My sister and I are 2 years apart. We are pretty close. She is so healthy all the time and loves hiking while I like eating. We are both actresses, but she always gets the better parts. She has great friends and I dont even know if I can trust my friends. Is she better than me?
2007-07-08 06:48:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She is in NO way better than you! It sounds like she just has more confidence in herself than you do, or that it looks like she has more confidence. I'd say to just find something that you love to do and do it with gusto- that way you'll find friends with similar interests to get close to. As for the parts, keep at it, you never know what someone is looking for! ps, i love to eat and am an actress as well!
2007-07-08 06:53:56 · answer #1 · answered by rubies&vermeil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a ridiculous question. She's not better than you, she's just different than you. You are both pretty, talented and outgoing. I know it's hard not to compare--I have a little sister like you. But in the end, when you're all grown up, it won't matter at all.
I think you feel guilty though, because your sister stays fit and presumably skinnier than you. That's easy to fix, taking little steps toward better health. You can become a better actress if you ask your coaches for help and really listen to their suggestions.
I was thinking about our high school days and I told my sister that I felt angry because every time I made an A, she'd have the same teacher the next year and she'd get a higher A.
She laughed and said, "Don't you know that I was watching you, and the only way I made those grades were because you'd paved the way?"
Work together. That's what sisters are all about.
2007-07-08 07:01:30 · answer #2 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think she is better than you, I also have a sister and we are two years apart too, when we were younger we used to fight and compete all the time, but you know what, you're just different, a good different. And just because she gets better acting parts than you does not mean that. it could only be luck, or that you are good at something else than her, cheer up, and if you dont know if you can trust your friends try trusting yourself first and count on your sister too.
2007-07-08 06:55:14 · answer #3 · answered by Denisse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohh I've got a feeling of deja vu right now....
Me and my sister, 10 years ago, groans it was horrible! Its all in the eyes of the person. Maybe she's just naturally a better actress than you. Maybe you could go out and do things. If you don't trust your friends, I'd be a little worried. I AM worried! I had this problem with my sister. Maybe you need to find things that are better for you, to step out of her shadow and become your own person. You're equals. Maybe your sister has the better life, but thats life. My sister is the 'perfect one' and she's 4 yrs my senior and has FIVE KIDS! "Perfect" hmm, I beg to differ.
2007-07-08 06:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by Tiger Jae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughters all have dramatically different personalities, as well as looks. But it is not possible for one of my girls to be better than the other 2. One may be better at a certain aspect of life while one of the others may be better in something else. Don't consider your sister better than you. You are both individuals and you should respect these differences as well as any aspects that you share, besides DNA.
2007-07-08 07:00:46 · answer #5 · answered by *~PEACHY~* (^_^) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, she's not BETTER than you but it does sound like she has more self-confidence. Self-esteem is a crucial part of your identity and can greatly affect the way you carry yourself, the way you talk to other people, and the people you attract as friends. You need to work on raising your self-esteem so that you feel as good about yourself as your sister does. Believe in who you are - make yourself individual instead of constantly comparing yourself to your sister!
2007-07-08 06:59:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Amanda, she's not better than you. She is simply different from you.
The question is whether YOU are happy being YOU.
Think about who YOU like to be around. Do you like people who are happy or unhappy?
Happiness attracts friends, Happiness attracts business opportunities.
2007-07-08 06:56:56 · answer #7 · answered by jersey girl in exile 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never consider someone as "better" than you even if she is your sister. Just look at it as she is obviously very lucky, I bet there are loads of other people like her but with half the stuff she has e.g. friends.
2007-07-08 06:53:37 · answer #8 · answered by Francesca C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you are two completely different people with completely different personalities. you cant judge yourself based on other people, such as your sister or the people that give acting parts, or even your friends. though she may take better care of herself, that doesnt make her a better person.
2007-07-08 06:54:53 · answer #9 · answered by frenchtoast88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. But she is smart to keep herself fit and healthy and not eat junk food.
2007-07-08 06:52:12 · answer #10 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋