Not long ago, i moved out of home, because my mum got a new boyfriend and started shutting me out, ignoring me and blaming me for absolutely everything.
Her boyfriend is a JERK. he usually yelled at me and called me very offensive names.
So i moved in with my grandparents.
A couple of weeks later, my friend told me that my mums boyfriend told her that he had said i was a bad daughter and that i didn't love my mum cause i left her.
I think i did tha right thing by myself, as it had gotten too much for, because of school and all my exams and stuff.
Too much strees.
2007-11-06 16:23:34 · 8 answers · asked by Lanabee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You shouldn't feel any guilt over leaving your mom. You made the best decision for yourself and your future. She is the one that is supposed to be providing for you in this stage of life. Hopefully she will come to her senses and choose you over the jerk but it might take awhile. Just call her to talk and ask her out to lunch occasionally and make sure you voice your opinion of the jerk. Don't hide your feelings - she needs to know that you don't approve of him or his behaviour and that is why you left. If you continue to show love even when she isn't it will eventually work a miracle!
Blessings!
2007-11-06 16:32:36 · answer #1 · answered by Evan S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a responsible daughter Your intuition tells you there is something not right with your moms boyfriend You found a safe place to go to You were concerned with school and your own well being That is something your mom should have been concerned with Remain in your grandparents home get good grades Have a relationship with your mom but put up boundries Have her meet you at your grandparents or a common place minus the boyfriend You have shown great love and respect for your mom and yourself
2007-11-06 16:34:10 · answer #2 · answered by chameleon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did the right thing and don't worry about what your mom or her boyfriend think you did what is best for you and it is your mothers job to do that for you. You are a brave girl I wish I've had that bravery 20yrs ago my life would have been so much different besides he can stop being your moms boyfriend and be out of her life any time but you will always be her daughter. I hope she sees the truth and apreciates the great daughter she has.
2007-11-06 16:37:09 · answer #3 · answered by ednaywilliams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Well, let me just tell you one thing... you didn't do the wrong thing. If your mom loves a jerk, then forget it. If they are very rude, mean, immature, and/or jerks.... let it go. Honestly, you need to think of you own life right now and education comes first. It was very stupid, no offense, that you mom loved a jerk who was very rude to her own daughter. Ignore the rude comment that he made. Ask you grandparents, when they have time and are in a good mood, why they think your mom is treating you like this. It's good to ask questions.. espcially ones that you really are thinking about and giving you stress. Your young and you don't need any stress right now. If you think you did the right thing, you did the right thing. Just focus on you education right now and forget about them. Seems like that your always thinking about them... but just think of a very happy place and try to relax and forget about them. Your grandparents can help you and ask some questions that are very bothering you. Hope I can help you. ^-^
2007-11-06 16:40:51 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not a bad daughter..... you have a lot going on and if your in school you should have a place to call home and get your school work done with out any hassels at home.
you have a wonderful head on your shoulders. pat yourself on the back you are brave to move out with your grandparents. thank the lord for them. Good luck dear.
2007-11-07 05:28:53 · answer #5 · answered by jennajade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i highly doubt that you are a bad daughter! no matter what you do or anything your mever classified as a bad daughter! people do things thats life, you learn from them mistakes! your mother and you hsould have a civil conversation about what is going on and let her know how you truly feel even if the feeling that you will cry comes still tell her! tell her the reason why you left and all! as a mother she would understand!
2007-11-06 16:32:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that does not make you a bad daughter............. your lucky you have your grandparents though............. this thing she has with this guy wont last........... she is lonely and needs attention from the opisite sex............. she will get over it and move on and you will have your mum back.....
2007-11-06 16:30:22 · answer #7 · answered by jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU KNOW WHAT IS RIGHT AND WRONG. IF IT FEELS WRONG DO AS YOU DID.
IF MOM LET YOU GO OVER A BOYFRIEND SHE IS NOT A MOM.
A REAL MOM WOULD KILL TO KEEP HER CHILDREN.THROW OFF ANY LOVER WHO TRIED TO SEPARATE YOU TWO.
2007-11-06 16:30:48 · answer #8 · answered by ahsoasho2u2 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋