My little sisters fight all the time about the most ridiculous little things (like who goes into the car first or where the ladder on the bunk bed should be...) and it drives me completely insane! They are 6 and 9. I'm 13. I don't get it we're all 3 and a half years apart but me and the 9-year-old never fought so much! what's wrong with them? What should I do?
2007-07-13 03:26:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This is where your elderly sisterly advice should come in! I can almost guarantee that both of them look up to you. Talk to them about compromise and tell them that it is so much more fun to get along than to fight. There fighting so much about little things is probably just due to the fact that the want more attention. Give them positive feedback when they are nice to eachother.
2007-07-13 03:34:17 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you get in a fight with one of your girlfriends , it is the same as what your sisters are doing. You where the first born and you didn't have to share your parents for 3 1/2 years, they are just trying to get attention, laug about it and go on. They will always fight until they get older and find out how important family really is.
2007-07-13 03:35:17 · answer #2 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a younger sister, and it is just the two of us. As the older sister, you need to step in and talk to them to make them understand why that isn't good. There is a mini age difference between the two of them so it could be that they just don't understand each other. I'm sure it isn't about what toys or games they play with because they are on two different levels. Why don't you join them and play a game withe them and let the rule be this: we are going to play this game and if we can't get along with each other, we can't play...Good luck..
2007-07-13 03:37:33 · answer #3 · answered by Lost4Words 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 22:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 15 and have 17, 11, 8 year old brothers. me and the oldest are fine the two youngest i cant much get along with cause they are stupid. i started this new method punch them when they get out of hand. it really works. now all i have to do is look at them and they shut their trap.
2007-07-13 03:34:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha ha honey your baby sister is just being a baby, that is really annoying but she is little and trying to aggravate you. sweetie don't let you younger sister get to you. You should try telling her the same thing and be annoying like her not in a bad way but in a fun way.
2007-07-13 04:04:59 · answer #6 · answered by shordy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard being a middle child, i'm sure the nine year old doesn't enjoy having the 6 year old around taking her place as the baby in the family!
2007-07-13 03:35:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be that they just want to mess around with each other,are jealous of something or just have nothing better to do.
2007-07-13 03:32:43 · answer #8 · answered by Edy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents should intervene here, you cant sort them out by yourself. If possible, they should sleep in different rooms or at least you should.
2007-07-13 03:35:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its part of growing....just put you head phones on with some good music and youll be FINE
2007-07-13 03:31:39 · answer #10 · answered by Claire B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋