my mum threatened 2 kick me out, coz she hit me alot and i reported her, so i ran away, im now living wiv my dad, but every 1 at schl tlks bout my mum and teases me, i miss my mum but i no shes not safe, kids at schl take the mick of me, i want my old schl back, but the only way is to go back 2 my mum but she will just put me into care, i would do ANYTHING 2 go back 2 my ld schl!!
2007-07-09 04:33:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
ask your dad if he can make special arrangements for you to go back to your old school ? I know that when we moved I had made special arrangements for my sons to go back to their old school where they were more comfortable . talk to your dad and see if he can do anything about it . I am glad you are safe maybe your mom needs counseling or something to get her life together . I m sorry you are having a bad time with your mom ,hopefully things will get better . good luck .
2007-07-09 04:39:06 · answer #1 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you want to go bacK to your mom? You say she hits you a lot. She even threatened to kick you out!!! What kind of a person are you? Do you like to be mistreated? Ignore the kids at school. If they tease you about that, laugh with them, and you will discover they will soon stop. Maybe some of them are in your same conditions and are saying those things as a self-defense. I am sure you will get very good friends in your new school, and no more beatings at home!!! Good luck!!!
2007-07-12 17:56:47 · answer #2 · answered by Adela C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People stop making fun of the way the question is written! If you don't have a solution shut up and keep your awful thinking for yourself! It is normal for a 14 to wright like this they old do that on the Internet! It's called abbreviations! You don't know in what conditions this was written in!
To the 14 year old:
Talk about this to your dad, your step mum brother or sister (if you have one) You need help and if no one can give it to you, you have to go and get it! Try and get the number of social services! They will help you ( i had experience with them)
Good luck hun xxx
2007-07-09 12:39:05 · answer #3 · answered by myslipperskickass 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Theres prolly nothing you can do, i'm sorry i'm 18 and finaly got the nerve to move out on my own and i'm doing wonderful but i miss all my friends, its gunna be hard for a while but, as you can see yourself its not a safe place for you to go back to. Your mom shouldn't have hit you and you did the right thing by reporting her maybe not the running away because in the US or KS you can get in alot of trouble for that. About, school tho there really isn't much that you can do just talk to people get to kno them and thoses people who make fun of you jsut blow it off. act like it doesn't bother you, because if you act like it does bother you they will jsut be meaner and meaner. Good Luck! Keep ur head up!!!
2007-07-09 11:38:35 · answer #4 · answered by Brit M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How far is your school from the place where you are living now? Maybe you could go up metro / train / bus / ask your dad's wife to bring you...
Don't go back to your mum's place ... maybe it's not too bad to keep in contact with her ( if that's still possible ) but your own safety is your own priority! You'll make new friends at your new school, really , believe be. And your can still keep in contact with your old friends by mail / phone
2007-07-09 11:40:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could ask social services to place you in a foster home near your old school. That is the only thing I can think of... Some schools will let you finish out a semester even if you've moved out of the area.
You're very brave for standing up for yourself but don't allow schoolmates to abuse you either. Tell your teachers, guidance counsellor, principal. You're not a tattletale, you're actually probably helping protect other people that those people might abuse.
2007-07-09 11:38:30 · answer #6 · answered by Mommy Girl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You will get used to your new school and make friends... Don't fight it, there is no way you are going back to your old school unless your dad is willing to move to that district..... I hope your mom gets some help for her abusive tendencies so you can one day have a relationship with her again...... Good luck..
2007-07-09 11:40:35 · answer #7 · answered by catarina33pa99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how far away from your old school are you and you should talk to your dad if you are that unhappy maybe he can sort something out i wish you the best of luck
2007-07-09 13:07:07 · answer #8 · answered by womonwithattitude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im so sorry
Ask yopur dad if its possible to spend half the time there and half with him
2007-07-12 14:49:00 · answer #9 · answered by ~*tigger*~ ** 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and talk to your dad about this and he might beable to find a way for you to go back there.
2007-07-11 17:45:28 · answer #10 · answered by Wide Awake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋