suicide at 12....?

Question

im 11 years old almost 12 and nothing in my life ever goes right im ugly and fat and obviously my crush doesnt like me but thats the least of my problems! i had 6 bff's but they all ditched me and now im a loner that nobody likes i tried being friends with this new girl but she just spreads rumours about me! other then my old group of friends who i had been bff's for 4 years theres the popular group that i dont fit it at all and the loser group i tried hanging out with them but im actually not a loser im just a kid with a bunch of problems but not a loser and when i hung out with the losers i kept catching my vrush glance and stare at me but ive already told him i liked him and im sure he doesnt like me...but he always stares at me and bumps into me whats does that mean....anyways after school im all depressed and angry and let out all my anger on my mom and i cant stand my life any more and wanna get rid of my self im a big discrace my moms always saying why cant you be like ur sis..

and im depressed 24/7

Answer 1

Omg. You sound like me at twelve. You sure you're not my twin? Anywho, you have a whole life ahead of you. I had family problems, my parents seemed always super strict and annoying, and school problems, I felt friendless and alone, and emotional problems, I felt ugly and I hated being 'overweight'. Constantly I was reminded that no matter what, I still has myself. I still remind myself, no matter what, I am talented, pretty, smart, and awesome. If you keep your head up, and remember you have more days to come, you'll be fine. Everyone has those seasons when they feel worthless, it passes, trust me. You'll make it, girl. Trust me.
(Email me back, I'd like to keep posted. =)

Answer 2

dont let people treat u bad it doesnt matter what u look like in the outside its whats in the inside and if that guy cant see that then u can do soo much better dont let it get you down also those gurls if they wont excpt u then find some new friends and when u get home put everything behind u and take a deep breath and try not let it ruin ure day u can control ure feelings if this doesnt help try talking 2 a consular or ure mom or someone close 2 u
hope i helped
god bless

Answer 3

I had a very rough time when I was your age too!. I felt all alone. Both of my grandma's had died, and I felt like I didn't have a friend in the world. It's not easy being 12, but things change. I would definitely talk to a school counselor or an adult you can trust -- especially if you are feeling suicidal. Your life matters.

Answer 4

Hello,,when all else fails try praying for your guardian angels to take away some of the emotional pain. Perhaps life is not good for everyone else either but must use the brain power given to us to reach a happier place that is just next to us all. But out of sight to the depressed soul. Relax and go for a walk and look up at the stars and maybe see the comet up there too!!

Answer 5

Please don't hurt yourself. As others have mentioned you're very young and you have a long life ahead of you. I know you feel that your whole world is turned upside down right now.

I suffered from depression from a very young age myself. Suicide is NOT the answer. Someone I knew committed suicide and it hurt allot of people really bad. If he only knew how much he was loved.

Please Please Please read this article on young people and suicide. http://www.watchtower.org/e/19980908/article_03.htm

As you read it, you'll notice that what you feel is common. You're not alone. There are other things that can be done to cope with the way you feel. Just don't hurt yourself. People love you more than you know. You're still growing. Even in a couple of years or less, you will look and feel different about allot of things. You'er still discovering who you are. Allow yourself to grow up.

Talk to an adult that you trust.

If you want, email me and I can send you a link to other articles like the one above.

Answer 6

well, when I was your age, one day in the car with my mom and sister, I thought about opening the car door and jumping out to kill myself. I had your same problems only worse. Now I am 58, I didnt kill myself, and I am so glad. I grew up got thin, pretty, got married had 3 children. I didnt realize it then, but God was with me when I was growing up, and he called me into the catholic church, I am glad I didnt kill myself, I might have not made it to heaven cuz I was not taught anything about Jesus. Im not a religious fanatic, but young kids can grow up with many problems, killing yourself dont help you. Did you know, that you have an immortal soul and it will live forever. your soul is your will, your intellect and your memories. You are not alone in feeling this way sweetie, we all go thru it some time or other in our lives. Life is hard, it presents so many trials and unhappiness, but also it presents good things, like the love of your life, your first little baby, your first sucess at one of your goals, parks, flowers sunshine, kids and babies and puppy dogs and kittens. school will end before you know it, and you will just recall your school day as happy or not so happy, but just know you are not alone in life, there is a God who loves you more than you know, and who has a good plan for your life, killing yourself, you'll never know the great joy in store for you. Go see a counselor, I used to see one and I dont think it costed anything. They got stuff like this for kids. Hang in there princess you are gona be alright!!!!

Answer 7

Death is not the answer, it never is. You shouldn't care so much about what anyone thinks of you. Next time your mom compares you to your sister, politely tell her that you are you and no one else. You say you're fat, do something about it, try exercising. With healthy eating and exercise, you should be fine when you reach 14 or15 because you're still growing. You'll find friends, but don't change who you are to be with someone. You want friends to like you for who you are. Things will get better, just wait.

Answer 8

Maybe you and your mom can get counsiling and then things will get better for school it's not all bad about being a loner i know that it hurts sometimes but i'm sure things will get better. I used to have the same problem but i'm not in high school grade 10 i have a boyfriend who i love and a great family by me and you wanna know how i got this happy. Counseling my mom and i got out how we feel and it really worked.

Answer 9

Okay, let's take things one at a time. first you are not ugly. No one is, really except for Michael Jackson after all the surgery he has had. we are all different and what may not be attractive to one person will be attractive to some one else.
I am not even sure you are fat because at 11 you still have what is called baby fat but if you think so, try to get on a good diet to help and don't eat when you feel depressed because that will not help. You might see if your mother will go to counseling with you because she shouldn't be comparing you to your sister like that and should be supporting you instead.
Don't worry about boys at your age because they will be chasing you in time but try to build up your self esteem so that you feel better about your self. I will give you a link to a good book to help with that.
One way to feel better about yourself is to concentrate more on school and your grades and as they improve you may find others hanging around you if for no other reason, to get help with their school work. You can get some DMAE from a health food store and it will increase your memory and concentration and there are no side effects to it. All of my friends who are still in college have thanked me for telling them about it because it has helped them so much with school there.
I was the same way you are feeling now when I was your age - I thought I was skinny though - and I dealt with that by reading. I read every book in the school library the first year I was there. You are not a disgrace, and I might even think your mother is because she should be trying to find you ways to feel better and not comparing you to your sister.
Because you have low self esteem, that may be why others feel uncomfortable around you but if you raise that, you will see a change in the way that they act and you may not want to be around them then.
This is a hard time in your life but for many who seem to be friends with so many people their hard times may be yet to come. Good luck!!

Answer 10

Welcome to life. do you really think offing yourself will solve anything? no, you ll just make everyone Else's life sadder and potentially the same as the one you have now, suicide is selfish, the "easy way out'' you can solve your problems a lot more conveniently for everyone else.

dont put this on the Internet, where people can say whatever they want, like "do it do it do it!!!!" or "let me join you"

your seeking attention to fix your problems.

your 12, you have it easy as far as I'm concerned, speak to the people fighting over seas or who already did, watched their best friends bleed to death in their arms, people who went through the depression almost starved to death, people in other country's who have oppression, and corrupt leaders. you have it better than them, yet they can find the courage and dignity to be happy with the life they have, you commiting sucide would only proves that you are weak willed, and have no respect for what others have provided so willingly to you.

youve got 70 years to go.

keep that in mind.

actually that fact its self is reason enough to want to end it. but you dont see people doing it now do you?

your not the only one with problems, but it seems your one of the only ones who cant handle it.

think about what i said.

you should feel pathetic about what youve been thinking.