Family - November 2007

haha, they told me if i have sex, i'll die. and they said im not allowed to date until im grandma's age. haha.

2007-11-07 10:32:22 · 7 answers · asked by Evaの 6

It can be a real or a fictional family. Why would you like to belong to this particular family?

2007-11-07 10:31:33 · 8 answers · asked by tangerine 7

2007-11-07 10:26:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents are divorced and recently(September) he told me he didn't want anything to do with me so he could have a normal dating life. I happily agreed and have been living with my mom since. Now he wants to make up, but I'm not willing because of the abusive behavior he has subjected me to for 4 years. When my parents got divorced i was 10 and he told me if i said anyhting bad about him to the courts they wouldnt let me see him again, my mom would take his money which would force him to move out of state. That's illegal, but I was ten so I fell for it. My sister doesn't have a relationship with him either but she always spends time with his family on thanksgiving. He won't let me unless we "fix" things. What do I do? BTW getting back together isnt an option, he emotionally and physically abused me, my mom, and my sister.

2007-11-07 10:15:06 · 5 answers · asked by Emily 2

They are grown, and got along well from small thru high school. It really started at my son's wedding when his married sister and some friends messed his apartment up as a joke. They did not destroy anything. Now my son can't get past this and has said I always loved my daughter best and he wants really nothing to do with his family anymore. I am devastated.

2007-11-07 09:55:55 · 2 answers · asked by RBH 2

my mom doesn't want me to do ANYTHING or go ANYWHERE!!!!!!!

2007-11-07 09:48:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mom doesn't want me to do ANYTHING or go ANYWHERE!!!!!!!1

2007-11-07 09:46:48 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

I came home from work&my husband was sleeping while my 6month old was in a room on the other end of the house with the door closed.My 4yr old was walking around the house with dirty,urine smelling clothes on.I wake him up 2 find that he hadn't fed our 6mth old since morning(6.5 hrs ago) and he left her in her crib with the door closed 6hrsago because she wouldn't stop crying(I wonder why).He walks into the front room,goes to sleep& was awoke by me.My 4yr old hadn't eaten at all & had just been walking around the house all day(all the lights out,just as I left them).I was irate and pissed off,He acted like he'd done nothing wrong and mocked me for crying and being upset.He got on the phone with his mom and she's telling him I need to get self control & stop bringing up "the past" IE;All the other times he's pulled stuff like this(even left our kid by herself in the middle of the night once!).How could She try 2 turn the situation on me? What could be her motive for this?

2007-11-07 09:39:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is a family in my neighborhood that appear to be the "perfect" family. The husband is attractive, intelligent, a good provider and a good Daddy. The wife is 16 years younger than he and quite a pretty. She is President of the PTA and a good Mommy. They have 2 beautiful children, an 11yo boy and a 9yo girl. They just got a puppy; and have the perfect little house, on a perfect little street, in our perfect little neighborhood. Everything seems truly "perfect" but it's not. I know for a fact that the husband been having an affair, perhaps not his first, for over a year. The wife doesn't seem to have any idea. It just breaks my heart. I don't really know her. Do I keep this information to myself? Help, I need your advice, I'm at a loss!

2007-11-07 09:34:41 · 15 answers · asked by gem20 1

my brother recently turned 18; he always had a bad relationship with my mom and dad and he recently got kicked out of the house to live on his own. i know he'd been smoking weed and cigarrettes before behind our backs. He always looks tired, and sometimes he's extremely happy for no reason at all. My parents are allowing him to stay in our basement now. So he technically lives with us but pays rent. A couple of weeks ago i saw a slightly white shadow on his nose. I told him to wipe his nose& i thought nothing of it. When i come home somtimes he says he's using my room and I'm not allowed in. today he said i couldnt go in my room but broke the lock & saw my cousin who is my brother's roomate. i looked on my dresser and saw my long mirror drapped across it with 7 little piles of coke arranged on the mirror. I tried to act as if i didnt see anything. i exchanged awkward conversation with my cousin then left. is my brother on coke or is he just selling? no that ones better than the other

2007-11-07 09:28:44 · 29 answers · asked by [ x y z ] 3

Mine was when i was 3 and my mom had my sister i remember going to the hospital with my dad and i was standing on a big hill and could see my mom waving to me through the window.

2007-11-07 09:22:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've tried talking to my husband about sharing responcibilities 50-50 - after his mother had said something about me needing to do all of the work and him going along with it. He says he'll try to do better. However, I'm very worried about his mother visiting so often, and planting little seeds in his head. All of his life, it's only been him and his mother - no father - and she's literally obsessed with him. He's been brought up that anything she says, goes.

Despite how many hours I work, 6 days a week, his mother continues to tell him that since I have a home business, everything is my responcibility. She repeats it multiple times - and then takes him out shopping and out to eat - just the two of them - to get on his good side.

My husband, whom I've been with for 10 years, married since May, never once showed a sign of being like this. Then again, his mother wasnt around very much until now. She was gone for most his adolescence and teenage years.

2007-11-07 09:18:12 · 6 answers · asked by icedfantasies 3

Well unfortunately, I don't have much space to work with here, but let me say that this is a hard question for me to say. Nevertheless, I feel I have to.

My step-father is an alcoholic. HIs episodes of drinking are violent, angry, and have resulted in abusive fights with my mother. The things he's done have cause irreversible harm to me, my nine-year old sister, and possibly my four-year-old brother. Luckily, he's never touched any of us. If he ever did, it would cause me to do a lot more harm to him than me.

The problem is, he only drinks when my mother isn't home or when she works late. He'll be the only one to watch us and drink alcohol or vodka he's hidden in the house. I don't know what kind of sick person would choose this over us, but he has.

If I had more room, I might be able to go into the problem in more detail but unfortunately I don't. Bottom line, I don't know what to do.

2007-11-07 09:10:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

tomorrow is my grandmas birthday and im going to call her to tell her happy birthday. she is sick so she cant move. she pretty much sits home watching tv all day alone, so calls like this really make her day. but i dont know what to say. i want it to be a pretty long call where we actually talk. no awkward silences. what should i say?

2007-11-07 08:51:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

How long did it take for you to get it back together? how do you feel now?

2007-11-07 08:47:52 · 18 answers · asked by \ 5

to try to find her for reasons I can't begin to explain. Any advice?

I am in Las Vegas, my Father is in Michigan, and my sister is in Tennessee. I will be in Green Bay from the 9th to the 12th of this month; that is why I am asking this now.

2007-11-07 08:35:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

for the 1st 3 yrs we were 2gether i worked full time, he did not. i even worked when i was pregnant up to the day i went into labor, then 6wks later back to work. he stayed home played video games and when he did clean the house it was half way, i would come home clean and cook. now in our 4th four yr i stay home take care of baby clean cook, all that stuff. when he gets home its in the door off with the shoes on the computer, eats while on the net, then 4 or 5 hrs later comes over to me so i can rub his feet for about 25min the he goes to bed, am i wrong to want like 3 nights a wk for him to spend at least 2hrs with me and only 2hrs on the computer?

2007-11-07 08:33:16 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

her dad doesnt want her to. we wanna move in a small apartment she'll be graduating in march. i know its early to graduate in march but thats how her school is so whatever. i've known her since we were 15, went to same school, hit it off right away. now she's 17 will be 18 in December 13. i'm 19 and a sophomore at California State University and have a football scholarship. i dont know why her dad doesnt like me. any advice on how we should tell her dad?? also how can i make him like me?

2007-11-07 08:32:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I found out today that my 7 year old son has been stealing money from my other son's piggy bank. He was stealing quarters to buy pencils out of the pencil machine at school. I have no idea how long he's been doing it and I only found out when I asked to see everybody's piggy bank and notice a bunch was missing from the other son. My oldest daughter is the one who told me the 7 year old was stealing it. I have never been in this sort of parenting predicament before and not sure what is a fair punishment. I am extremely upset and disappointed in him, but don't want to let that influence his punishment.

2007-11-07 08:23:05 · 10 answers · asked by tmb 2

My mother's rent is done on a sliding scale. She failed to report it to the powers above... she is still a temp she was only suppose to work for a few weeks but she has worked more then 4 months now. She isn't on pay roll but she is asking to be on pay roll.
Power from above sent paper work she will be revaluated in March 2008 she is scared they are going to get her on fraud ( i know it is) however She is over 50 years old and in poor health.
She is going to see if she can be on payroll and then report it i hope she does at least!
What words can i offer in comfort other then cross the bridge when you get to it!

she is soo worried
I never understood why she would lie it's wrong thank goodness i don't follow her!

any thoughts on what may happen what i should say she is like my kid and i feel for her but for the most part i said she is shouldn't stress about something that is NOW out of her control and i told her to stop lieing she is thinking of other lies to cover this i saidno

2007-11-07 08:08:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

can you prove a mother unfit if her childs sleeps on the couch and not in bed room live with boyfriend and is devoiced lives in a trailer and has no room for him to sleep in my b/f wants his son badly and the mother said it would be to stressfull on her to give her custody he has little for att please help us

2007-11-07 07:50:43 · 3 answers · asked by robyn k 1

My 3 year old son has recently started hitting me when he gets mad. I put him in time outs and eventually end up spanking him. How can i get him to stop with out reverting to hitting myself?

2007-11-07 07:39:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi friends....i used to love my parents...But perhaps my parents have become old now.They are behaving sarcastic and cheap.I can`t tolerate their sarcastic jokes either.They are hurting my self-respect.Why are they behaving like that?Do they feel i don`t deserve any respect?Or are they taking me for granted?I don`t expect anything from them,but i am not as grown up as to become independent..What do i do?Help me

2007-11-07 06:55:38 · 4 answers · asked by i_love_life 2

Besides my son, I am not happy with my life. I just left his father, who was emotionally, and physically abusive and I moved back home with mom. I work at a job I hate, but I have good benifits, so I stick with it. I don't know what to go to school for because I don't like anything, or anybody at this point so I am just a fixture at the university. I am talking to a guy who is 2 hours away and wants me and my child to move in with him. My son has autisim. I don't know if I put enough faith into God because sometimes I feel alone. I don't have friends I can talk to because I end up hearing about their problems. I pray, pray, pray and pray, coming up with no answers. I am confused, tired, and emotional. I also am looking for a job, my present one makes me want to vomit. I would continue on, but if I do someone may recommend Dr Phil Lol. I just don't know who to go to with any problm at this point. Everyone's input will be appreciated

2007-11-07 06:36:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-07 06:16:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My father told me while he was in Las Vegas he met Don Rickles. He said Don Was very insulting toward him......I cant believe Don would ever insult a fellow human being, therefore I think my Dad is not telling the truth...

2007-11-07 06:13:22 · 10 answers · asked by dkj9002000 1

I live in a small town in Cameron, South Carolina. Anyways I always have had my favorit son. He was the captain of the football team, a active member in his church and volunteers at the local nursing home. Everything was fine until yeasterday. He decided to come out of the closet. When this happened I did the only rational thing any father would do. I grabed him and forced him into a strip club. I then said to him, "look at this until your stright." Anyways I think that cured but I am still worried. What if he lied to me. I know that I might have to hurt him or disown him if he is still one of them. Anyways I was wondering how can I make sure he wasn't lying to me so I won't have to take such drastic messures.

2007-11-07 06:06:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Over the last year my aunt has had it pretty rough. She lives alone with 4 dogs. But lately she has been seeing this guy who is about 10 years younger.(Age dosen't bother me) He moved in with her about a month ago and she has never been the same since. My father (Her brother) went over to her home a few weeks ago and saw that she had started taking drugs. (Not sure what Type) Once my dad said something to her about it, She told him to get out of her house and if he ever came back she would "Blow his Brains out". Before all this they were very close like best friends. She also threated me. Then about 2 days ago she calls and our home and says that she is going to commit sucide because her life isn't worth living. Then yesterday she tells us that she is out on the streets. She lost everything bec. she spent it all on drugs. Wat should we do?? Do we help her or do we let her figure things out on her own???? Sorry for such a long story :)

2007-11-07 05:59:50 · 8 answers · asked by ..... 2

and i like to known when this move will this month I would like to be in my place before thanksgiving with my cat and i like to known when this will all hanpen where I,m at i dont like it at all I would like to before the holidays come and what in store for my future I need some anwers. with this matter thanks.see my sister is helping with this matter I like to be move before the hoildays.I tonks. something going to hapen for it going to be good thanks.vanessa

2007-11-07 05:51:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a relative that has two siblings that were put up for adoption before he was born. One of these sibling is in the family but the relative has no idea that he is his brother. I came by this information when I was a teenager by overhearing a conversation. His mother will never tell him about his brother because of her emberassment at the fact she was pregnant before she was married, I believe he has a right to know he has a brother. he also has a sister but I do not know her idenity. Do I tell of not? I feel he should know but I am conflicted, any advice!

2007-11-07 05:46:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous