Family - July 2007

he always plays video games and when he isnt.. he has friends over who trash the house. he always asks me to cook for him and is like obsessed with red bull. he stole my allowance too and gave my skinny jeans to his super skinny friend to wear, without my permisson!

2007-07-08 16:57:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-08 16:39:57 · 2 answers · asked by reseda1420 4

My friend Amy is worried about her hubby, whom she can normally get a hold of by cell phone. She said that she has tried for the last 3 hours to get hold of him, just to see if he is ok and when to have his dinner ready. He works odd hours, electric company, and can get called out at night even. Most of his jobs that he has to go to comes across a special e-mail account and she can see where he is and where he is going. I guess tonight he had to drive an hour to a job, but he has been there longer then normal for this type of job AND no e-mail containing the paperwork for this job. She has her "feelings" that he is out messing around on her, and he is always hanging out with a "BAD GUY" she calls this man. He used to deal drugs, yeah, like the man my hubby works with. She is freaking out over here and I need words to comfort her.
BTW- she also found pornographic items in her hubby's work truck.

Please help me find the words to comfort her!
Thanks

2007-07-08 16:30:02 · 3 answers · asked by Midnight Winter WOLF 4

My older sister has never been an older sister to me or my two younger sisters. She's only a daughter when she wants something from my parents. She lives with my grandparents instead of with her closer family because she knows if she moves in with us then she won't have access to the car whenever she wants to go partying, and whenver she needs money she know she won't be able to steal it from my mom's purse. She does anything to make herself feel better-even when it hurts others.

She always wants a piece of everything, but she won't lift a finger to get it. She expects everyone to hand it over to her like we owe her something. It's been like that forever. She is such a ****!!! To the point where we can't even speak to her anymore.

My parents are making money in comodoties. I don't want them to give her a dime. She's gonna be the first one over our house saying: "Well now you can buy me a car" or something. i don't want them to give her a dime!

What do I do?

2007-07-08 16:19:16 · 5 answers · asked by AyK 4

My grandmother and grandfather in laws both passed and now my husband's family is fueding over items they think should go to them. Me and my husband don't look at what happened as a way to get stuff, but the rest of the family cannot get passed it. What should we do when one family member is talking bad about another to us? I don't want my kids to see this happen and have them lose a relationship with a family member because of it also.

2007-07-08 16:04:58 · 8 answers · asked by maryanne b 2

If so, please tell me of it's effect on you.

2007-07-08 16:01:56 · 26 answers · asked by birdtennis 4

Even when I'm in my house with windows closed, I can hear my neighbor screaming at her 5 year old boy. Several months ago, she yelled at him, "you don't want to go to mommy's bedroom, 'cause you know what that means!" And she yelled at him because he wanted her to read the same bedtime story as the night before. Well, last night at midnight, her screaming almost made me jump out of my skin. She even swore at him. He was yelling back at her to "stop it!" So after the yelling ended, she had the TV on very loud in her bedroom with her window open facing my window (we live 8 feet apart). The boy was up until 3:15 AM running around his room & jumping off his bed & turning his light on & off. What is a 5 year old doing up until 3:15 AM? Meanwhile, his mom never intervened...her TV was on loud thru the night so maybe the TV tuned her boy out & maybe she was asleep. Is this a form of neglect with the mother screaming at her boy, & the boy running around his room until 3:15 AM?

2007-07-08 15:55:17 · 20 answers · asked by 🐭 cat™ 🐭 7

My parents have decided that a family trip to the cabins for the week is a great idea, I however disagree. All family vacations bring me are headaches, anger, and borderline depression. I need to find a way to convince my parents to let me hold down the fort while they go to the mountains. I am 18 and very responsible, so I do not think I am making a huge request, but they are hard to sway. I have not asked them yet so your suggestions on how to approach the conversation and things to say would be GREATLY appreciated.

2007-07-08 15:45:06 · 5 answers · asked by University Girl 3

During your childhood and teenhood, there has been alot of embarrassing things that has happened to you, am I right? Like the first date, them can always be embarrassing! Or when you have your parents meet your teacher, that can especially suck, when it's a teacher you've had a crush on! How about you? Are you brave enough to step up and tell us your most embarrassing parent moment?

2007-07-08 15:27:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can you be a good parent if you smoke pot, or do drugs?

i am amazed to see the amount of people who think that you can...,

To be a good parent you have to be able to care for your child, teach them good examples, teach them responsibility, how to make good decisions,ect...

How can you teach these things if you are teaching otherwise by your examples?

please explain. becuse to me, it doesn't seem possible.

2007-07-08 15:26:38 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-08 15:23:50 · 12 answers · asked by jaklyn_23 1

ok my boyfriends not gay or anything but a few times in the past month ive woke up in the morning with him in my underwear asleep...he told me that it was becasue he was cooler when he wore them...but our air conditioner is always cranked when we sleep...i dont know what to do because i dont want him to feel akward around me...any advice will be helpful...thnks

2007-07-08 15:04:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my sister in-law speaks down to me, I don't know what to because my wifes brother works for me and he is a real nice guy and Iam about to go off on her

2007-07-08 14:48:57 · 20 answers · asked by joe s 1

The parents went out of town for the weekend, so I decided to have a little get togethor. Well, the get togethor turned out to be a 25 person partay....there ended up not being enough alcohol so when I was a little bit drunk I was like "LET"S USE MY PARENTS VODKA!!" so we get into the cabinet and drink the wholllle bottle... now that I have a conciouns... I am freaking out.. I filled the bottle up with water until I can replace it.... but im scared they are going to want to have a little "glad to be home cocktail!!" AHHHH!! what should I do????

and I know I am reaping what I sew... so.. don't tell me that.... It would be useless... just give me some advice!

2007-07-08 14:43:55 · 15 answers · asked by Chris L 1

say a woman is dating someone then has a child with them and the child takes the last name of the father. now if the mother and the father break up and the mother takes the child and she gets married to another man. so which last name does the child take?

2007-07-08 13:54:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, my parents are always telling me what to do and just boss me around all the time. What do i do to get them to stop it?

2007-07-08 13:43:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-08 13:39:38 · 4 answers · asked by CEKNB 3

he always throws things at me and pushing me round(he is 17)

2007-07-08 13:36:42 · 9 answers · asked by Amanda C 1

ok so i dont know what to do right now my mom, me and my brother and stepfather are living with me sister and her fiance in a big house but before my mom, broether & stepdad lived her i was her just me in the basement well my mom is getting an apart. when my stepfather goes into the army she had one before but she lost it anyways i want to0 go with my mom i'm sick of living with my sister her fiance and her baby i feel like i'm intruding on there little family plus that not all i just dont think i can do it anymore but like she told my mom the other day she wanted me to stay cause she didn't want to be alone like her fiance does lots of things he has 2 jobs plays golf and on top of that he's a firefighter so he's pretty much always gone shes always alone i dont want to stay here when my mom goes but if i go i feel horrible for leaving her alone the i mean i know she has a baby but thats not really adult convo i need some advice?

2007-07-08 13:30:07 · 7 answers · asked by Lauren 1

My parents are still not contact to me for three years... When I moved with second husband out of state... I have no choice... I am changed new life with him.. He is very good to me and my four kids... How I should write letter to them that make them understand and move on accept and keep in touch... What I should say write letter to them... Make them wake up time... That s reason I moved here.. I dont want live there.. Becuz of ex my hubby there that s why... Best way keep away around him and his girlfriend... I dont want inolve any problem over over with him... That s reason many things...

2007-07-08 13:25:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

know who i'am anymore everyday feels the same i dunno why i love my girls and doing thins for them and my partner but why do i feel im missing out!!!

2007-07-08 13:15:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 25 years old with a bachelor's degree, recently I've received a job offer to move away to another state (California). I really want to take this offer, but my parents dont want me to go. It's like they dont think that I can do anything on my own. I've lived out on my own for a year now, but I've always been close to home, I really really want to take this opportunity (especially since my boyfriend also lives in California), but my parents dont want me to go. I dont want to completley rebel against my parents because I dont want to ruin my relationship with them, but I dont know if I have any other choice, they need to start letting me make my own decisions. What do I do?

2007-07-08 12:35:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i live with my mom in las vegas,navada,i want to move with my dad in tracy california and my mom wont let me,when i was younger my dad had molested my older sister but he's not her dad anyways im not making excuses for him or anything but would i be able to go to court and be able to live with my dad?i havnt seen him for 4 or 5 years and when i did used to see him i only saw him every other weekend,i really want to move with my dad cause i hate the environment in vegas,its not for kids my age,and ive done some wrong in my part to make my mother not want me to leave her sight so what can/should i do?
im running out of time cause i want to start school over there in cali but the summers almost over,how long will this take if its taken to court?

2007-07-08 12:13:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

myself or my parents are thinking about adopting the baby . And my sister is leading a life that is to me unexceptable. Her and her boyfreind barely have any money and to my knowledge he doesn't work. my sister is on disability. any advice will be greatly appreciated. thanks

2007-07-08 12:06:26 · 12 answers · asked by Heather M 3

what would you say to them as your wearing them ? ? ?

2007-07-08 12:02:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-08 11:47:12 · 9 answers · asked by SAR 1

My son live in another state. He is living with his fiance & thier baby girl. I have picked up on thing to indicate that he is dealing at least pot. He has tald my daughter/his sister that both of tham ( my son & his fiance) smoked while she was pg. & they take my grandbaby to partys with them. It is realy hurting me knowing this. But I have NO proof. My son is 25 it is his life. BUT my grandbaby girl is only 6 months. My son has already spent time behinde bars. I don't want to see he back there. But that life stile isn't good for his daughter. So do I turn him & his fiance in ??

2007-07-08 11:12:04 · 8 answers · asked by bluerose_1220 1

I have a great grandmother in a nursing home...she was sent there after her second stroke, a severe one, and she can barely talk and barely seems conscious. I went to visit her once with my mother, despite her warning me that she was in really bad shape, because I felt obligated to go and visit. But it was very depressing, because she really could not talk at all, she would stare off in space, she kept repeating "please, please" and we could not figure out what she wanted and she started getting angry.

I feel like I don't know what to do...I feel guilty because I know she is in there alone, but I feel like it is so hard to go there because I don't know what to do, I can't even talk to her because she can't talk back, and she always asks for things that nobody can understand what she wants.

What would you do in this situation?

2007-07-08 11:08:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi. Ever since I was 5, when I stayed at my grandma's, she'd pick on me because of my weight. Like when I'd be in the living room reading she'd be in another room saying how she wishes I'd have more self control, and that I'll never be pretty and that I'm stupid.
She has all these years, but now that I've lost my baby fat, when a relative would say something like "Wow, you've gotten tall!" granny would cut in and say "and THIN!!!" Now it seems that she has to bring up my body size in every conversation with me. What should I do to stop her from picking on me?

2007-07-08 10:58:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend of 2 years and I can not communicate, we have been in counseling for the last 4 months to work things out and keep this relationship. He knows how I feel about being unwed and realizes he hasn't fully committed.. I'm expecting this month and I've been so down mentally being an unwed mom. My new role is to stay home and raise my child, cook for everyone, clean, and find a child or two to watch to pay my bills. I am starting to fight this stay at home situation lately as I feel why am I committing to a man who will not marry me but wants me to be here for him. He has a mortgage but he has to pay that if I'm here or not. He does try and provide here and there, I just don't want to be here and be this stay at home mother/girlfriend and not get anywhere with it. Why force someone to marry? My dream is to be find a man and be loved unconditionally, a man who truly wants to marry me. I'm just at a lost for words...I feel like giving up.

2007-07-08 10:19:42 · 3 answers · asked by eurazianbeauty 2