my cousin shes a tomboy but she doesnt wear deodorant, perfume, doesnt use soap she takes showers in plain water, doesnt put lotion on her skin and she doesnt brush her teeth. she lives with me and my mom and i notice these things everyday. ive told her about herself but she simply ignores me. people are starting to talk what should i do im sick of it!?
2007-11-06 15:50:18 · 15 answers · asked by sexy sasha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The soap yes and the brushing the teeth yes get you mum to talk to her
2007-11-06 15:53:49 · answer #1 · answered by Working Mum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heh.. well just to tell you.. I am a tomboy too. I, of course, brush my teeth, use soap, and put lotion on once in a while. Honestly, no one HAS to put deodorant or perfume. I'm perfectly fine without it. Tell her the problems she will get that will happen if she continues this. Probably she's just wants to impress some boys who have the same problem, not doing anything of those. If you really want to help her, then search online and look for some impacts she will get if she still continues. Also, tell you mom. It's okay that you tell on something, espcially on problems like this. Your not a tattle-teller. Always coperate with your mom and tell her any problems you have. Hope this helps. ^-^
2007-11-06 16:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a tomboy growing up but I always wore deodorant and brushed my teeth. If you and your mom take her up with you to do a few girly things like shoping for shampoos and stuff she will slowly get into it. Maybe you could go to the spa for a day or your mom could do all of those things in your home together. It a good way to help her learn without making her feel bad or just ask her when you are doing these things if she needs too. It might help her to have reminders that it need to be done everyday.
2007-11-06 16:17:50 · answer #3 · answered by DanniM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to work with a girl like that. Oh my. She looked like she ate a bag of Cheetos everyday. Her hair was all matted up. He breath was so hot it could melt metal. The ladies I work with went to Bath and Body Works and got her some personal items. I don't know if she used them. The maintenance men gave her a nickname. The called her Tuna Boat. Go to the store and get her some personal items and tell her to use them. She is a girl for crying out loud. I know she be ranked. How can you say that you take a shower without soap? She might as well not even take one. It's a waste of your money for the water bill. If I was your moms I would put her out if she doesn't change her ways. She is a health hazard. Do gnats be flying around her? Do her teeth look like she ate a bag of Cheetos? Do her breath smell like sour poop? Do her underarms smell like she has an onion patch growing under there? Do she smell like hot garbage?
2007-11-06 18:11:22 · answer #4 · answered by Bree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well nobody has to wear perfume but seriously bad if someone does not wear deoderant, tomboy doesnt mean you are a filthy pig it just means you aren't girly. Maybe she has some kind of mental thing going on, thats usually a behavioral problem when a child is told to shower multiple times and will not do so.
2007-11-06 15:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by ehrlich 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she is very gross. brushing your teeth is something that must be done. the others are not as important. if she doesn't brush her teeth, in the long run, she will suffer. she will get awful toothache and when she gets older and has to have all her teeth pulled out, she will regret not brushing them. by the way, how old is this girl? what does your mum think of the situation?
2007-11-06 16:04:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old is she? I would think it's ok not to do these things (well not the soap, or teeth) if shes under ten. not every girl has to use perfume or lotion. have you tried buying her her own bar of soap and her own deodorant? she most likely feels uncomfortable using yours.
2007-11-06 16:35:07 · answer #7 · answered by Far Dreamer 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
using soap and deordorant are must for any human being as well as brushing ur teeth. Even slobs do this.
u can without lotion and perfume. that is acceptable.
2007-11-06 16:03:16 · answer #8 · answered by spongebob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her!! It's not only about smelling nice but it's a matter of her health as well. She should use soap at least. How else can she draw out the impurities?
We are not in the middle ages!!!
2007-11-06 21:37:55 · answer #9 · answered by katipapadopoulou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
soap and toothbrush are things she should (really) use
perfume and lotion she does not NEED!!!
so hold her down and scrub her, when shes sleeping brush her teeth
spray perfume with out her knowing @ night if the stench is really bad
lotion feels icky
2007-11-06 15:57:52 · answer #10 · answered by mcruz927 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋