well, my mom is crying and my dad is not yelling but my mom was crying because my dad never comes home early, i know he would not be doing anything bad because i have known him for a long time but i think he should be getting home earlier but he will not really answer a good answer. pls help?
2007-07-12 14:22:31 · 7 answers · asked by w♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Maybe you can try to talk with your mom and just comfort her when you see her cry. Let her know how much you love her. I'm sure that will make her feel better. Good luck
2007-07-12 14:33:31 · answer #1 · answered by Thallasa35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your dad in a nice way. Tell him that you care for them and just want that everyone is happy. Tell your mom is crying because of him not going home early. There's nothing to be mad about that your just showing your concern to them as your parents. Ask your dad's reasons for not going home early maybe he's board or something so that you can help him on what to do so he can go home early.
2007-07-12 14:33:33 · answer #2 · answered by ☺ĦЄŖ§ĦЄ¥☺ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have probly heard this already, but dont worry about it so much. I get way into my mom's bussiness too much and regret it when shes mad. If you trust your dad then explain to your mom that! Maybe he just wants to relax or something. Or maybe sit down with him and try to talk to him about how much it effects the family. Thats what I TRY to do too=]] Good luck!
2007-07-12 14:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by hilaryfan25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To answer your first question, there is nothing you can do to help your parents be happy and not sad and not mad. Further, it is not your fault. You have no role in their unhappiness. It's their problem not yours. Be the best student you can be, love both of them and don't take sides.
2007-07-12 14:35:37 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what your relationship is with your Dad, but if you feel comfortable you could explain how this situation is making you feel. PLEASE PLEASE remember, that no matter what is going on, THEY are the adults, and that means that this is NOT your problem, so don't try to carry the weight of the world on your shoulders. Take care of yourself too!!!
2007-07-12 16:24:40 · answer #5 · answered by Deb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi hon....
your parents problems don't belong to you, and you can't fix or help them.
you can let your mom and dad know that you are sad they seem to be having problems and tell them what you're feeling.
i'm sure your feelings mean a lot to them. let them know.
2007-07-12 14:28:58 · answer #6 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stay out of it, it is between your parents and you cannot control what they do. Just remember YOU are NOT to blame but they have issues okay?
2007-07-12 14:26:45 · answer #7 · answered by MOM OF ONE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋