I have had a strained relationship with my mom for many reasons too many to include in this email, one her not showing up at my wedding, and choosing men over me for years but I still try to visit her. My husband and I drove 7 hours to go visit her this weekend and she acted cold, and looking for a fight, toward her husband and us and made the visit a total downer. They never come visit us, but she tries to guilt me into coming to see her. They never go out and do anything not even out to dinner. I feel guilty for not liking to visit my mom but it seems like I am always the one putting forth effort. What should I do?
2007-08-06 04:10:31 · 2 answers · asked by TennesseeGirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Talk to your mother..... just remember... shes your mother the woman that give birth to you....... you got your life to her...
okay now settle this problem.... your gonna be guilty forever if your not gonna fix this problem....
this is very complicated... girl don't you know that your mother is more important than your husband... but its depend on you..... gud luck ....
2007-08-06 04:21:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just leave them be.It's their business.You've got your own family to support now.If your mom really tries to make you come to her house just say "No thanx...I've been enough times to your house,now it's your turn".And if she is looking for a fight just ignore her,or as I do...just say "excuse me" when you see she's starting a fight.If these things don't work you should just keep away from her a period of time...
Good luck,melady!
2007-08-06 11:16:44 · answer #2 · answered by Nevermind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋