My sister jordan is popular. but she is only 14 and she has died her hair bleahc blonde and brown underneath. she wears lots of eyeliner and make-up. everyone likes her and all the guys think shes hot. but she dresses sleazy and you can always see her bra. everyone lieks her though!!. but she has a boyfriend a year older than her. and she has sex and gets drunk at parties and my parents dont know. i promised her i wouldnt tell my mom and dad.should i or should i not??
2007-07-13 06:32:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yes, you should speak to your mom about it. If for no other reason to ensure your sis is protecting herself in ALL ways!
2007-07-13 06:38:54 · answer #1 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your sister is heading down the wrong road too young. You should talk to her and tell her that you are concerned about what she's doing and that for her own good you are going to tell your parents before something bad happens to her. Don't fuss at her but let her know it's only because you are afraid for her. Then tell your parents in the same way. If you don't try to help her, then somewhere down the road you may have wished you had. Hoping the best for you and your family!!!!
2007-07-13 14:03:47 · answer #2 · answered by Needtoknow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should tell. She is acting out because she has issues that go deeper then just being slutty. She feels she has to behave like this to be accepted. If anything were to happen to her, you would feel extremely guilty because you never tried to interfere. She will be mad, she may even hate you for awhile- but trust me, she will get over it. I would not want to go to bed wandering if there was something I could have done to stop my sister from getting raper, or getting into an accident because she was riding around with drunk people.. Saying something doesnt mean things will change, but it does mean that you put that effort out.
2007-07-13 13:59:58 · answer #3 · answered by Enchanted One 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we need to break promises.This is one I would break and tell your parents.It will be for her own good.
They really need to know what she's been up to and they would be very disappointed in you if they found out you knew and didn't tell them.
You have to protect your sister cause obviously she's not protecting herself.Drinking and sex at 14 is way too young and do you want to see her end up pregnant and a mother at that age?
Your parents need to take over this situation right now before it's too late.
TELL THEM NOW.Your sister may be angry at you but one day she will realize that you did tell for her own good.
She's popular for no good reason.She's sleazy.
Good Luck.
2007-07-13 13:42:47 · answer #4 · answered by sonnyboy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a really tough call for you. Tell and have your sister hate you forever? Don't tell and run the risk that she comes up pregnant or with an STD (or, horrors! both?) Obviously, she doesn't want your parents to know, but if she's acting like this, it's sure to be one of those "open secrets" among your friends and hers, eventually gravitating to the parents of your friends (and hers). You might want to tell her that she's getting a rep and it's not a good one (she probably is, just nobody's saying that to you or her). Good luck to you.
2007-07-13 13:41:10 · answer #5 · answered by bitadkins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the way she is acting is dangerous to her life.
You should sit your parents down and talk to them when your sister's not around of course. But let them know that if they could try and make it seem like they caught her. Like they had suspicions of it and now they know her secrets. This way it doesn't ruin your sister friendship.
She should depend on you to keep all her secrets. It's not right for her to put them on you in the first place. Just be prepared if you do tell your parents... things could get ugly.
2007-07-13 14:41:39 · answer #6 · answered by superh2ogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a 14 year old getting drunk and having sex? Its your DUTY as an older sibling to tell! Come on, do you really have to ask this question???? If she was 17 or so i would let some things (like the sex part) slide....but 14?!?!
2007-07-13 13:41:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should help her out because shes doing A LOT of things shes going to regret later on. Believe me I use to be that party girl, didn't care about anybody or anything. Now that I found somebody that I truly care for and love I've changed my ways and I regret almost all the things that I did. Help her out before it's too late. If not she'll just have to find out by herself how hard it is to get rid of that image.
2007-07-13 13:39:00 · answer #8 · answered by Magda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes...you need to talk to your mom and dad! You wouldn't be doing it to be a "tattle tale" you would be doing it because you care! Girls at that age don't realize the danger that can accompany dressing or acting inappropriately. Your job as a sister is to look out for her well being...do the right thing and tell. Good luck!
2007-07-13 13:37:49 · answer #9 · answered by Momof2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk with your sister first....before you alert your parents....tell her how you feel about what she's doing and how's she acting....tell her the consequences of her actions and if she still doesn't change then have the chat with your parents about her....now matter what you do your gonna upset someone....so do the right thing for your sister and when shes older....she'll thank you....
2007-07-13 13:55:24 · answer #10 · answered by yankee_lover_54 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont really think you shouldnt tell
i think u should tell ur mom
i dont think u want to see ur sister dieing with aids when shes had sex sooo many times
she sounds like a little slu***
go tell ur parents it will keep ir sister from doing the wrong thing
yeah ur sister might hate you but it will be worth it
2007-07-13 13:42:23 · answer #11 · answered by CheyenneMc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋