Family - July 2007

yknow when you get a step dad and he isnt your real dad

then if its with stepbrothers or sisters, does that mean theyre not your real brother or sister?

2007-07-11 03:28:37 · 3 answers · asked by Gavin L 1

My fiance is 20 years old, we have been together for almost 2 years. I HATE HIS DAD!! He rude, he controls my fiance in everything that he does. He still lives at his dads because his dad makes up excuses to why he cant move in with me yet, the first and the worst was " if you move we will cut ties" basically saying his will disown him, or that my brother who lives with me does drugs and now not til he finishes college. His truck has a topper, and his dad wont let him take it off because he says it will look "retarded" if he takes it off!! ITS A TRUCK!!! He watches porn in the family room while we are there and he walks around naked!!! How can I help my fiance get out of his father tight grip!?

2007-07-11 03:28:12 · 2 answers · asked by Kaden James born 4/11/2009 2

What can be done if a father is trying to see his daughter after 6 yrs? The mother took the daughter and left and the father has been searching for them . But, they were never married.
Can anything be legally done so the father can see his daugher again? The mother denys him of seeing his daughter.
Please give me some advice so i can help out the father.

2007-07-11 03:21:34 · 6 answers · asked by honibear35 2

would you guys like an itemized statement of purchases? id be glad to provide one....then you all could see how very little your "BIG CHILD SUPPORT" really helps.

2007-07-11 03:08:48 · 16 answers · asked by mercedesofladies36 2

How do you deel with something bad that is happening to someone in your family that you love of course and is one of your closest grandparents when you dont feel like everyone else does. like it hasnt hit you that it is happening like something like this cant happen to this person i guess because you love them to much. he had a heart attack and isnt doing well everyone around me is crying but i'm not. but that doesnt mean i dont care because i do! whats going on?

2007-07-11 03:02:15 · 7 answers · asked by lost in the moment♥ 1

Should I turn my uncle in for molesting me when I was about the age of 7 or 8? The sexual abuse went on for over 2 years. Will he be put behind bars if I told the police and stuff? I'm now 22 years of age. I'm just wondering.

2007-07-11 02:57:11 · 15 answers · asked by Ms Ghost 6

I like the fact my Mom always kept her word,

2007-07-11 02:47:57 · 6 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6

yesterday me and my friend were playing a game and my mom was cleaning and she was wearing one of my shirts which was pretty small so she bend over to pick up some papers and her boobs were showing she doesn't like to wear bra's when she home now my friend wouldn't come over any more any advice

2007-07-11 02:26:35 · 9 answers · asked by kenisha H 1

what can a father do to keep his child in the same state....i realize a lawyer will be needed

2007-07-11 02:05:00 · 6 answers · asked by mercedesofladies36 2

My brother is 8 and he also cries i am ok tho with them divorcing but not ok with it too at the same time but i really mad please please help me bc i know u ppl can help

2007-07-11 02:04:23 · 11 answers · asked by Jenna s 2

i have a sister who is 15 years older my parents are both dead. I am the youngest of 6 kids. I have thought for years she is more my mother then mom ever was has always been there for me until recently all she wants to do is cause trouble. I am in my 2nd marriage the 1st one lasted 3 years the family all treated him like sh** so we divorced. I admit this marriage has been rocky but we have been together 26 years I have been told by many how many times he has fu**** around on me I have never caught him in the act and refuse to go by what others tell me. Maybe I am stupid but anyway. I chose to stay in my marriage for my own dumb reasons. But now I am being told by my sister that my man has been in her Pants, And 2 of my other sisters also, tryed to go to bed with my Mother, Had my niece,and has fathered at least 4 kids by other women. I am so tired of the turmoil in the family I have changed my number and she still gets it. We moved she got our new address. It is always something.

2007-07-11 01:51:44 · 3 answers · asked by bjwill72961 2

I didn't agree w/ it. But me and my boyfriend faught so bad. He took there social security cards. How can I find out. I know she did. She claimed too only get $800.00 for my 2 kids. When I wanted to see the paper work she got pissed and said there's nothing on forms. How could I find out w/out getting her in trouble for the sake of my boyfriend?

2007-07-11 00:46:23 · 11 answers · asked by Kendra420 4

My boyfriends mum comes to our new house everyday to keep our dog company for a few hours while we are at work. The trouble is she keeps doing my housework, moving things around making our bed!!! Whilst I am grateful of her help with the dog I feel very uncomfortable with this, especially the bedmaking! Am I being petty? How should i address this problem?

2007-07-11 00:41:43 · 22 answers · asked by JOANNE C 3

month but her Godfather's Mum died suddenly last week and was buried on Saturday though. As he had to take bereavement leave as holidays in order to get paid he cannot get the time off he originally scheduled for the christening.

More than that though, last week when he was worrying over it I said not to. That given the circumstances it would not be a problem to put it back a couple of months to a better time - thinking that after just losing his Mum having such a contrasting event is just inappropriate.

Anyway - now my family are up in arms about it. I seem to have offended everyone by choosing to postpone the event for these reasons.

No specific invitations were sent. No-one else has to work a Sunday and thus take time off. Not one of my family offered or was going to help with the likes of organising or decorating the house/buffet/cost etc so I feel really bemused as to why they are so angry.

They are not even religious!

Anyway - my Mum's exact words were that life

2007-07-10 23:46:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i need to get revenge on my little sister who is 12 years old without getting in trouble, i am looking for something that would embarrass her big time, hurt her mentally and physically, annoy her and make her angry and scared…don’t give me craps like living well, go to church or revenge is not the right answer and things like that

2007-07-10 23:03:40 · 8 answers · asked by chr!st!ne 1

Does anyone think that it is possible for a child to act normally in child parent relationship that is being abused. My boyfriend was molested as a child and i think it was by his father. Some of the things that he said in the past kind of had me curious. MY gut instinct, as a woman, tells me something is not right between him and his daughter that he is raising by himself. Here is the complicated part, the kid act like she loves her father and acts like a normal kid, but my instinct wont let this one go. Can a child act in this manner and at the same time be introduced emotional and/or sexual abuse

2007-07-10 22:31:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

she wants 2 move 2 san jose but i don't i want 2 stay in sac but i could move 2 moutain rach with my mom & dad but i really want 2 stay in sac what should i do! plz help me! i'm so very lost!

2007-07-10 22:17:32 · 5 answers · asked by ~*L0c@*~ 2

My step-brother is always with guys. He's 18 and doesn't seem to have any interest in girls except just friends. He has never had a girlfriend and isnt bad looking.

2007-07-10 20:16:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter is 5 yrs old. and incredibly intelligent. I told her today that her dad isnt her real dad..i told her in a way that would make some bit of sense to a 5 yr old and she took it very well.
I just didnt want her to find out later or me tell her later and her feel like her life was a lie. And trust me, she will remember that I told her, she still remembers things I have said and done from 2 yrs ago.
would you have told your child at this age?

2007-07-10 20:15:30 · 9 answers · asked by Christine A 2

My son who was the pet of his Daddy till recently suddenly seems to get distracted from him.He does not get along with him well. They both fight with every other subject. I am unable to convince both of them. How do I build a better relation between them as my son has entered into his teens.

2007-07-10 19:54:27 · 10 answers · asked by rathu 1

Just a question, My son's friend got kicked out of home last night by his mum,he is only 14
Now i said he could stay the night
I have no phone number to call the parent so i drove down to his home to let them know he was ok and safe
No one answered the door there was some one home - I waited a few minutes to see if any one was going to answer the door but no one did
I have now got to go to work to day but will try again before i go to let the mother know her son is with us and safe.
What would you do ?

2007-07-10 19:18:13 · 20 answers · asked by angies_angel_eyes2 3

I live with my mom and step dad while going through a divorce. Today, I gave my son an extra treat in addition to the treat he had after dinner. Yes I know kids arent supposed to eat that much junk but I dont normally give him that much. When my stepdad found out, he yelled at me in front of my son and said he already had a treat. I just feel that it was wrong.

2007-07-10 18:24:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 22 and I love my family so much but they treat me like a punching bag, I want to move but I'm afraid to leave because in some twisted way I feel like they need me and I need them. My mother and father drink a lot and accuse me of being on drugs(which I have never done) or complaining because I get frustrated with them and have emotional break downs(this is something my mother does all the time but shes completely stone when it comes to someone elses feelings) So I guess my question is do I have a problem or do my parents? and when I try to talk to them they don't listen how can I reason with them about they're drinking without them getting defensive and screaming at me?

2007-07-10 18:20:31 · 17 answers · asked by AB+++++++ 2

i think its wrong i think parents should support you not the other way around

2007-07-10 17:34:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

A month ago my step grandma elected me to help her with two younger cousins of mine when they visit. She always has them out here every summer and this time she told me I'd help her take them to a theme park, to the movies, and swimming. Not that I really mind doing any of these things, but the fact she didn't ask has gotten to me. Her son, my step father, couldn't believe she didn't ask. She also hasn't said thank you for the things I've already done. (I'm midweek with it). This weekend I'm in a wedding and the bride has asked me to do last minute things with her and help her out. I really like doing this sort of thing and she's feeling overwhelmed. I'm the only one not working much this week so she asked me to come to her mercy. I told her yes, forgetting about my prior "agreement" to my step grandma. Now I feel horrible about not being able to help the bride after stating I would. My step grandma can definitely handle the girls alone. They are 6 and 8. How do I get out of this?

2007-07-10 17:29:04 · 5 answers · asked by Tiffany 3

I'm 24 and I've been out of her house for about 6 years. I don't have a particularly great relationship with her. She is verbally/emotionally abusive so when she calls, I like to avoid answering the phone. I'e tried rationally talking to her but whenever I try, she says "good grief! can't you just grow up?" I hate being around her and in the past 2 days, she's left 4 voicemails on my phone. I just don't want to talk to her because when I do, she makes me so depressed. I know this sounds horrible but I just don't want to deal with all the emotional baggage. Should I just cut my ties with her? It's taken a considerable amount of therapy when I moved out to be emotionally stable. When I talk to her, it feels like I'm back at step one...What should I do? If I cut ties with her, should I call her and tell her not to contact me or should I just ignore when she calls? I'm at the end of my rope dealing with her. What do you think???

2007-07-10 17:23:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

he just hit me cuzz i was yellind at mii mom

2007-07-10 16:56:00 · 6 answers · asked by niki_fertelle 1

I have a brother-in-law who talks all the time. He will monopolize a conversation and cut you off when you are speaking. He thinks he's always right, and voices his opinion even when I have not asked for it. On top of all that, he's controlling and a dictator... telling people what to do all the time.

I dread when he visits because I don't like being around him. He's annoying. I thought it was me but others have expressed their concern and agree with all of the above.

Any advise is much appreciated.

2007-07-10 16:44:51 · 8 answers · asked by girl_fired_up 2

im 15 and my mom is a drunk. i live with her. my parents are divorced. i have two brothers. we hate it when my mom drinks. she is not a good mom. i tried talking to her and that didnt help. so anyways i spend a lot of time with my grandma who is 56. my mom gets jealous when i hang out with my grandma because she feels that i like her better. i kinda do. so i talked to her. i said "can i go with grandma?" she said " today is not the day to be going anywhere." i said "but i have to." she said "why?" i said " i miss her. whenever i try to depend on you, you act like a lunitic." she walked away and said "oh starla!" she was crying as she walked to her room. i followed her. she faced the wall and wouldnt face me. " im sorry." I said. "so i guess im a bad mother?" she said crying. "no your not, you need to stop drinking." i said. then she went on and on about how i shouldnt be spending so much time with my grandma. help! i miss grandma not my mother! i hate her!

2007-07-10 15:39:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

which is fine but my younger brother is going into the academy for correctional officer anyways my older brother says to me and tells someone else oh he wont make it etc it hurts me that they havent talked but now hes saying **** like that iam going through deppression as it is with other things help and how do i handle it or say to him so we dont stop talking

2007-07-10 15:01:08 · 2 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7