Family - July 2007

How can I convince my mom to let me get an AIM SN so I can talk to my friends and crush online. I'm responsible and its not letting I'm planning to be sitting on the computer all day long. I just want it so I can talk to them when I want to without the hassle of the phone. I've showed her the info and everything so its not like I'm hiding anything from her, she's just very protective. Any advive or tips on how to convince her that its safe, and I will be repsonsible? If you need any more info please ask!

2007-07-13 06:33:17 · 16 answers · asked by heyheylet'sdoitagain 2

My sister jordan is popular. but she is only 14 and she has died her hair bleahc blonde and brown underneath. she wears lots of eyeliner and make-up. everyone likes her and all the guys think shes hot. but she dresses sleazy and you can always see her bra. everyone lieks her though!!. but she has a boyfriend a year older than her. and she has sex and gets drunk at parties and my parents dont know. i promised her i wouldnt tell my mom and dad.should i or should i not??

2007-07-13 06:32:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ummm... How do I put this?

I'm 13, and recently me and my girlfriend had sex, please dont criticize me for this, as it was my choise...

It spead around school, and the teachers found out...

They said i've got a week to tell my parents, but im not sure how...

I'd prefure to tell my mum, and let her tell my dad...

The girl isnt pregant or anything...

2007-07-13 05:11:51 · 70 answers · asked by Draak Rosso! 1

My niece is 13 years old. Since it's difficult to find babysitters, she was elected by the family to become one.

My niece was babysitting 4 children (age 8 and below, her cousins) The children are really good kids - independent and tends to play with each other. All that is necessary for them is to make sure they don't get any cuts and bruises, and feed them, nothing troublesome.

Well, she decides to take the bus over to my house, bring her 12 year old friend (and the child she was babysitting), drop them off, and go watch a movie with her friend.

Luckily, it was my day off, and I managed to notice these 5 kids running around my house.

This is outrageous! How do I get it into her mind how dangerous that was?! What can I do? Is there any way I can get law enforcement or some place that can talk to her?

2007-07-13 04:54:47 · 8 answers · asked by Joey T 3

If I do, I apologize. I suppose I didn't read the rules close enough. I never intended to offend anyone. Just looking for the right position, and the right people to care about. Love caring for elderly people. There are so many times I have seen them abused. Thought I wanted to make a difference. I guess that's why wise guy was so offended by my question. It is hard to trust people. Not everyone is bad! I still believe that. Even now. He may have had a similar experience. If so I'm sorry for him!

2007-07-13 04:41:50 · 3 answers · asked by newbie 2

2007-07-13 04:22:53 · 12 answers · asked by Jama H 1

My little sisters fight all the time about the most ridiculous little things (like who goes into the car first or where the ladder on the bunk bed should be...) and it drives me completely insane! They are 6 and 9. I'm 13. I don't get it we're all 3 and a half years apart but me and the 9-year-old never fought so much! what's wrong with them? What should I do?

2007-07-13 03:26:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-13 03:25:44 · 11 answers · asked by tim'slove 3

If your dad was facing FED time...
Would you want to be with him through court..
It maybe your last time to see him for awhile..
If you're the oldest of 2 daughters... would you worry?

Wouldn't you want to support him...
Would you want a SOS to support you...?

2007-07-13 02:50:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't understand my father. My dad and I really don't get along as much as we used to. Now that I'm growing up he tends to do this thing that aggravates me. He is quick to get mad at me. He has to point out every single mistake I do and yell at me. When I do something good he doesn't care. He has enough energy to yell at me for 10 minutes but not enough to tell me "good job" . If he doesnt tell me I have to aske him to tell me. He hardly never gives me hugs and sometimes he tells me he loves me but I have to tell him first. I don't know anymore.

2007-07-13 02:46:09 · 20 answers · asked by Lolita 1

I am curious as to reasons people might have.

2007-07-13 02:38:05 · 12 answers · asked by mamadana 3

My mother in law made a big fuss over what she wanted for christmas, in fact going so far to find a catalog and circle what she wanted (it was a tread mill).

I didn't think it was the highest of quality and recommended getting a better one, but my wife said no...

Anyways, my parents are having a tag sale this weekend and I saw that very treadmill with a price tag of 20.00 on it (I paid over 200.00)

I questioned them about it, but they avoided the subject.

I'm VERY upset by this and wonder if these feelings are normal. How should I handle this situation?

2007-07-13 02:37:48 · 16 answers · asked by Ted Arcidi 2

Why do/did you? (Or why don't/didn't you?)

2007-07-12 23:35:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wifes ex husband is over 11,000 dollars behind in child support and hardly ever sees his daughter. We went to an attorney and presented the case we had to him and he said that we would not be able to win in court. I think this is not fair. I am obviously supporting this child and i want her to be mine but i cannot adopt her because he will not sign over his rights. is there any loop hole than we can sneak through

2007-07-12 22:28:14 · 8 answers · asked by shane b 1

Hi,

It's my girlfriends 21st coming up. We have been together 6 years and I don't know what to buy her.

We don't have a lot of money as we are saving desperately for a mortgage.

I want to get something nice and unusual but don't know what. Anyone have any ideas?

Thanks

2007-07-12 22:25:54 · 26 answers · asked by James Ed 2

Long story short, she didn't care that my dad/her husband died. "He died and he's still sticking me for $ over his funeral"-my mom (she never cried).

She owes me about 2k, but will not acknowledge it. She wrecked my car after I let her borrow it for free for 6 months. To borrow hers would cost me $10/day. *I'm still car less*

She calls me fat (I'm 5'6 and weigh 140).

She tries to write me a (bad) check to borrow money.

At age 12 I lived with extended family (they were always on drugs) until I was 17.

She has never said she loves me.

2007-07-12 20:03:43 · 12 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2

that didnt get you anyhting for your birthday and his birthday is coming up..... would you get him anyhting for his birthday???
And come on people his birthday is tomorrow!!!!

2007-07-12 18:41:38 · 7 answers · asked by ♥Desi♥ 1

well my name has been selscted in the an engineering college in Bombay and i live in delhi.
and i am very sad that i will have to leave my home and my family and go to live in Bombay with my uncle.
My mother was crying in the morning and even i feel to cry because tommorrow i am leaving my family..

what to do ?
how would i live without my parents and live in an entirely new place.

2007-07-12 17:32:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-12 17:19:26 · 8 answers · asked by psychiclife59 1

If your parents say you're grounded to the house, and your 18, legally they can't force you to stay in their house. Am I correct?

2007-07-12 16:33:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a older sister that is getting on my nevers.

2007-07-12 15:36:21 · 10 answers · asked by Merissa C 1

I wanted to help by trying to catch some of these pedofiles on the internet by posing as a young girl( 10 years old) well I did it. and I figured I could just start and find out how to go about telling on him later on, well by the time i got something on the guy, I found out that was I was doing was illegal? I was told that it was called entrapment. Is this true? Is there another way that I could go about getting this guy in trouble? This guy seems like the type of predator to steal a child and keep them captive. It bothers me really bad knowing that I might not be able to do anything about this now, another child might be at risk if I dont do something. What can I do without getting myself in trouble?

2007-07-12 14:54:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

i need some serious support or to vent-im in a shitty situation-my boyfriend is very abusive-he always tells me he wants to punch me in the face-and choke me and that he hopes i fall down the stairs-he wants me to cook and clean and shut my mouth-have no opinion-not to talk unless talked to-im not allowed to pursue any of my dreams-i have no friends-i have no family-my father passed and mom is ill -i dont know what to do-i have no money,no car,its his house since he pays the bills,i dont have anything-his family is VERY supportive-im in mesa,with all his family-his family doesnt like my children because there not daniels-i have no access to a phone unless i begggg him to use it-in front of him-for some reason i just want to end my life-i stay because-him and his mom will take custody of our daughter-i have no money,no home,no family,nothing-except for the clothes on my back and thats it. im using his computer-because he thinks im paying his bills online-please dont make fun of me-

2007-07-12 14:42:50 · 17 answers · asked by DEDRA 2

well, my mom is crying and my dad is not yelling but my mom was crying because my dad never comes home early, i know he would not be doing anything bad because i have known him for a long time but i think he should be getting home earlier but he will not really answer a good answer. pls help?

2007-07-12 14:22:31 · 7 answers · asked by w♥ 2

My cousin is going to have a baby, and i wanted to give it a special present, so i bought a piggy bank that i can decorate, but she will not know what the baby will be until it will be born, but i have to give her the present in the summer because i have to go to schooland will not be seeing her, because she lives far away. What can i decorate the piggy bank with, so that it will be a nice present for either a boy or girl. I wil lbe painting it, so it has to be simple.

Thank you SOO much!

2007-07-12 14:13:28 · 5 answers · asked by italyguitarchick 4

I love my 2 year old brother as if he was my own. However, I live with my grandmother because me and my parents couldn't get along. My parents are always trying to make my life a livin hell by threatening me that I will never see him again and that I am not welcome in their house. So what do I do so that I don't end up losing my brother?

2007-07-12 14:02:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My grandfather has been very sick since February. After back and forth to the hospitals and rehabs to get him better and home, he still needs alot of care and rehab. He is in a Nursing Home now to try and rehab him to walk (his left leg gives out due to diabetes I believe and perhaps a stroke) and then hopefully get him home. He drove and did everything for his whole family and my grandmother up until he got too sick and is now in this situation. He really does not want to be there, but he is pleasant. What can I do or my family do to lift his spirits to make him more happy or comfortable???

2007-07-12 13:51:40 · 8 answers · asked by fun11 2

She'll go out like once or twice a week and I always get stuck babysitting my sibblings.
Everytime when she decides she is going out it is always within a half an hour before she leaves
Everytime before she leaves I somehow always make a big scene but sometimes I don't even remember how I started them
She'll always get really mad and I'll get yelled at
But I hate to see her mad at me so I am always stuck just sucking it up and knowing she's mad at me
But I feel that it could be eating away inside of me and pulling me farther away from her
But when she isnt going out and she has gotten over our last fight I am really close to her
I just hate thinking that she is driving away mad at me
Sometime later after she leaves she'll call to see how they're behaving and she seems to have calmed down and she doesnt seem mad but i still feel horrible and she says she'll talk to me about it in the morning but she never really does
what should i do? i love her and hate whats going on.

2007-07-12 13:51:24 · 5 answers · asked by xoLoveMaexo 2

ok funny question.

theres this boy i know

my uncle married his aunt/

so does tht mean he's my cousin???

how about my aunts daughter (my uncles her step-dad)

no dumb questions!

=]
thnks in advance!

2007-07-12 13:48:48 · 5 answers · asked by fashionista 2

I'm Taylor, and I'm a 16 year old girl. My family is thinking we have to move because of our money problems, and I really don't want to. I've lived in this house for years! I have a little brother, and a little sister. I've argued this with my parents before, and they said we wouldn't move. Well, this morning, I found some papers in the computer room about a month later with properties on them. And I'm very upset about it. Seriously, I could cry. I'm thinking I might as well go through with it, but I will not like it at all. I'm feeling so embarassed, especially thinking I have to tell my friends about it if they ask.

I was just wondering if anyone has dealt with this kind of problem, and advice to give me. I really want to help my parents out, but it's hard. I can't drive yet, and to get to a job, I'd have to ride my bike, and it'd take a lot of time.

Please, give me any advice and/or personal stories! I could really use them right now.

2007-07-12 13:40:36 · 3 answers · asked by Stella 3