I have a grandma that cries every time I come to my friend's house in her town. I talk to her on the phone one day because she saw me at a church dinner and I didn't talk to her. We went home and she called and was mad because I didn't come to her house. I tried to tell her that I was only there for one day, but she started crying and hung up. I called her back later and told her that I was only there for one day and she got all cleared up. The strange thing of it is that she started being mad and flustered to being sad and crying. What should I do to make her feel less sad about me going to my friend's house?
2007-11-06 12:58:17 · 7 answers · asked by Bionacca Waters 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
yes Big Mama I have a job in a local vet clinic
2007-11-06 13:03:04 · update #1
I feel bad for her. She cries because she missed you. Go see her or have lunch with her of something. Shame on you!
2007-11-08 12:26:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First the Big Mama is the most heartless person on earth On day you will regrets the words you wrote on this site O K I am a grandma and yes our grand kids break our hearts Dont you see that your grandma is very lonely You could have drop by just 45 min with a pink rose and you would have put her in heaven for the rest of the day but you choose to be selfish I hope you will not shed a tear when she die
2007-11-06 22:31:08 · answer #2 · answered by lala 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a Grandma yet, but I kind of understand her situation. You know you are the daughter of her son or daughter...grandkids are very special to Grandmas, plus think about that they rasied all of her kids and now that everyone is grown up, they forget about her....we all do that. But that's not cool, spend few minutes to visit her, it won't take more than 20 minutes..and you'll spend many hours with your friends......just be with her, enjoy her...one day, she won't be there anymore. Grandmas are alone....
2007-11-06 21:15:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a specific trip to see her. Or, go out to lunch with her on a day you are with your friend. Even if it kills you, apologize for not seeing her and let her know that you care about her. I imagine she's lonely!
2007-11-06 21:03:15 · answer #4 · answered by Courtney 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just go to her house she probably misses u and just wants to spend time with you.
2007-11-06 21:03:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's a shame that you come to town and you can not spare one minute to call your grandmother or have a few minutes to go and see her. if i were your grandmother i would cry too!!!
shame on you!!!
2007-11-06 21:14:52 · answer #6 · answered by KRIS 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hand her a box of kleenex, and tell her to "Get over it!". Oh boo hoo! By the way, did you get a job yet???????
2007-11-06 21:01:25 · answer #7 · answered by big_mama is in da house! 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋