Ok well to make a long story short my brother in law has this recent ex girlfriend that is an absolute nutcase

Question

I tried my hardest to get along with her and I did ok for a few months. We got into a fight and stopped talking. When my bro in law dumped her she wanted to talk to me since I was her only friend and even then we still weren't friends since the fight. i've talked to her a few times because I do know how hard it is to lose someone you love. Well today I went on my myspace and the biatch left this bulletin:
Why is it that friends are there when it is convient for them but not when you actually need them?
Why is it that you give your all to be there for the ones you have close to you but when you need them they are no where to be found?
Is it really too much to ask to have someone be there for you in your times of need?
To everyone who just needs someone but you have no one...
It is a cold hard world out there...
Stay strng because in the end all you have is yourself...
Should I be offended and send her an email asking what the hell her problem is or just let it go? I am 110% sure it was a pun intended towards me beings that I was her ONLY friend.

Answer 1

she needs to go take a good, hard look into the mirror and figure out why she doesn't have any friends.

friends aren't supposed to drop everything all of the time just because someone else needs something... friends are there when they CAN BE... and friends are not always available...

and it's true we DO have ourselves, and we are the only people who can fix our own problems. friends can't fix us, and should not have to do things we can do for ourselves.

it's a wonderful thing to have someone who cares and is supportive when they can be....and this woman seems to think that her friends will magically know when she needs support. she said "is it too much to ask to have someone be there for you in times of need?".... did she actually ASK? i doubt it.

there is a difference between being "NEEDY' and being a friend.

why should people be her friend when she puts high and unreasonable expectations out there?

be your own friend.. gather your dignity and act like a lady hon.. it's not worth it to email her or even pay attention.

Answer 2

I'm sorry,however that's simply undeniable cheesy. Loose man or woman? Try NO man or woman,Dear. I would not prolong her a unmarried courtesy beyond what used to be required of me by way of the well manners Mother drilled into me years in the past. I do understand how to be gracious on your face at the same time I'm stabbing you within the again whilst. Never,ever believe this girl. Consider something you assert to her in trust might be made public in this type of manner as to mirror badly upon you.