Family - July 2007

2007-07-11 13:47:13 · 2 answers · asked by live for today 4

well my husband died on sunday of cancer. we have a daughter who is 5 and when i was living with him i was a stay at home mom and he worked. he never had time to leave a will. and his mother and sister hate me and they are taking the house, car and all of his money out of the bank and we shared a account so i have no money in the bank i am broke i have no money, car,,job or house. well i am moving to my parents house tomorrow but i cant stay there for long. and to top all of that his mom and sister keep saying i killed him and i used him and all of this. and it is making it seem like its my fault. i cry every night. oh yea i am 7 months pregnant. i feel like i cant go on with life.what should i do?

2007-07-11 13:22:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do pregnant women turn men off? My 23 year old cousin is 7 months pregnant and her husband just suddenly moved out for sexier, non-prego women!! I mean cmon thats sooooo hypicritical!! Is it the weight gain? Or the fear of being a father?

2007-07-11 12:34:41 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

my familys been going through so much and i'd like to know your opinion on how to handle things? a year ago, a week after my little sisters 13th bday she was kidnapped physically and sexually abused by two adult females. well after her attack she began acting out...running away. social services got involved because she was missing school. when they found her she was taken to a girls home because they said and we agreed that she would be safer there because we would always no where she was. they said shed stay there till after the trial on her attack. well since then they want my mom to do all these things like therapy and they interfere with her working. my mom and i dont understand why we are essentially being punished for my sister running away when her being taken wasnt because of anything like abuse it was because of her own actions. do you think our train of thought is wrong? do you have any suggestions for us??

2007-07-11 10:33:25 · 5 answers · asked by kayla r 1

okay, my Nan has come up to visit from Cornwall, i dont see her very often and she is staying with my dad for a couple of days.
I have told my dad i can be at his in the morning (takes an hour on the bus to get there) and he sed he wont be home till 12 cos he is goin to play golf.
i wud go shopping then meet him and my nan at 1ish...
i asked if his new wife or my nan will be at home if i get there earlier,
he didnt reply for ages then sed "we will be out till 3"
he knows i have to leave at 4 to get home.
Is he avoiding me?
has he sed to his wife im coming over and she doesnt want me there?
this happens all the time, and i know she doesnt go to golf with him.
i also sed, okay i have a key so ill go and see Nan anyway to which he replied "no, no, ill get her to meet you in town for lunch at 12 n make sure u get on ur bus okay"
how shud i take this and shud i go anyway?

2007-07-11 09:36:50 · 15 answers · asked by Magick Angel 4

lets assume your wifes best girlfriend caught you having an affair with someone. She, the wifes girlfriend, always had a thing for you. Now she uses what she has on you for her benefit, you become sort of a slave to her to keep her quiet. How do you get out of a situation like this???

2007-07-11 08:43:10 · 18 answers · asked by R.Longo L 3

im 14 n since the past 4 yrs, as i was growin up, ive been hvin problems with her, she dnt understand me n thinks im selfish n all i care bout is my studies n not my family

ive been through a lot n dnt cut maself, i jus stay patient, in fact, im always in a good mood at school, makin evryone laugh n hvin a good time

but when i get home, i jus sit in front of the laptop, tlkin to ppl dat love me

ma dad lives in another country n so i dnt see him much often but he loves me a lot n i love him too

my mother has always preferred my brother

she hates my dad n his family, n says ive got his blood, dats why she hates me too....

i do evrythin, i wash the dishes, hve good grades, im not bein a slut, im not on drugs, im cultural n still she dnt treat me right

she suffers from depression which causes her to explode real quick, but i dnt like it
smtimes, when she in a good mood, she hugs me n be's nice but den when i say the truth, she says im answerin bck n need to be sorted

2007-07-11 08:43:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm getting married in less than two months. I don't maintain a relationship with my son's father outside of money and visitation. How do I make him aware of the change that is about to take place as far as the step parent entering our son's life? And when do I do it? Prior to the wedding or after? By the way, his soon to be step father is already a very active part of my son's life and they adore eachother. My son's biological father isn't very involved outside of his childsupport payments... he sees him very infrequently and sporadically... at best once every two months, if that.
Thank you for your suggestions.

2007-07-11 08:33:19 · 4 answers · asked by Princesa Morenita 3

my sister has a son with a guy who lives in a different state. once my nephew was born, this guy became verbally abusive to my sister and threw her out when my nephew was six months old. she stayed with friends and then moved in with my parents. she has now moved by me and this guy has been screwing with her emotions, and also got another girl pregnant.
needless to say, im not a huge fan of this guy. well he told my sister he wanted to move here and be with her... she flew down with nephew to get him and drive up and when she was there his family told her he was screwing with her bla bla. so she puts her foot down and flies back here. now she is saying he is renting a uhaul and on his way. I know she can do better and i want to be supportive but this is super hard!

2007-07-11 08:28:09 · 4 answers · asked by carly s 1

My parents and I have been fighting for the past 4 years, we just cant get along. I have a boyfriend I can go live with, who can support me but i dunno if its right. BTW Im 16 and my boyfriend is 27.

2007-07-11 08:23:47 · 13 answers · asked by Brittney B 1

can anyone help me my son who as just left school wants an id card can i get him one on line and if so how he is 17 in sept i would be so greatfull if some one could help me with this he hasnt got a passport at moment thank you

2007-07-11 08:19:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

he's been living with us for about almost 7 months now. and next tues the 17th is will be leaving out of the country for three weeks. and i don't want him to stay with us after he comes back...i thinks hes over stayed his welcome. also when he gets back we'll be in our new house.

2007-07-11 08:12:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

shouldn't i be considered residential parent, her mother only has her while im at work 8 a.m. to 5 p.m. how can i go about becoming residential parent???

2007-07-11 08:04:53 · 5 answers · asked by shaun b 1

i love my 2 year old sister more than anything in the world. i would not sell her for all the money and jewelry and stuff in the world. i wanna show others how much i love her. but how?

2007-07-11 07:26:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Because she is also my sister-in-law because her sister is my brother's wife. Plus when my brother and his wife(my sister-in-law) have kids, me and my sister-in-law's sister will have the same nieces and nephews.
That also means me and my brother will have the same mother-in-law and father-in-law. My sister-in-law's parents are like my aunt and uncle. My parents and their parents are very close and we visit alot. When I told my sister-in-law that I like her sister she laughed and said you "can't marry your own sister-in-law". For your information we are Afghans, and for us Afghans there is a real word for aunt-in-law and uncle-in-law wich also means there are cousin-in-laws. So we are already related by marriage but it will just look wierd. My sister-in-law's sister is like my sister and treates my like a brother and I treat her like a sister. I do not know if she is considered my sister-in-law too is she? Because in the Afghan way she is.

2007-07-11 06:48:52 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

then things have settled down she havs seen my son only about 4 times in 4 years and they say its my fault because i wont let him drop him off over there the reason why is because they called social service on me so many times lying on me they got me kicked out of my home and that resulted in me losing my 3 kids the reason was because i had nowhere to go i got my kids back 4 months later but it was hard and i dont trust them because i know that they really dont like me now i have another child and i am welcoming his mother in his life in all of their lives but i still got my guard up i need to know am i doing the right thing i am not going to let them get dropped off because i dont know if they would do it again my kids mean the world to me and it was hard to let them go so sjould i keep them away me and his mom is fine well at least that is the way she makes it seems but his sister still act like a ***** and i really dont trust her at all

2007-07-11 06:20:13 · 1 answers · asked by Shi S 1

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your input is very important and will be used in the paper

2007-07-11 05:51:05 · 14 answers · asked by lesey3 1

my father was 62 & he died about 3 month ago. now i miss for him and like talk with somebody as him age who is father. who can help me?

2007-07-11 05:49:15 · 7 answers · asked by blue 2 1

I have a friend who was my past college teacher and she is about 10 years older than me. I really think she is a good person and I think I can learn things from her in life. We talk alot through email and have become friends. I am taking a class with her hubby next fall to get a chance to get to know him and be friends with both of them.
Since she is pregnant and about to have her baby any day now.. I emailed her and wished her the best in the hospital and told her I would be praying for her and her baby. I have given her a baby gift and all that and we have gone to lunch twice. But I kinda feel like she might forget about me when she has her baby and i dont want that cuz she is a good potential close friend. And i dont mean quit hanging out... i just mean emailing me every so often like usual... but i know i can still contact her through the school when it starts back up. And I have good intentions. Anyway... what do you think?

2007-07-11 05:44:25 · 3 answers · asked by greenturtle 1

Does anyone know how to discover your family history such as family tree's etc... on the internet for free? Links to good websites would be appreicated, thanks.

2007-07-11 05:32:41 · 3 answers · asked by Wow88 1

my family does that all da time,its no biggie,is it?

2007-07-11 05:24:00 · 7 answers · asked by broken_heart_of_an_angel 2

Two weeks ago I found out that my brother was brutally killed. The motive for his murder is skitchy, and his death I believe was a slow and painful one. I have also thought that if I had to die I want die doing something I enjoy and believe in. Secondly, I want it to be quick. My brother on the under had a slow and painful death from what I have been told.

Now the thing that has been bothering me since his death is the fact that i never met him or know what he looks like. We are of different father, and he is ten years my senior. I probably seen him on the streets and dont even recognize him. Before his passing I had no desire to know him, because I felt so distant, and didnt know what we would talk about. Now it's even worst for I have no desire to see him for the first time in his deceased state. I have been trying to put his death behind me, but all I can think of is "what if, what if I had reached out to him?" or "Why he never contacted me?" Will I be ok? Is Burial is Sat ....

2007-07-11 05:19:02 · 4 answers · asked by jamaicanchulo69 1

My mom's birthday is today. Me and my 3 sisters had talked about getting her a lawn appliance, so my one sister said she would check into how much they are and get back to us. Well she never got back to us, so I went and bought my mom a gift ($30), then my other sister calls and asks if I will pick up a cake ($20) and now my other sister shows up with the lawn appliance ($35 each sister)! I feel $85 is way too much to spend on a birthday. I don't know what to do, I only wanted to spend $50 tops. Are they taking advantage or should I just forget it?

2007-07-11 04:32:27 · 4 answers · asked by casey308 2

maybe by mistake or didn't knock. i am 20 and i hate when my dad walks up on me naked. it aint hi sfault tho. but it's embarassing

2007-07-11 04:28:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister is turning 14 I want to do some diffrant that you usally don't hear of what do I do? Make sure it is cheap please! Thanks!

2007-07-11 04:23:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister took my daughter on a small trip, so she wouldn't be bore by herself. The problem is on the last day my daughter broke two of her front teeth at a hotel swimming pool. I told my sister she should pay for some of the bill to get them fix. SHE TOLD ME SHE WILL NOT PAY ANYTHING, BECAUSE IT WAS NOT YOUR FAULT. I know in the future I will have those teeth work on every few years and it will come out of my pocket.

2007-07-11 04:12:28 · 25 answers · asked by rydfsanta 1

Lately she seems to be very interested in private parts and saying the word sex and anything that deals with that. The other day we had friends over and she told her 3 year old brother to show her girl friends (ages 3 and 4) his penis and was laughing at it. Well because he got attention from it he continued because he thought it was funny. I asked him not to do that and I was very angry and my daughter over this. I know she is only 4 but I have explained private parts over and over again to her. She also wants her brother to pretend to be her boyfriend and kiss her. I feel like I cannot leave them alone and I have a 1 year old as well while going to school. It is just hard because it just is a very difficult subject to approach to a 4 year old girl who thinks falling in love or being in love is the best thing in the world. Is it normal for my daughter to be so infatuated with this subject? I have no worries of sexual abuse.

2007-07-11 04:10:11 · 4 answers · asked by mommy30 2

2007-07-11 03:54:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter made a sexual allergation towards her father (we seperated before she was born), we went to court heard all the evidence and the judge allowed him contact 2hrs a week, my daughter is petrified to go near him, i now face up to 10yrs in jail if i do not take her to these meetings...contempt of court they say.. protect my daughter i must do???

2007-07-11 03:47:38 · 30 answers · asked by susan m 1

My ex doesn't see my children or pay child support on them. His mother is a few french fries short of a few happy meal to say the least. She has never seen my kids and if I have my way she never will. Recently, she went into my mom's work and told her that she was going to sue me for grandparents rights. Before I ever had the kids, they are police reports from where she broke into my house and would follow me every where I went. My oldest son is going to be 9 in a few months and the youngest is 4. I have them going through therapy for the abuse that her son put them through. What exactly has to be proven in order for a grandparent to get vistiation? We have already spoken to an attorney about my husband adopting my kids and my kids have no idea that this woman even exsists

2007-07-11 03:36:08 · 9 answers · asked by Angela F 5