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my step father has been cheating on my mum on and off for years.
let me remind you that he was out with mates most of the time and drunk. but does that excuse what his done. although his not my real dad and i have always looked up to him a my real father. does he really care about us espiecally my mum.

2007-07-08 02:13:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Family

bare in mind my mother knows about him cheating

2007-07-08 02:18:03 · update #1

9 answers

There is no excuses for someone cheating, I can understand why you might be upset about how your stepfather is treating your mum. You obviously look up to your stepfather and of course you will question whether he cares for you and your mum.

However, your relationship with your step dad is separate to the one he has with your mum. He will care for you but finds it hard to stay faithful. If your mum is aware of his cheating they is nothing you can do about it. It's their relationship hopefully your mum might see sense and tell him he stops cheating or faces the consequences. Some parents have problems but that does not stop them loving you.

2007-07-08 02:27:09 · answer #1 · answered by scorpionbabe32 6 · 0 0

If your mum knows that your step father is cheating then there is nothing much you can do. It is not like you know and she doesn't [now that would be a dilemma]. There are numerous reasons why people cheat and if he does this only when he has been drinking it possibly means that alcohol is the real problem not the cheating.

I would advise speaking separately to your step-father [when he is sober] and your mum about your concerns and how you feel about it. That is all you really can do. The rest is up to him and your mum.

2007-07-08 02:47:14 · answer #2 · answered by talkland72 4 · 0 0

He really doesn't care with your mom, if he does he will not cheat and go wondering around with other women. What can you do? Talk to your mother, maybe she doesn't know about your step father womanizing, but if she does that means it is okay with her, so you can't do anything about it. It is his problem that can't get enough with just your mom. I'm sorry for you, i know it is traumatic to live with that kind of father figure at home. I hope he will change for the better.

2007-07-08 02:47:01 · answer #3 · answered by gem 2 · 0 0

Tell your mum or hes guna keep doingit shed rather you tell her than her find out herself... cos just think shes gettin hurt more more and more everytime he does it and drinkin isnt a excuse!good luck hun xxx

2007-07-08 02:18:51 · answer #4 · answered by English 'n' Blonde Babez ;) 2 · 0 0

She's let him have his cake and eat it if she keeps forgiving him..

Its their relationship; not yours to really worry about. Your mum will sort it out her own way..

2007-07-08 02:17:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Actually it is her problem, not yours. Most likely she knows but doesn't want to face it. She may very well not appreciate it if you force her to face something she would prefer to ignore.

2007-07-08 02:16:09 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0 0

You need to tell your mum as he is being dishonest to you all - the rat!

2007-07-08 02:16:47 · answer #7 · answered by Ylang-Ylang 6 · 0 0

HELLO
IF UR MOM KNOWS
WHATS HER INPUT?
LIFE GOES ON....
YOUR MOM HAS TO MOVE ON
GET AWAY.
THE SAME WITH U..
THE WRONG MIRROR
IS IN YOUR VIEW...
AND THIS SHOULD NOT BE APART
OF YOUR LIVING HABBITS.
ALTHOUGH U SAID?
YOU ALREADY ANSWER YOURSELF HE AIN'T YOUR DAD AND YOU DON'T CARE.
THEN MOVE AND YOUR MOM
OR ARE WAITING FOR VIOLENCE
WHATEVER
BEST

2007-07-08 02:29:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

if your mom knows and don't care...then don't weary about it..let it be..she don't care,so you should not care...

2007-07-08 03:20:50 · answer #9 · answered by Sandy M 3 · 0 0

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