Family - July 2007

I often dont pray on very correct time everyday.

2007-07-08 00:39:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mom divorced my dad a little over 2 years ago.at first i was very mad at my dad because he was cheating on my mom but i still wanted to spend time with him.so a couple of weeks after they got divorced i started to hang out with him a couple of hours a week but everytime i saw him i started to get very sad and upset and i started to cry.so now ive stopped seeing him and he always tries to get in contact with me because he wants to see me.but i dont want to see him because when i do i get sad.is this normal?what do you think i should do?

2007-07-08 00:31:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, relation among your famimy members not same. For some reason it may loose or sometimes tight. Depend person to person and family to family.

2007-07-08 00:24:05 · 10 answers · asked by cyber7244 2

My mother hates to see me happy, she sleeps with my men and basically pays them to hate me too. Will she ever just grow up? She has been diagnosed with bi-polar disorder but refuses to take her medication. And she doesn't have any respect for her own mother cause she never even went to see her before she died. I want to know, why won't the devil just leave her alone. I could have had a good happy life, but all my life she has hated on me and told me I could never achieve anything. What can I do to fix this relationship so that my kids will have a grandmother. I hate to say, I will never leave her alone with them. Her brother causes problems, it's like he has her rapped around his finger. Is this a sign that they really are incestuos satanists and I should just walk away now?

2007-07-08 00:17:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is my grandson and his great great grandfather passed away. He knows about weddings, birthday parties. His parents were married last year and at that time he thought it was a birthday party for him. Then this year his aunt got married and he says I do not want to get married.or dance. Now he sees and hears people talking and about pictures of his great great and he is thinking another wedding???What do you say because he is so young and not really understanding any of this but might have questions??? I know to keep it simple so what are some good ways to do it??

2007-07-08 00:04:22 · 11 answers · asked by peanutbulls 4

His daughter is 12 and he has only seen her once when she was about 6 months old. We are married and have 3 children. She has recently been in touch and he has had her for the past 10 weeks all weekend. The problem is she is nasty to me and our children and breaks their toys on purpose (my sons nitendo ds along with other things). She also calls my children BLACKIES this is very upsetting for our children. My children are 1/4 black and look more white than their dad. I am half black. My husband and told her off loads about this but it falls on deaf ears, he has even told her she wont be able to come anymore if she carries on. I have know had enough and dont want this child in my home anymore, why should my children suffer this abusive in thier home. I told my husband i dont mind him seeing her but from know on she does not come to our house and she is not to be around me and our children. He said he would rather cut off contact with her than see her on his own any comments?

2007-07-07 23:24:24 · 8 answers · asked by nicole w 1

2007-07-07 23:07:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've being born into the older generation of a traditional Asian family. When the topic about sex comes to mind, my parents always viewed it as a very controversial topic or even a taboo to talk about! But I'm very open about sex and not ashamed to talk about it openly!
I've being caught several times masturbating in my bedroom and even the toilet despite locking the doors! My parents would often suspect I was masturbating if I kept the doors locked for a long time, therefore, they would open the doors with their spare keys to check out what I was doing! Once caught masturbating, they would be really 'pissed'! I would argue with them that masturbation is perfectly normal and it would be fine as long as one is not addicted to it! But they wouldn't listen and said I should not get involved in sexual activities until I get married even masturbation!
I would often take it as they were violating my pirvacy!
Family relationship is worsening because they knew I did masturbation! Help!

2007-07-07 23:06:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-07 20:41:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 19, and I've been engaged for over six months. Before I met my fiance, my parents wanted me to live at home until I finish college. Then when I got engaged, they wanted me to stay at home until I got married.

Well, I've been living with my fiance for a month. We had a family barbeque to introduce my family to his family. My fiance's step grandma is outgoing and jokingly said to him, "You're not getting married for a year...Can you go an entire year without sex?"

My mom knows that I'm not a virgin. And she probably assumes that my fiance and I are having sex. But she wasn't a virgin when she got married either.

Well, my mom said, "I don't know why they bother getting married" (I was not in the room). My fiance's parents were in shock and just looked at each other. (His mom told me about it later.)

My fiance thinks that she said more than that, like something along the lines of 'they live together, why bother getting married?' Why would anyone have that point of view?

2007-07-07 18:52:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my parents are fighting and they will not talk to each other what should i do

2007-07-07 18:46:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I separated from my wife in January. I have custody of the kids. She gets them every other weekend. She has 3 warrants for her arrest, got caught selling weed and is not able to hold a job or a home. This is her weekend to have the kids. She did not show up until tonight 7-7-07 at 1030pm to pick up the kids. Here is the hard part. She only picked up my daughter and told my son she will come get him tomorrow. She has to have them back to me for 5pm. My son is so upset. He went into his room after the door closed. He got his stuffed animal he has had for a long time. he calls it carrot. It a small bunny. He wraps Carrot up in a blanket like you would an infant. He is sitting in his bed balling his little eyes out. All i could do was hold him. I reassured him I will always be there for him. I know I should not have let my daughter go with out him as well, but it is her weekend and She could call the police and tell them I am not letting her get the kids. Then I am the bad guy.

2007-07-07 18:16:18 · 27 answers · asked by Bones 5

She has no respect for me. She acts like nothing is my business. I can't ask her if she is going to work today. She responses "Why are you in my business". I don't like her very much. She's back for the summer. She goes to college out of state. While there she didn't have to answer to anyone. Now she doesn't think she has to answer to me. She has forgotten all the common courtesies of sharing a home with someone else. My brother is in the hospital in critical condition, He's been in a coma for a week. She doesn't seem to care. She spent last week at a girlfriend's apartment with her boyfriend who was in town. Every day she called me and said she would be home tomorrow. That literally went on for a week. I finally yelled at her and told her I didn't want to her that anymore. Responsible adults do what they say or call and say their plan has changed. I hung up on her, I subsequently apologized for hanging up.

2007-07-07 18:01:12 · 15 answers · asked by WAW 1

like any adult..

2007-07-07 17:58:30 · 6 answers · asked by Doodle Bug 2

Whenever I go to a family event some of the older people in my family comment on my appearence like they are looking at a car or something.

Like when my Aunt saw me she started telling my mom how I look like her cousin when she was younger because I have a "round face" and I'm "still pigeon toed". And I was standing right there! Why do old people do this? It happens to me all the time...

2007-07-07 17:57:13 · 8 answers · asked by Eva L 2

So my sister and I (I'm 20, she's 18) have always been close and really got along well. I've always let her hang out with me and my friends because I've always enjoyed her company. But just today my friend told me how different my sister and I are...she said that my younger sister is just more fun to be around and just more likeable. I'm totally devestated that my friend said this to me and plus she said the other people she was with completely agree. Like my one guy friend said that he would never even consider dating me, but he really likes my sister. It's so frustrating to me because I feel like she rides on my coattails and kind of has an "in" so it's easier for her. I'm pretty good at having a non-biased opinion and I think I am equally as fun as my sister if not more especially because a good deal of the stuff that people like that she does I feel like she picked up from me. I want my friends to want to be friends with me, what should I do?? Thanks!

2007-07-07 17:49:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, all my friends have been to parties, and it's not just birthday parties, or everytime I talk to my friends they have a friend over or watching a movie, or gone bowling. My parents never let me do that stuff. I feel kinda left out. I havent seen a movie in over a year, and my friends laugh at me. How can I convince my parents to let me do fun stuff with my friends? My parents are watching over me 24/7, I know that is their job but still, I'm 12, I wanna be with my friends.

2007-07-07 17:28:09 · 10 answers · asked by IloveJesus 2

My son is 6 years old and his father and i have been seperated since he was 2 months old. He currently lives with me and sees his father every second weekend. We have no court documents its just an agreement between myself and his father. I have been offered a job interstate that I would really love to take, but i am unsure if legally i can take my son with me and what i need to do to make it all happen. Id be happy to fly my son to see his father for school holidays, i still want him to be apart of his life but i also want to be able to move on with my life too. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

2007-07-07 17:03:42 · 6 answers · asked by tigger12 1

My old school has been closed down so i gotta transfer to another school..my mom wants a very nice school which was UST..i passed the exam and everything but its too far away..so they got me an apartment with our maid and my grandma..but the thing is..
i have a huge deal with homesickness!
i never thought i'd feel this way
im just 13! what the heck am i suppose to do..
i go home every weekends but i come bacck there every sundays..
please help..
please..

2007-07-07 16:46:51 · 11 answers · asked by Chris 1

My family is full of people who are very negative in general and they deal with things in a very negative way. I thought my husband was a positive person with goals and dreams of his own, but it didn’t turn out that way. I am the type of person who has dreams and goals in life and I like to meet those goals…and I did for a little while. Now, recently I can’t seem to meet or accomplish the simplest of goals or plans I set for myself. All my plans seem to to go un done lately and it’s starting to bother me. My husband has turned out to be just as negative as the rest of my family.
All they do is go on and on to me about how they want this or that in life, but they never lift a finger to make it happen…they don’t even try. I encourage all of them, I even offer to do whatever I can to help them make their dreams come true, but they never make any effort for themselves. Whenever I come up with any solutions for them, they always seem to be full of excuses. It’s as if all they want to do is complain about how unsatisfied they are with how things are in their lives and whine about how they wish they could do this or that. Frankly, I am sick of it and have told them how I feel because now I feel as though their attitude and way of thinking is bringing me down and effecting me. I have goals and dreams that I am trying to meet and their negativity is starting to bum me out. I can’t help who my family is, but now that my husband has shown his true colors, I am completely surrounded by negative people who only complain, but do nothing to change their situation. Is there anyone out there who can give some advice as to how I can stay sane in this situation? Your help is appreciated.

2007-07-07 16:41:33 · 16 answers · asked by planetnoelle 2

he doesnt abuse me.. cause he knows i will literally hurt him.... but i dont know what to do... and my moms boyfriend doesnt abuse him hard.. but still puts his hands on him... so please give me some advice

2007-07-07 16:02:50 · 17 answers · asked by tupacmixmaster 1

OK...I never have really liked my brother's girlfriends (he has only had 2!!) but anyway. He met this one girl from his friend's ex girlfriend. This girl is 17 and my brother is 19. I am his younger sister and I try to tell him if things don't work out she can tell someone he did something to her and he get into trouble. My mom said that in the beginning too but now she is like just don't marry her or sleep with her. And its one of the employee's at our family's business step brother's daughter...but I don't want him dating her because its summer and its my time with him and if he gets a girlfriend I won't ever see him. Also I am known to be a bitchy little sister but when I tell him he goes nothing will happen I won't forget you but when I want to hang out he will be doing something with her. What should I do?

2007-07-07 15:37:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend has a mother who was living in California the last she heard. My friends mother was mentally ill and received social security. My friend is 37 years old and hasn't seen her mom in over 21 years. She asked her mother's sister if her mom was still alive and her aunt told her " As far as your concerned she's dead" My friend really wants to know if her mom is still living or not. If her mom is dead, she wants to give her a proper burial. She is pretty upset with her aunt for not telling her the truth about her mom. Her aunt is the only person who knows the where abouts of her mom. How would she go about finding out the truth?

2007-07-07 15:14:27 · 7 answers · asked by renne o 1

I grew up basically watching my mom and Dad constantly bickering. Its interfered with the way i think and now react to certain situations. The last time they fought, he was going to hit her...I heard her screaming, so i got up and went to the room. there he was over her, i g ot really mad...memories just started pouring in..So i yelled at him. (he used to hit me, but few years ago, i grew up. And i just didn't look vulnerbale). So anyways i yelled at him, i told him if he ever touced her again, i will kill him. He never did touch her, or even argue. Perhaps he woke up.

But since that day, i have no feelings for him..i never really saw him as a "father". we don't speak. i just pass straight without saying anything. It hurts not reallly having a connnection, lke sometimes you just need a bond like that...but there could never be anything there.

My mom is like, he works hard, he is your father..talk to him.
But, i dont know how. Its like, in my mind....i took him out

2007-07-07 14:42:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anthony L 3

And did you ever do anything they didn't approve of behind their back?
If I tell you I didn't, what will you say about this 55- year-old man?

2007-07-07 13:51:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I take ballet and my mother is constantly telling me to lose weight. I am actually under the healthy BMI for my height, weight and age. But she still tells me to stop eating and go workout. I'm afraid she wont stop untill I'm just a pile of bones. Nothing I say to her delivers the message
"mom, I can't fit into a size small, its too big" her response to that was
"thats because we're in a fat people store." And we weren't...we were in a store that's sizes run small.

2007-07-07 13:36:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My aunt has always had a troublesome life. (too much detail to go into on her) Over the last 2 years things have gotten steadily worse. My cousin (her son) died in August 2005 just 2.5 months after our highschool graduation. She's always been an alcoholic but she wouldnt let anyone help her. Sometime last year she got with this 20 year old (shes like 32ish). They lost the house she was living in and moved herself, her bf, & her two kids in with my mom. My mom is going through alot because of her disability. My aunt and her bf quit there jobs after moving in with my mom so my mom had to get a job overnight at a hotel. She works all night and was going to a business school during the day. Anway neither of them have jobs, they smoke alot of pot, they have wrecked my moms house, they cant/wont pay for anything, they just lay around all the time. I think my aunt is on drugs or addicted to painkillers. I want to know if anyone knows of a way to help her. Suggestions welcome if not rude!

2007-07-07 13:23:11 · 7 answers · asked by NCIS ♥ Addict 6

okay i have a friend named heather. she has 2 brothers. one is 20 and the other is 18. i am currently dating the 18 year old. but my mom doesnt know about me and him yet...but i will tell her because she wants to start hanging out with his mom. well heather and her brother charles which is my boyfriend wants me to spend the night at their house.my mom says i cant because heather has brothers and that she wont let me spend the night at anybodys house if they have brothers. i really wanna sleepover there but what can i do to convince my mom in letting me??? help please!

2007-07-07 13:17:23 · 5 answers · asked by ~Loving Life!!~ 2

So, I am pregnant and my exboyfriend is a complete jerk....he hasn't spoken to me in weeks because "he doesn't know how to handle alll of this???" Basically is is very immature...and I am old enough to face reality as well as his parents. His parents say they will be there for me and their grandchild....but what in the world kind of parents let their son get away this? They aren't holding him responsible??? It takes two to tango but chicks get screwed..........

2007-07-07 13:14:48 · 13 answers · asked by the devil wore prada 1

I live in georgia. My cousins live in Jersey.
They treat me and my brother like dirt!
My mom and dad helped their mom and dad come to the U.S. in 2000. They haven't thanked my parents YET!

2007-07-07 13:13:11 · 4 answers · asked by Magnificent Bliss Rocks! 2