Family - July 2007

that what they talk about should be kept between them and what I thought he said was "don't tell your mother what we talk about". I am angry and feel betrayed. He said that he needs her to know that she can trust him. I think that he shouldn't be like a friend to her, we are her parents. Am I wrong?

2007-07-09 15:35:50 · 8 answers · asked by rec girl 4

Almost a year ago I had an incident with my soon to be mother in law. She went off on me calling me names and putting me down for no apparent reason. Since then I havent been able to get over it. I have done everything correctly with my relationship with my fiance. We are very happy and respect eachother very much. I love him with all my heart. But I cant seem to get past what happened with his mother. On top of all of that his brother took his grilfriend to meet her and they had a wonderful time. She loves his girlfriend but still dislikes me. Now we are planning our wedding- she tells my fiance she doesnt want to hear anything about our plans or anything about us. Its just making me sick the way she acts about us.
I was hoping i could get some advice to get over this or maybe someone knows about a self help book. Thanks for any help you can give.

2007-07-09 15:10:07 · 14 answers · asked by Stephanie Ann 1

None of my family not even my mother or father wished me a happy birthday, let alone got me anything. Only my friends from college who live in different states cared enough to wish me a happy birthday. Isn't that sad? :( My life is a mess!!!! Has this happened to anyone else? and no they are not going 2 surprise me cause my mom is on vacation & my dad has to go to work in 15 minutes. Not even my own brother cared to wish me a happy birthday!!!!!

2007-07-09 14:51:58 · 12 answers · asked by candigal 3

i dont know where else to look please help with ideas that are either free or cheap of cost....

2007-07-09 14:48:27 · 1 answers · asked by kim730 1

2007-07-09 13:42:47 · 10 answers · asked by Shorty 1

I get 50 dollars a week for doing nothing, plus for my birthday i get a shopping spree of 500 from my sisters and money from my brothers and whatever i want from my parents
BUTTTT
i barely have any privledges!
so i think thats kinda unfair..
what do you think?

2007-07-09 13:36:15 · 41 answers · asked by BAMBINO 2

My sister, 2 years younger than me is having trouble at school with another girl, Steph, who pushes her around and sends her verbal abuse by email.

It seems to be a known fact now that Steph actually fancies me. My sister and her few friends say that she is constantly talking about me.

Now my mother believes that Steph bullys my sister to get noticed and attention from me. My mother isnt blaming me, that would be ridiculous, but she seems to be hinting that this is the cause and I can do something about it.

I dont really think this is it. Why this girl or anyone would think I would start to notice and think of her in any positive way by bullying my sister is beyond me.

Any advice?
Thanks in advance.

2007-07-09 13:32:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Every night/morning when me and my bro are going to sleep...it isnt much time until he starts masturbating...im sorry if its wrong to be saying it here or if it sounds bad D: but i hate it and its driving me mad! And he isnt scratching his arm or leg because he does it for a long time and bounces....ew....

Its ok if he masturbates....but not when im looking!!!!




IS there a way to send him some kind of secret message or something to make him stop?
what shud i do???

2007-07-09 13:19:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am worried about my mother-in law. she is consistently hinting that she will follow my husband and I wherever we decide to move. We've recently begun living together, and will be ready to move within a year. She is a nice woman but it clingy and unable to take care of herself any more than a 6 year old child. she consistently talks to me about adopting my future children "in case you don't want them"/ "you're not ready", but I personally don't want anything to do with her, becuase she never does anything unless she wants something in return. I'd like to say i'm a strong person, but I am afraid that my husband or I will give into her guilt trips since currently we are living with her until we find a place for ourselves (which will be completed within a year, as I said). I believe she will bring it up as we attempt to move, along with "oh you're abandoning me"/"stealing my baby"-like remarks, and wanting to follow.
we don't want her to live with our future family. What should we do?

2007-07-09 13:08:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Oh theirs so many things arnt their.LOLBut we laugh and remember with pride,!!! well most of the time anyway LOL.

2007-07-09 13:02:49 · 19 answers · asked by patsy 3

I'm worried. What do I do?

2007-07-09 12:51:45 · 44 answers · asked by Jill 1

Because her cousin is my brother's wife wich makes my brother's wife my sister-in-law, wich makes her cousin my cousin in-law (my cousin by marriage). So my sister-in-law's cousin who I wan't to marry is already related to me by marriage. What do I do. It will sound kinda wierd because then my sister-in-law's aunt who is by brother's aunt-in-law will be my brother-in-law.

2007-07-09 11:46:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

After a day looking after my grand daughter,an Italian meal treat from my daughter and a nice bottle of red when I got home I'm off to bed. Can you please keep the witty and humerous answers continuing in my absence.
Thank you in anticipation.

2007-07-09 11:41:58 · 22 answers · asked by jayemess 4

my mom wont leave me alone.she wont let me have any freedom,she tells embarissing stories about me to everyone,and she constantly worries about my weight and tells me i am probably not eating enough.(i am fine.im 13 and i weigh 109).and tells everyone every time something personal happens to me.
and my dad is worse.he pretends to be weird people and hugs me in public.and he tries to act cool in front of my friends.

and they are so overprotective!they barely let me leave the house.
what do i do?

2007-07-09 11:17:51 · 26 answers · asked by nobody 3

even if she doesn't want to assist in the matter.

2007-07-09 10:28:01 · 16 answers · asked by oprahcsi86 1

I periodically google my children and their spouses. I find out lots of stuff about them that I don't know that way. They say it's an invasion of privacy. How do you all feel?

2007-07-09 09:17:54 · 14 answers · asked by ransomschoice 2

My family history is so ugly. My great-great-grandmother was Cherokee and she may have been a slave. My great-grandmother was abandoned by her 1st husband, and her 2nd husband was abusive to her and the 12 children she had. My grandmother had been molested by this man, and her 4 brothers were beaten and all 8 girls were raped by this demon. My grandmother got pregnant by a married man and had my mother at 16. By the time I was born in 1980, my 15-yo mother almost gave birth to me in the toilet. Luckily, the doctors restrained her so I could be born. A few months after I was born, my mother developed a $100 a day crack habit. She abused me and hit me when I was an infant. For the next four years, I was shuffled around from Mom to Dad and my two grandmothers. When I finally went to live with Mom's mother, it was hell. My grandmother had married an alchololic and abusive man. I was filled with so much hate then, I knew I needed help, so I got therapy. Why does this still hurt me at 27?

2007-07-09 08:56:00 · 9 answers · asked by Peaches 2

they're always bossing me around and i feel like i have no control. i cant go and talk to my friends on the computer until ive done EVERYTHING. theyre control freak parents. they even put a password on the laptop, they have parental control on it so i cant go on past nine. I'M 14!! my mums a complete mental case, for filming (because im an extra in a tv series) they said one day i needed this jacket so i brought it and didnt have to use it, noone on set even saw it or even knew i had it. today i cant find it, but my mum's being completely unreasonable and is MAKING me find it, its a cheap jacket from a charity shop, i never (ever) wear it and i really dont need it! thats just one example. my mum, dad, and grandad are more bothered with hearing the telly than hearing about my day. my dad cba doing anything, my grandads a complainer and my mums got a headache all the time and is always complaining and nagging. how do i tell them to lay off me, i cant take any more, i get really wound up

2007-07-09 08:44:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

.. that you have to deal with, but do not want to? Boyfriend's 3-year old son's Mom and her wacked out family. AKA The Ex and family). I won't bore you with detalis. I am having trouble living a life of chaos.

2007-07-09 08:31:56 · 5 answers · asked by FridaY 3

yea i do play with LUANA and we do have fun i still love her and yea.sometimes would it be okey if we have so time alone or not you pick?there is also 2 little babies she plays with and they are sweet to and she sometimes won't let me babysit her and her little sister and she tells me to let go off her and she is 1 year old and she will not let me take good care of her and when i am babysitting too?plz help

2007-07-09 08:25:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

i wrote "i feel your pain, may god be with you and your family during this time of sorrow." his mom died of lung cancer and my dad was just diagnosed with lung cancer. also him and i are still very close, we have been in eachothers lives for about ten years now. should i get a new card? can someone give me some suggestions on how they would write it?

2007-07-09 07:40:11 · 12 answers · asked by ConFuZeDdd 1

I was born in Louisiana, where just about all of my family lives, and this year I moved to Texas. I have alot of family problems (involving abuse by a family member), so I am completely miserable even when I just visit Louisiana for a day or two.

My grandmother practically raised us. My mom worked full-time, and on the days when my dad was supposed to have us he just dropped us off at my grandmas house. We were there literally every day for most of the day from when I was a baby until my pre-teen years.

My grandmother begs me to move back home every time I talk to her. When she comes visit me, she always cries and says she can't wait until my lease is up so that I can move back home. In all reality, i have absolutely no intentions on moving back to Louisiana at all; I have never been as happy as I am living in Texas. I don't have the heart to tell her this to her face, but I know it needs to be done some time.

Am I wrong for putting my own happiness before hers?

2007-07-09 07:32:13 · 15 answers · asked by trippystemny 4

ok so ma sister that is 30 and her husband their 2 kids {ages 2 n 3} and her husbands brother {19},, ma brother {19} ma aunt {40 sometin} cousin {18} are all goin to vegas and i wanna go but ma dad dont trust me doin NOTHIN!! lol my aunt is responsible and ma brother is very proctive over me so i dont see y ma parents wouldnt let me go ma dad said i could go if he did but he aint cuz he said he dont got enough money but i told him i would save up $200 and pay ma way?!?!?!?! would ya let me go if you was ma parents LoL

2007-07-09 06:46:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

however he has never paid maintenance too me or my other three siblings. I know im 22 now, my brother 21, sister 19 and youngest 16. Thing is he ranaway to Pakistan and remarried, and hasnt returned to this country since. He has a house here and rents it out, that rent goes to him over in pakistan where he is enjoying a luxurious life. Recently 2 days ago his son from his new marriage came to the uk for the first time with his mums uncle.
Is there a way we could do something as the reason he left the country was simply because he didnt want to pay maintenance. Now his new son whom is 9 has come here. Surely there must be something we can do?

i rang my dad about a year ago and he asked me for money, i was extremely upset as he`s meant to be my dad and look after me. He left us with nothing, we were in a council house but our mother has worked so hard, and brought four off us up alone. Its not the money , well it is kind off its just that he cant get away with it. I just don`t know

2007-07-09 06:44:13 · 6 answers · asked by maryam h 1

I AM SO MAD AT HER!!!! I would have never let anyone in this whole entire universe read that! not even my best friend. That stuff in there was so personal. There r some really bad things in there.....Do u think i should tell my mom how much that hurt me? She doesnt kno that i kno. and then u kno what??? SHE TOLD MY AUNT AND NOW MY MOMS SIDE OF THE FAMILY KNOS WHATS IN THERE. i just dont want her to talk to me about the things in there.

2007-07-09 06:32:13 · 9 answers · asked by Nikkie 1

2007-07-09 05:33:41 · 8 answers · asked by serrulius 1

i need a good prank for my older sister any good ideas?

2007-07-09 05:01:30 · 11 answers · asked by m_ee_sa 1

my mum threatened 2 kick me out, coz she hit me alot and i reported her, so i ran away, im now living wiv my dad, but every 1 at schl tlks bout my mum and teases me, i miss my mum but i no shes not safe, kids at schl take the mick of me, i want my old schl back, but the only way is to go back 2 my mum but she will just put me into care, i would do ANYTHING 2 go back 2 my ld schl!!

2007-07-09 04:33:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-09 04:14:40 · 15 answers · asked by C. T 1

Am I right or overreacting..My sister and her boyfriend took my son (17) out for the 4th of July to a picnic and when they came back he couldn't even see straight or stand up.
I told her how upset I was the next morning and she (I thought)
wouldn,t let it happen again,

But it did, even worse and granted no one forced pills or drink down his throat . I asked her to be responsible and not let him or do it with him...now she even taught him how to abuse cold medicin .
Her argument is what was I like at 17. but she dosen't really know him or his history and argues that he would have found somewhere else to party with anyway.
He only knows about 8 people in this state and I think he would not have done it if it wasn't made avalible to him by his aunt who he has really only known a couple weeks.

Am I right at being really really REAL pi $$ ed at her?

2007-07-09 04:03:06 · 10 answers · asked by Rickdark1 6