of my family is planning to go to the hospital, so i feel bad that im not going to go. But after all i'm planning to drive down that way for thanksgiving and i dont want to drive 500mi there and back twice in the same month.
Anyways do you think i should send her flowers, or something of that sort. Or should I just bring her some when i visit for thanksgiving. Also are live flowers even a good idea with a new born in the house. I guess what i am i asking is - is there anything i can do to show her i still care since im not going to the hospital with the rest of my family.

2007-11-06 12:25:19 · 30 answers · asked by midnightjoker 5

im 11 years old almost 12 and nothing in my life ever goes right im ugly and fat and obviously my crush doesnt like me but thats the least of my problems! i had 6 bff's but they all ditched me and now im a loner that nobody likes i tried being friends with this new girl but she just spreads rumours about me! other then my old group of friends who i had been bff's for 4 years theres the popular group that i dont fit it at all and the loser group i tried hanging out with them but im actually not a loser im just a kid with a bunch of problems but not a loser and when i hung out with the losers i kept catching my vrush glance and stare at me but ive already told him i liked him and im sure he doesnt like me...but he always stares at me and bumps into me whats does that mean....anyways after school im all depressed and angry and let out all my anger on my mom and i cant stand my life any more and wanna get rid of my self im a big discrace my moms always saying why cant you be like ur sis..

2007-11-06 11:34:55 · 17 answers · asked by crazygal 2

Today in the morning my sister brought her boyfriend into our house and i had school so i have no idea what they did in the house while i was gone. But I did notice that they did something on the bed in my mom's room. God knows what they were doing there. I feel like I need to tell my mom that she snuck him in. But then again I don't want to be a snitch but to disrepect my moms bed that way that's just horrible. What do you think I should do?

2007-11-06 11:21:57 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

Like your husband has the right to go out since he earns the money, but not you? Or you can't go shopping to buy anything because you didn't "earn" the moneY?

2007-11-06 11:13:47 · 7 answers · asked by ♥bigmamma♥ 6

I never talked to her in my life, she smiles at me from across the room and she passed little love notes to me and she hugs me randomly and kisses me once in a while.

Today she came up to me and asked if she could kick me right in the nuts.

I thought it wouldnt hurt but it did, and then she asked if she could do it daily.

What do I do!?! I would hate to break her heart?

2007-11-06 11:06:05 · 64 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was adopted when I was 6 weeks old. My dad is from a Ukrainian/Canadian farm family, so I was always smaller than everyone else. The old man always insisted that I get an education, and I was the first person in the family to convocate from university, much less graduate from high school. Most of my relatives are boilermakers, and when I was going through university, I did concrete work with my dad. He's told lots of folks that I was the best worker he ever had. I'm 37, and every decision I've made in my life was wrong, according to him, from where I was going to work (I'm a teacher), to which place I was going to rent. My wife and I have 3 sons, and he told us that we should abort each one, because we weren't ready for them. How do I deal with this man? I love him and respect him, but all I ever get from him is negativity!

2007-11-06 10:23:00 · 16 answers · asked by neil k 3

all i know is their name,age and town they live in.am desperate to get in touch but have no phone number or address.have tried friends reunited but no luck.

2007-11-06 10:07:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I posted a similar question a while ago about my relationship with my stepfather, John. I've tried sitting down with him to talk, but that just led to awkward silence. Believe me I've tried just about everything, and even my brother's trying to help, but I just don't like John and I'm pretty sure he doesn't like me. And my mom still pretty much refuses to help and says this is something I need to work out with him but I kind of need my mother here! I've tried talking to everyone at dinner, but that worked for crap. Seriously, I have less than 3 years left in that house, but I don't want them to continue like this and I don't want to risk a broken relationship with my mom and brother in the future. Help!!!!

2007-11-06 10:05:49 · 3 answers · asked by Kate K 1

Even love and marriage proposals were offered to me in my early 20s, I never married.My focus was and still is on my parents whose business got bankrupt.I learned to grow up facing people whom they had financial obligations from because my parents couldnt pay them.Luckily I finished college ang got a job.My younger brother got married in his teens and is relying on us.Although my father has work, it wasnt enough to sustain family needs so i give all my monthly salary and i get money for daily allowance only.im feeling tired of working for them & they are asking more from me because the whole family needs it.it hurts that my debts are piling up.i have no future,no security.no one bothers to appreciate my efforts.my father told me he raised me so i could provide for them & pay for their debts.he said that's my role and responsibility.i cant bear to see them humiliated by others but im so angry at them.i wish i know how to think of myself & future before them without feeling guilty....

2007-11-06 09:42:53 · 5 answers · asked by Bridget Jones The Breadwinner 1