Family - August 2007

Im 23, I have a 2 yr old with my girlfriend. Our relationship has always been rocky and recently she got into this thing where everytime we fight she threatens me with child support.

Ive always had a job and have no problem supporting my child, I always have. We live together but She kicked me out recently because she said i was always "upset." Well shes a selfish witch who expects to be treated like a queen but does not know how to treat a king.

So for about a month ive been at my brothers house, but she calls every night saying she needs to go wal-mart, or wants to go to the movies or shes lonely. But we fight all the time. We just dont get along at all. I dont know what to do..........please help, Thanks

2007-08-06 06:37:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

my question is as follows, my 20 year old daughter is wondering if she crossed the line in a roomate situation, so here,s how everything went down. She lives with her best friend and her best friends brother, she moved in with them about a month ago. Well my daughters boyfriend who works out of town and whom my daughter has,nt seen in a month, due to work issues, came back into town and took it upon himself to stay the night at my daughters house with her roomates. My daughter asked permission from her best friend if she could have her boyfriend stay the night but did,nt ask the brother. So anyway when the brother found out about her boyfriend staying the night he blew up and told her it,s not working out and she would have to move. Now my daughter is all upset and wondering why he got so pissed. I told her its disrespectful and she was out of line, so any feedback or advise would be appreciated.

2007-08-06 06:28:41 · 10 answers · asked by penelope 5

okay so in may i asked to go to drivers ed-so get could get my permit. my mom kept saying "well see" so when the time came my step dad said yes and he said that im my mom's little baby& that she doesnt want to see me driving and its a big step for her. SO i went to drivers ed, &after i completed it a certificate in the mail was supposed to come about 3 days later so i could then go to the DMV & get my permit...well a week later nothing showed up, & i kept asking my mom if it came in and she kept saying "NOO KELLY! NO" well i had a feeling she wasnt giving it to me, & she kept mail in the box on the fridge where she keeps my sisters mail(she doesnt live with us)& other mail my mom doesnt open & stuff. so when my mom left 1 day i looked in the box on top of the fridge & what do you know!there is my certifcate!!i was so mad so i asked her about it & she goes "i thought it was your sisters" but c'mon! she always gives me mail to me!&right on the envelope it said "certificate blala"

2007-08-06 06:17:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom is pissing my fregin out

2007-08-06 06:11:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-06 06:00:43 · 17 answers · asked by botton 1

hey im a fraternal twin, does any1 else on here have a twin?????

2007-08-06 05:57:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I spent 600 dollars the last two months. She will let me starve at Christmas as a punishment because of high utility bills and she will not take money out of the bank to do this. She did not approve my cut back plan and she will leave me without any food. Do I take her to court?

2007-08-06 05:54:01 · 4 answers · asked by initmador 3

What's the basic cost for a funeral? Casket, viewing, etc.

2007-08-06 05:53:57 · 4 answers · asked by Unknown, CA 2

i havent seen him in about 15 years and the last i heard he had been in and out of prison

2007-08-06 05:53:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have struggled with this for years, granted through my adolescence, and early twenties I did not have the best judgement, but now, i am going to be thirty in a bout a week. I feel like my father is constantly critisizing everything I do, being judgemental...etc. My sister's are always telling me that he tells them how proud he is of me, but he never tells ME....
We didn't have the best relationship, and it ping pongs back and forth. some years I think we are actually getting closer, and then He does or says something to truely offend me and I figure "why bother". I have worked really hard over the last three years to try and build a relationship with him. But I feel like he will never see me as anything more than the 14 year old screw up he knew back then.
Does anyone have any advice on this? I have tried talking, tried explaining, tried letters, etc......
It seems that his biggest problem is that he only knows the details about my life that I share with him. Any ideas?

2007-08-06 05:42:30 · 10 answers · asked by Princess_Baby_Bird 2

He is bipolar and refuses to take medication. He works partime but does not contribute at all. He spends his money on Starbucks and cigarettes. I won't let him smoke in the house but if I'm gone he does it anyway.

2007-08-06 05:31:59 · 18 answers · asked by Dotties 1

I have 3 stepchildren (girl age 12, boy age 10 and boy age 7) who I have been raising as my own for nearly 3 years. I also have 2 biological sons. My step children's mother was missing in action for 2 years (living in a barn with her abusive and alcoholic husband) and just began seeing the kids again in January of this year. We have worked very hard to buy a home and raise the kids responsibly with equal love and support...but the biological mom is very dramatic and a ton of drama has begun to unfold. All of my stepchildren want to live with their Mom now...not a real possibility because of the drinking, drugs, violence and mental abuse. Biomom's husband regularly shouts abuses their Mom in front of my stepchildren and their Mom's mother in law (who lives in the home with their Mom) despises my step children...only showing kindness to her "real" grandchildren. Still, they want to live with her and they have started writing notes to Mom (leaving them out for us to see) that

2007-08-06 05:21:19 · 8 answers · asked by just me 4

Alright My Nephew( he is 14 yrs old and I am 18 yrs old) and I Were Just walking around town After awhile of walking I'm like Alright im done walking. My nephew is like is it because their are girls behind us, and I didnt even know their were girls behind us I just heard loud voices so I was like what girls and turned my head for a half a second then turned and contiued walking then the girls said take a picture it will last longer i really didnt know what they said my nephew did, I thought that was the most stupidiest thing to do, to say take a picture itll last longer to a complete stranger Im come from a kinda rough background and even I know better to not just smart off to someone in the street, why dont parents teach their kids this? seriusly My nephew and I could of been some guys lookin for girls to rape, I think thats why alot of kids end up dead because they smarted opff to a stranger

2007-08-06 04:51:39 · 8 answers · asked by vengeance45458 2

My mother is unemployed. I get social security checks each month because my father died. All I can afford to give her is $200, and she wont take because it's not enough! I have my own bills to pay. My grandmother I cannot stay with for various reasons. I pay for all my own clothes, shoes, my cell phone, school supplies, and food, which she ends up eating almost all of it! She wont get over her childhood dream of being a writer so she thinks she can pay the bills by sitting on her butt and trying to take money which is rightfully mine. I cannot afford an apartment on my own, or I would have already gotten it. How can I tell her I will not pay any more that what I get? I dont even get privacy, she'll walk in on me when I'm getting dressed, talking on the phone, on my computer, even when I'm with my boyfriend, to complain about her bills. I wont pay for her dream any longer, and I'm sick of being her pincusion. It isnt my responsibility. This has been happening since Dad died 3 years ago

2007-08-06 04:45:20 · 10 answers · asked by writergirl 3

They've been married 61 years and have never been apart. Dad has been getting worse and is now dilusional most of the time. Mom does'nt want to let him go.

2007-08-06 04:37:28 · 16 answers · asked by jammer 2

ok you might could say this is but yesterday night I had asked a question about my step daughter saying she is bisexual but she isn't she was only kidding around with me I mean why would she do this?Is she trying to see if I am mom matirial or something?I really don't understand her at times but then at times it like I'm in her body so why do you think she lied to me?She has a boyfriend named Hunter and they have both NEVER had sex they have never gone any where together alone they have both either been with their mom and dad or me and my husband so what do you think?

2007-08-06 04:33:51 · 9 answers · asked by Grace 1

my little sister is 11 and she rlly hates reading all she does is sit in front of the computer or watch tv. i really want her to start reading more everytime we go to the lirbary she says she cant "find" any books. and her school needs her to read 3 books over the summer and we have less than a month till we go back. how can i encourage her to read more? the only books she ever reads that ive seen are either picture books or rlly thinn little babie books..i know i cant force her if she doesnt like reading but how can i at least make her want to read it more.?

2007-08-06 04:31:25 · 6 answers · asked by Daisy! 5

Like my sister she is 4th grade and many times dosn't even know a thing that a 2nd grader know

2007-08-06 04:17:48 · 10 answers · asked by Grey Wolf 2

I tried my hardest to get along with her and I did ok for a few months. We got into a fight and stopped talking. When my bro in law dumped her she wanted to talk to me since I was her only friend and even then we still weren't friends since the fight. i've talked to her a few times because I do know how hard it is to lose someone you love. Well today I went on my myspace and the biatch left this bulletin:
Why is it that friends are there when it is convient for them but not when you actually need them?
Why is it that you give your all to be there for the ones you have close to you but when you need them they are no where to be found?
Is it really too much to ask to have someone be there for you in your times of need?
To everyone who just needs someone but you have no one...
It is a cold hard world out there...
Stay strng because in the end all you have is yourself...
Should I be offended and send her an email asking what the hell her problem is or just let it go? I am 110% sure it was a pun intended towards me beings that I was her ONLY friend.

2007-08-06 04:16:36 · 2 answers · asked by Laymo 2

I have went to all of the proper agencies only to be told that nothing is to be done. I went to DHS, Jackson Police(here in the state of MS where we are from). I have contacted our local newspaper The Clarion Ledger, WLBT 3(Three On Your Side) both have declined thier services.I emailed the National Center For Abused Children with no reply, God is my witness that I cannot and will not believe that here in our great country, in this year 2007 that no one cares, that we have became so immune to the abuse of children that we just don't care. Please check out these allegations.Then rally with me and others whom the system has looked the other way and say No No Not This Time Not This Child! This is bigger than just my little angel, this is for all unchallenged, overlooked abuses of our children. I took my baby to the local MS Children Advocacy Center here in the city and their results after their interview with my daughter says that it shows constitency with abuse. Help! Charles Wilson

2007-08-06 04:12:02 · 9 answers · asked by charles w 1

I have had a strained relationship with my mom for many reasons too many to include in this email, one her not showing up at my wedding, and choosing men over me for years but I still try to visit her. My husband and I drove 7 hours to go visit her this weekend and she acted cold, and looking for a fight, toward her husband and us and made the visit a total downer. They never come visit us, but she tries to guilt me into coming to see her. They never go out and do anything not even out to dinner. I feel guilty for not liking to visit my mom but it seems like I am always the one putting forth effort. What should I do?

2007-08-06 04:10:31 · 2 answers · asked by TennesseeGirl 2

i am almost 13 years old and my mom has told me that i don't need to shave yet. i've asked her a few times and she says no each time.i'm afraid if she finds out that i'll be in alot of trouble.

2007-08-06 03:48:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

A little background - My mom died right after Thanksgiving of last year, leaving me (30) and my two brothers (28 and 26) to take care of our father (60) who is in a personal care home due to Parkinson's disease. Obviously, this means we have to clean out the house my parents lived in for 35+ years.

My aunt asked me for my mom's jewelry the day after she died. We have found it, but haven't told her. She's making a stink about old Legos and Matchbox cars that she thinks belong to her (Mom had told her she could have them apparently). She also wants to go through my mom's china to determine which pieces belonged to my grandmother. Now she wants all of the pictures of my mom so she can burn them to a CD, but last time we gave her pictures for my wedding, none of them came back in frames and my baby albums were destroyed because they didn't put pictures back where they belonged.

I don't want to lose my family entirely, but I don't know what to do about her overbearing behavior!

2007-08-06 03:43:52 · 8 answers · asked by keeper0137 2

I NEED HELP PICKING MY 13 TEEN BIRTHDAT PRESENT

i won't a ATVS or a dirt bike i'm a girl . or what do you think i should get i only can have a limit of a 1,000 dollars any ideas

2007-08-06 03:32:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

For Father's day we gave him fruit and nuts, and he got shirts and ties from other family members. He is an Antiques collector and extremely considerate and kind.

2007-08-06 03:29:10 · 7 answers · asked by flymeawayfromhere 3

About a year ago, I found out that my mom seriously wanted to put my half sister up for adoption when my half sister was 3-years-old. I understand when you first find out that you are pregnant and you're young, but after a child has turned 3-years-old. I feel disgusted with my mom. I have a young child and don't understand how you could possibly think of such a thing after bonding with a child for a few years. I found out my grandfather talked my mom out of it and said he would take care of my sister. My half sister did live with my grandparents while I lived with my mom and step dad. Why would a mother do this? Did she ever love my sister?

2007-08-06 03:19:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a theory that there are a lot of people out there who tell their significant others that they have tons of stuff to do just so they can get out of doing things (i.e. work around the house, in-law functions, etc.) Just wanted to know if there were more people out there who do this!

2007-08-06 03:05:36 · 7 answers · asked by whenwillthelambsstopscreaming 2

ok first of all we are not married by law. me and my boyfriend who we say are marred, are always fighting, we both seemed to not stand eachother alone, we both even told each other to go our seperate ways but never end up doing so. we fell in love very quick i think thats why we fell out of it so soon, ne ways I think the only reason why we're together is because of our son and a baby girl due this october. I talked to him about us being better off but he always threats me with taking my son away from me which is another reason why i don't leave. we have nothing in common anymore. I don't know what to do anymore. Plz help

2007-08-06 02:57:31 · 6 answers · asked by hated by many loved by few 2

I know a couple who has let their master-degreed son move back into their house after graduation. He has lived with them for over 5 years now and has an excellent job making a lot of money. The parents and him seem to be fine with this arrangement, and I know that I shouldn't care, but I was just wondering if this is normal or would you consider this not good from a growth stand-point?

2007-08-06 02:55:00 · 7 answers · asked by whenwillthelambsstopscreaming 2

Be a bit upset when i see my parents killing flies with fly killer.
I know their dirty and they throw up on your food,then stamp it in but i'd rather let the out the window thats actually the easier way. That spray burns them
I just dont think its right
Am i wrong?

2007-08-06 02:50:44 · 17 answers · asked by Huggles [mozzafan] 4