Family - July 2007

In fact, I always feel so lucky to have such good parent. and I also always know that my parent hope that I can settle down oversea, but actually that is not want I want, I just want to stay simple in my home country and enjoy simple life till I die. But I have been taken so many things from my parent since I were born, I really think is time to pay them back, but I am so confused, should I live on the life they expect me to be? Because I don't want them to disappoint and want to see them proud when talk about me. or live on the life I choose? The life that they have nothing to feel proud of.

2007-07-08 09:33:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really dont care for my stepdad.He is worthless and recently he has been picking at my nerves.He has no job and is living of my mom. He touches and takes my stuff which I dont mind until you dont give it back till 3 days later things like my laptop.
He doesnt talk to me or my bros.He only makes comments about stuff hes such a know it all. like when my cat got sck he said your feeding the thing to much food and sayss things dont blame it on me when the ***** dies. He doesnt contribute to the house everything we have was bought by my mom or grandma EVEN his damn shoes. He lays around messing with peoples stuff and breaking things. Ive cursed him out on 2 ocassions so its a mutal hate relationship. my mom is kind of getting feed up with it b/c she hides all the food so he has nothing to eat and she hasnt spoken to him in 4 days. Shes already kicked him out once. and that time she asked us if we wanted him to come back i said no i was the only one who had the balls to say no to his and her face. so i guess if he leaves again and he asks to come back imma say hell no. But what should i do.

2007-07-08 09:29:31 · 11 answers · asked by ☆DUH☆ 4

i and my ex live live far each other. she got the full custody and i just get the visitations. Every time i try to go see my son, she comes up with an excuse about not to come. And every time i go to court to complain , they turn me down. i m really tired. She wants me to give up my rights. She says she doesnt want anything from me. but i have to pay my child support. if i give up my rights do i still have to pay?

2007-07-08 08:21:13 · 2 answers · asked by Bruno 1

hi im bubba and i live in nebraska and my dad has a junk collecting problem and i dont kno what to do he just keeps bring stuff home and pillin it up our house has only 3 bed rooms and 2 of the are filled to the celing with junk u cant even go in them and my livin room is filled up with all hiz stuff and same wit our dinin room and almos the kitche too we have to walk through our house lyk mazes and we have 6 ppl in our family and we all have to sleep in one room its really annoyin and u hardly have n e privacy what should i do?

2007-07-08 07:09:18 · 2 answers · asked by chunkylovers1993 1

hey people my parents are having a little get together with my dads boss tonight and I want to know should I join in their conversations or just sit there waiting?

2007-07-08 07:07:22 · 3 answers · asked by Nathalie & Laurent F 2

Hi,
I have dreamt of getting a puppy ever since I was a child. My only problem is my mum.She says she'll never stand a dog at home.:((((( My other family members feel indifferent about it.However, if my mom agrees, then I'll be able to get one:)She says she doesn't want a dog because it will damage furniture and it will shed.I always explain to her that there are some breeds that don'tshed much and there are many toys for dogs, so that they don't damage home stuff.But she won't listen.She says she just doesn't want a dog at home:(((((((( Can I ever do something to change her mind ???????:(((((((
Thx:)

2007-07-08 07:04:49 · 3 answers · asked by anna l 1

2007-07-08 07:03:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

at my grandmothers house many people have died and she wants me to spend the night but some people say its hanted so what do i do

2007-07-08 06:58:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

on the fourth of july i came downstairs in the middle of the night to sleep on the couch when i noticed my brother on the computer than i saw him watching a video with porn than two days later i got up my parents were gone and i went inside and noticed the same thing What do i do? i know caleb thinks i trust him but im not so sure what to do please help

2007-07-08 06:55:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister and I are 2 years apart. We are pretty close. She is so healthy all the time and loves hiking while I like eating. We are both actresses, but she always gets the better parts. She has great friends and I dont even know if I can trust my friends. Is she better than me?

2007-07-08 06:48:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok here goes, on March the 26th 2007 my grandad william albert taylor died, he hads cancer, but thats not what got him his boiler broke and he got phneumonia, and thats what got him anyway, We all wish he was still here! you no out of all the people to go i would of thought it would of been him. My grandad was an amazing man, spent all his married life with my nan is bliss, but 2 things happend, his mum died then his dad got remarried, then they had kids now the kids where my grandad step-sibs the youngest was called John Edward Taylor, my grandad practilly raised him, made sure he was always ok!!! but then when he was in his teen years, John's mum and dad got divorced, John blamed his dad, but my grandad stood with his dad, saying that it was no ones fault that it was just lack of love and it was, my grandad fell out with John over that and they never made up, over the years they got closer, but the topic came up and they faided away again. John wasn't invited to the funeral, do you

2007-07-08 06:38:44 · 3 answers · asked by Eliza Dolittle 4

My sister is really selfish and I'm the kind of person who likes to give and give. We're only eighteen months apart and we're both really close friends. But she takes advantage of me.

It's like she's got no guilt-factor and she's always trying to one-up me. I try to stay mad and stop helping her out, but I just can't. Even after I told her that I would risk my life for hers even though I knew she wouldn't, she still can't get it through her fat head that she should be more grateful and stop trying to hurt me.

Grrrr... how do I deal with this?

2007-07-08 06:21:11 · 7 answers · asked by CandyxAcid 3

this includes anyone, family, friends, etc............

2007-07-08 06:18:58 · 11 answers · asked by scsspace 3

My mom died during child birth and my da kille himself I have no other relatives but i am only 18 years old. Is it possible for me to adopt my newborn baby sister. I really love her and i don't want them to take her from me. DCFS said they would have to take her but i was wondering is there some way i can keep them from taking her from. if push come to shove i'm taking her and running. Thanks for your help.

2007-07-08 06:16:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a fifteen year old brother named Kyle. He hangs around a group of kids that are no good. They smoke, skip school, sleep around and do God-knows-what. Kyle says he knows how to say no, but I'm his worried big sis. I'm afraid he might become one of them in the future. I can't seem to convince him that his friends are no good, so should I tell our parents?

2007-07-08 04:18:34 · 13 answers · asked by Mary Ann Arizmendi 1

Please dont say anthing about fall out boy

2007-07-08 04:01:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom has been to my Grandma's house three days in a row and she usually doesn't do this.I think it is just because I am there. A few days ago she made me go out with my brother for him to go to the eye doctor even though I didn't have to. Then a couple days ago she made me go to the doctors to get my stuffy nose looked at.It was just a cold. I had the same thing a few months ago and she didn't even care. I think its just because its summer and I am on free time. So finally my Grandma leaves the house today to go to church for a little while. My mom has been here 3 days in a row cleaning.And when she is cleaning I can never do anything. She makes everyone leave the rooms and when I go outside it's really hot or it's raining and its hard for me to stay out there long and do anything.So my mom comes over a 4th day!? My grandma isn't even here. So I ask her this Can you please leave? she pinches me really hard and yells at me really nasty and acts llike I am mean.She be mean for days

2007-07-08 03:58:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister and I are very close. Do I do nothing? Please give me advice.

2007-07-08 03:50:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

kill me

2007-07-08 03:43:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

A few months ago I asked my mom if she could make me an afghan. I went out and bought all the materials, it cost about $50. The reason I wanted her to make it is A) I can't knit or crochet and B) she's getting older and I wanted something I could have as a family heirloom, just from her. The problem is she couldn't do it so she gave everything to my aunt who has now went ahead and made a baby blanket from the materials. I am very upset because I already had a new blanket for the baby and I really wanted the blanket for myself. I feel like my mom didn't listen to a word I said and did what she wanted. If I had wanted a baby blanket I wouldn't have asked for an adult sized afghan. I almost burst out crying when she told me my aunt had finished the baby blanket. I know it's just an afghan but I feel so disappointed. Is it just my hormones going into hyperdrive(I'm 23 weeks with my 3rd) or do I really have a reason to be upset? All I wanted was a piece of my mom.

2007-07-08 03:31:00 · 8 answers · asked by Lostlove 5

Granted, some people are so bad off they need the round the clock care provided in a nursing home.
But I put my life and my dreams on hold for 15 years to take care of my elderly father. I even sold my house and moved in with him because I knew how much his home meant to him.
And I didn't even date women because I felt that if things got serious, I couldn't devote myself to two people.
I don't think I deserve a medal or anything, I just felt it was the right thing to do, and I wonder why other people don't feel the same compassion for their parents.

2007-07-08 02:58:01 · 17 answers · asked by opjames 4

2007-07-08 02:48:07 · 10 answers · asked by Nascar #48 2

2007-07-08 02:46:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Two boys use to there own room...Now they share a room ..two families moved in as one situation...next to building a mansion for the eight of us..(6 kids total..yes brady bunch)..any way to keep the fighting to a controlable level...

2007-07-08 02:18:53 · 8 answers · asked by overhereyoupretty 3

my step father has been cheating on my mum on and off for years.
let me remind you that he was out with mates most of the time and drunk. but does that excuse what his done. although his not my real dad and i have always looked up to him a my real father. does he really care about us espiecally my mum.

2007-07-08 02:13:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you help a friend out and give them a place to stay in your own domain and then your groceries start to get low, your bills get higher the dishes accumulate...ect
He was only supposed to stay until he got a job and got his own place.
Three months later he's still out of work and no car, no money and home.
What do I do?

2007-07-08 01:47:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

one of my parents wrote a letter on a laptop about some family members. it was not intended to be mailed. composed as a journal. it is heart wrenching, and cruel. actusations that are not at all true about us. there is a main house on lots of acres in which she lives in. there is a employee's house for some one else to live in. this place has been in the family for 4 generations. all in very good conition. kept by by everyone in our family's.through all these years. now the little house stands vacant due to this one family member being a desendant of the ranch makes it impossible to stay there. the thing i can not understand is she is my bio mother. what do i do to stop this coas? we found out my dad has cancer.he needs one us there to upkeep all this property while he is sick and recovering? she can't and won't .doesn't want to pay the help.my dad doesn't know. do i share the letter with my family secretly w-o my dad? or keep acting like i don't know her real thoughts?crushed soul

2007-07-08 01:26:08 · 11 answers · asked by grlcp 1

What is the job of a parent? What does being a parent mean to you?

2007-07-08 01:13:11 · 9 answers · asked by gypsymama 2

i worry about her safety because people there seem to have no respect for the law and would do anything for money and to get money. the roads there and in really bad shape as will and again no obeys any traffic laws. she made a trip to the city yesterday and all i did was ask her to call me when she got there and when she return home. will she didn't do either one. so i called her at 7:00 pm and she was laughing drunk and it upset me. because i am 3000 miles away and all i want to know is she ok. i am confused and just looking for a anwser what do i do

2007-07-08 00:48:22 · 4 answers · asked by lee14me 1

my son did call me today, or at least one that i thought might of been my son, stated he was into hiding and does not want anyone know where he is at, so very angry at him i did hang up the phone when he came off with a statment i did nothing for him, like what does a grown man expect, when he does not come around, said he knew of his sisters death, asked him who told him no reply, so yes with anger i did hang up, i thank if hr wants to talk he can do it with respect and not what his grand mother and father tells him, was i wrong in the hanging up part, because as many find out about me i will not lie nor will i take lies lightly and it does not matter if it is a stranger or a person i know or love, but at least i did find out if that was him, my son for one and he was alive wish it was a better meeting but if that is how the grown up kids are today, for real i hate to say, i do not want no part of it.

2007-07-08 00:44:24 · 6 answers · asked by ? 7