Family - July 2007

i had only stolen 100 dollars, i'm pretty afraid of my mom too will anybody in my family trust me anymore?

2007-07-12 13:35:55 · 10 answers · asked by kelthug12 1

2007-07-12 13:35:29 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

My family thinks that since I am the closest to him (we are like brother and sister) I should be the one to talk to him. It seems like he has been dropping hints lately. We just want him to know that it is ok and we don't care...he doesn't have to hide it.

2007-07-12 13:26:26 · 15 answers · asked by cpaw03 2

and dont say your too young for a cell phone i just need lines to say to my mom to convince her!!!!!!!!

2007-07-12 13:18:09 · 62 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister drags me on the floor, cusses and doesnt make me anything to eat. Im only 11 and i need to find out a way to not be in the house as her!

2007-07-12 13:05:23 · 5 answers · asked by (: 1

My Dad treats me like im mental and I can't remember the last time he said I love you!!!!

Any comments on what to do?!

Serious only please! Im hurting here!

2007-07-12 12:04:56 · 7 answers · asked by doglover1012 2

My inlaws decided to take it upon themselves and tell my hubby that he had a drinking problem. He does but it isnt for them to decide. They told him a bunch of nasty, out of line, uncalled for things and somehow it became my fault. I must have said something.... NOT!! So... I am PISSED!! How do I act towards them and what do I say if they say something about what they said already? I just want to tell them off but what would you suggest so I dont offend them too much? I dont mind offending them but I want to do it tactfully. Thanks

2007-07-12 12:00:11 · 4 answers · asked by Mrs. Always Right 5

2007-07-12 11:39:44 · 20 answers · asked by 4xsamommie 3

my dad has had various problems wiv my sister and he cant control her. he has tried everything for example: stopping pocket money, groundings, threatened to cut her hair off. but she keeps gettin worse. she is 13 and she is practising things sexually. wot do we do? as he cant hit her as it is now against the law. she is smoking, going from boyfriend to boyfriend in the matter of a week. we need help coz social workers cant get through to her by threatening her with foster/ care homes. please help.

2007-07-12 11:23:37 · 15 answers · asked by steveanderson121@btinternet.com 1

Ok hi people, i really need help! i`m fixing to have to go to court..Because of what my step sister did to our family. It`s not over yet what happened it was just based on a lie! Well i have to go to court in tell my side of the story..In like Idk! i don`t really wanna do it. But i`ma get money for it. Oh in My parents are having trouble becuz my step dads ex wife Gets childsupport for having his kids. They don`t live with usanymore thank God! but uhm. we have to come up with alot of money. In im getting worried cus i don`t wanna lose our house!! What should i do?!!! Oh in she sends us letters alot. Can my family put er on Harresment thng? oh she don`t live in the same state as us. She lives somewhere else. Please help what do i do?!

2007-07-12 09:44:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

my brother said im spoiled roten n i dun beleve hiim. how am i spoiled?? okey. first i dont lyke doin chores, who cares n i get evrythang i went so who kares. maybe i am spoiled but wuts rong wit dat?!?!?!?!??!?! i luv being spoiled, my dad calls me paris hilton, wuts wrong wit dat. i make pretty good grades [C's] so.................how can i seam not spoiled n e more but still get evrythang i went n not do chores?

2007-07-12 09:14:43 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

My cousin planned on taking a trip in Sept. from the 5th to the 9th to South Beach....now with a child entering the 1st grade I thought I would be able to go on the trip and return in time for the first day of School but I just yesterday learned that in NYC school is starting on Sept 4th this year (earlier then I thought)......Now I can't go but she's telling me to get someone else to watch her so I can go on the trip.....I'm not missing my daughter's first week of school just so I can go to South Beach cause SHE needs a vacation.....Why doesn't she understand that that's no one elses responsibilty but my own??? Why is she being so selfish?? She's Mad at me cause she wants to go but her daughter isn't in school yet and she doesn't understand....

2007-07-12 09:11:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think I'm just being over protective? My mother in law wants us to allow my 7 and 5 year old boys to fly ALONE from Indiana to Florida. She said she'd pay for a flight attendant to watch them during the flight.
I'm terrified of them going without my husband or I and I'd never forgive myself if something happend to them! I'd never keep her from seeing my sons but while she is in town but she moved to Florida after my kids were born (after saying she'd never move away from her grandkids like her mother did) so it's her own fault she doesn't see them so much!
When she did live her she watched my oldest son when he was a few months old while I was at work and was gone for hours after I got home from work without leaving a note or phone # or anything... we had no idea where they were.. I just don't think she knows them well enough to keep them that long and wouldn't keep a good enough eye on them while they were there... Am I in the wrong?

2007-07-12 09:09:30 · 28 answers · asked by Heather 4

My brother's wife and I are always arguing, which always puts my brother in an awkward position. However, we have to see each other during family gatherings. I really don't want to make it difficult for him, or my parents, but I find her stuck-up, arrogant, annoying, aggressive, shallow and possessive. What can I do to help relieve the situation when we're in the same house.

2007-07-12 08:46:48 · 11 answers · asked by Maria 2

2007-07-12 08:41:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 15 years old, turning 16 in three months, I was in a gang since i was 13, smoked bud, stold things, i even shot somebody. Since my last arrest (4 months ago), my mom stopped working and won't let me go out anymore, I tried leaving but she called the police and always threatens to do so. Now i feel like I don't have a life at all, like im locked up. im sorry for what i did but i wanna be out there in the streets. Was she right to do this?? Am I wrong??

2007-07-12 08:31:18 · 8 answers · asked by shot 3

is in custody of mother in one state and is visiting with father for a month during summer. states she would like to remain with father citing fear and some cruelty. can father go to court in his state to seek custody and does daughter because of her age have any input as to where she would like to remain

2007-07-12 08:27:39 · 6 answers · asked by lloydgreen1942 1

2007-07-12 08:22:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi. Ok. My parents have been divorced for 11 yrs ans i am 16> my dad is selfish and really never does anything for me > they take child support out of his checks becuz he will not pay > he can afford it> he thinks that ppl are out to get him and he is basically crazy> hes 40 and lives with his parents still becuz he wouldnt pay for the farm or his truck or the bank took it away>> my mother has always been there for me and taken care of me before herself> i dont want to end up like him and basically need to stay away from him becuz hes crazy> im torn

2007-07-12 08:16:18 · 20 answers · asked by Severus Snape 5

what are a mother's duties when, from the time of giving birth to raising the child?

such as:
1 to protect from abuse etc.

2007-07-12 08:10:50 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have an Aunt who is full of hatred and is envious of quite a few other family members. She degrades me to other family members who then turn around and tell me, and then she denies it. She is obviously unhappy with her life, and wants to make everyone else unhappy too. Hence the term "Misery Loves Company". I stopped speaking to her for about 9 months, and then began talking with her again about a week ago, and she's back to the same undermining schemes and rudeness is even worse than before. I ask her what her problem is, and she says there is none, and then I inquire what did I do to ever hurt her, and she says nothing, and acts like everything she is doing is acceptable. I think she has a split personality disorder, but I am personally fed up with her talking about me behind my back, to other family members about things that only exist in her mind. I'm just wanting to know if anyone else out there went through something like this, and what they did to handle the situation.

2007-07-12 08:09:13 · 21 answers · asked by momof3anglz 3

I brought home two baby bunnies a few days ago. I knew I couldn't keep both, but figured I could give one up and keep one. I work for a local pet store as mangement so I make good money and get a discount on supplies. I am also the one who would be caring for it. His response was to find homes for both and then tell me to bring them to his job, so his coworkers could each take one. He then informed me that there ould be NO more animals in this house. I mean my stand point is it's my house to (or so I thought.) What would you do?

2007-07-12 08:01:24 · 11 answers · asked by Diana 2

She is making me miserable. She has always made me feel like nothing I do is ever good enough.

I am in college (doing very well), I have two children. She always makes comments like "maybe they think they are too good for you" when I talk about why I don't fit in with yuppie parents at my son's school; she planned a camping trip for family and friends on a weekend that I would be unable to go and I informed her of this prior to her making final plans-she then got mad when I told her that we would be unable come because we would be in Myrtle Beach and told my sons that they would miss out on the camping trip because i am a "selfish-meanie" which of course upset them that they would not be going; she lost track of my son at a water park last weekend and he was missing for 1/2 hour-he was fine but I was so upset because she didn't apologize and only said "it's not my fault"; the list goes on...

Am I being oversensitive or do I have a right to be upset with her?

2007-07-12 07:42:43 · 11 answers · asked by HRchick 4

I'm 13 and have a good relationship wityh my mom But for the last few months she's been kinda weird, different. She broke several promises she had made to me and lied 3 times, about things important to me. I got devastated, if I can't trust my own mom, who will I trust? When she realized how hurt I was she apologized, desperately, cried a lot, hugged me tight, asked for forgiviness and pleaded with me to keep trusting her. Now, I'm really confused, I'm terribly hurt but also terribly sorry for her. I thinlk I'll simply forgive and forget, I'm about to consider this as one of those weakness, one of those mistakes everybody makes sometimes.

I'll never use this as a justification for me myself to lie, break promises, be mean or do bad stuff. But, now my question: if it was me the one to lie to her and break promises? Would she forgive me from the depth of her heart? Would she accept my apologies and keep trusting me?

2007-07-12 07:24:58 · 45 answers · asked by Sonia 1

Ok I am 20 and I have never really been that close to my mom at all... just my dad. So its kind of like I dont really have a mother figure in a way because my mom lives about 600 miles away from me in a diff. state. Well I have a friend that is 31 that was my past college teacher and she is really nice and I really look up to her as an ideal and everything. Well she didn't have any kids when I met her but she was pregnant. Today she had her first baby and I feel like now that she has a baby she wont talk to me really that much as I want. I understand tho that when u have a baby it makes you incredibly busy. I kinda feel like I might be substituting her as a mother figure in a very SMALL way. We arent really good friends yet but are still getting to know each other more.. we only talk through email. But I want to see her baby and go to her house. I dont know if she would want me to tho. I just want to keep in good touch with her and be a really good friend to her.

2007-07-12 07:10:02 · 7 answers · asked by pink_flamingo1211 1

2007-07-12 06:57:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 25 and I'm beginning to realize that my mother is a highly-irrational control freak.

After living on my own for a year, my fiancé & I moved to my parents' house to get out of a bad roommate situation. That was three months ago and we're trying like hell to get out. Everytime I tell her about a potential place, she finds a way to shoot it down. She blew off the idea of co-signing for us to get a place (because we have no credit) because she doesn't care if we ever leave or not.

I mentioned today that I would like to take over medical insurance payments someday, and that coupled with the fact that I wouldn't like living on a piece of land with my whole family around (just a pipedream anyhow) apparently = I want NOTHING to do with my family at ALL. She says that "love doesn't last", and that my fiancé & I can't live on our own without anyone else.

The most hurtful thing about her is that she is EXTREMELY against us ever having a family -- ever.

2007-07-12 06:56:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

First of all I apologize for asking such a sensitive and disgusting question on a forum like this. But I am in such a frustrated state of mind which forces me to ask this question for your sincere opinion.

I am an 18 year old teen from a religious and conservative family. My mother is aged 42 and my father expired in my early childhood.

Yesterday night proved one of the most shocking night for me which has shattered me emotionally to a great extent.

Unfortunately I happened to watch my mom getting nude in front of my uncle (my father's elder brother).
I peeped into my mom's bedroom out of curiosity and watched them making love. My uncle is a 60 year old retired fellow, whom I respected a lot. I just couldn't believe my eyes. It came to me as a rude shock.

Haven seen a nude woman for the first time and that too my own mother sleeping with another man is very indigestible for me.
Should I talk to my mother(which I am finding utterly embarrassing). Helpmeclearmymindandacceptthisdfact

2007-07-12 06:11:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

my hubby is gone to abroad,he dosent do anything about it , we have lots of fight, i have a daughter of 2 yrs,i dont know what to do, i hve no support frp my parents as she fought with them and now we have no relations with them tooo, i have no other family member excep 2 sis in law , & they too support my mom in law(no physical harresment only mental torture),i need some space since 8 yrs of my marriage i am becoming weak and losing confidence in doing things please help

2007-07-12 05:04:35 · 15 answers · asked by payal s 1

and when she comes over to my house she sleeps naked on my couch even during the day and when i tell her something she gets angry can i get some help

2007-07-12 04:50:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous