Today in the morning my sister brought her boyfriend into our house and i had school so i have no idea what they did in the house while i was gone. But I did notice that they did something on the bed in my mom's room. God knows what they were doing there. I feel like I need to tell my mom that she snuck him in. But then again I don't want to be a snitch but to disrepect my moms bed that way that's just horrible. What do you think I should do?
2007-11-06 11:21:57 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell your mom. Your sister might thank you one day. She could get pregnant if they were doing things. She'll regret it for the rest of her life. Don't let her make that mistake.
2007-11-06 11:25:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
i wouldn't say anything. it will only make your sister mad at you for it. then she will tell your mom every little thing you do to get even. i hope you left your mom's bed the way your sister did. your mom will ask questions when she notices it. you could honestly say you were at school. then your mom would question your sister about it, or at least be wiser to what goes on when she isn't there. some times parents see evidence, ask questions, and wait for more evidence before making a final decision on things. your mom might have been suspecting somethings going on, and seen things before you did in the past. i feel the same as you though, she should of used her own bed, etc before violating someone elses space.
some times life is just easier if you sit back, and watch the show so to speak.
2007-11-06 11:35:29 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A nicely-written letter. i'm sorry the home is in chaos real now. inspite of the undeniable fact that from the outdoors: the stepfather is utilising his very own father's loss of life as an excuse to take excitement in drink and medicines and not get a role, collectively as around him the different adults are all working very perplexing.he won't get lower back on his ft in case you're allowing him.He began each and all of the hitting and slapping. The boyfriend does not appreciate his lady buddy being slapped by potential of this bully.i think stepfather have been given what he deserved, it rather is a warning call for him to help himself.as quickly as he varieties himself out, might take months, i'm confident you will see him lower back, if it rather is your difficulty.yet your mom has in all threat had adequate of him.
2016-09-28 11:50:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your sister. And don't freak her out. The first thing she will want to say is "Oh My God don't tell mom!" Assure yourself by asking her questions about the relationship. If she is trustworthy and knows about pregnancy, what is wrong and right, and her future, keep it quiet for a while. If the boy does not sound trustworthy and you don't believe what she said about the bed, tell.
2007-11-06 11:26:51 · answer #4 · answered by Tabby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think they were playing twister on your moms bed thats for sure. the least they could do is make the bed after they were done,and youre right, its disrepectful, if somebody was ummm doing something on my bed i'd wash the sheets and blankets. so ,if you dont wanna get her in trouble, then try to tell her that she made a mess on the bed,and it was obvious,and how would she like it if someone did that on her bed and left god knows what on the sheets,and she slept in it without knowing.
2007-11-06 11:31:07 · answer #5 · answered by dajram 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your sister about it. Let her know it bothers you and that you feel it's disrespecting your parents home.
Don't tell your mom unless you feel your sister may be in danger.
In the long run, most kids sneak bf/gf into their parents house. It's something you two can bond over in the future.
2007-11-06 11:27:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you snitch on your sister it is gonna bite u in the a$$! There is nothing worse than a little sister that snitches about everything!! Don't tell on her..
2007-11-06 11:59:53 · answer #7 · answered by Sicily 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your mom will probably figure it out on her own. They probably left a lot of very nasty residue all over the bed and your mom is sure to find it. Worse, she might end up getting it smeared all over her and that will mean hell to pay. Just sit back and wait for the fireworks to begin.
2007-11-06 11:26:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your Mom; that's not snitching. It happened in your Mom's house and on Mom's bed. You are doing your sister a favor by telling on her cuz your sister may have gotten pregnant or will if you don't intervene (tough love).
2007-11-06 11:34:12 · answer #9 · answered by ♪♫Tweedle Dee♪♫ 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it depends on how old she is, over 18-dont tell, under 18 maybe if she isnt on birth control and may get pregnant, but talk to her bout it b4 u say anything to ur mom, and tell ur sis it is so gross to do anything on a bed where ur mom has most likely done stuff too
2007-11-06 11:26:47 · answer #10 · answered by Lin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who should tell your Mom,what your sister did was wrong.
2007-11-06 11:51:10 · answer #11 · answered by karazee! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋