i have a chlid by him and he is almost 4 years old and at first me and his mom did not get along?

Question

then things have settled down she havs seen my son only about 4 times in 4 years and they say its my fault because i wont let him drop him off over there the reason why is because they called social service on me so many times lying on me they got me kicked out of my home and that resulted in me losing my 3 kids the reason was because i had nowhere to go i got my kids back 4 months later but it was hard and i dont trust them because i know that they really dont like me now i have another child and i am welcoming his mother in his life in all of their lives but i still got my guard up i need to know am i doing the right thing i am not going to let them get dropped off because i dont know if they would do it again my kids mean the world to me and it was hard to let them go so sjould i keep them away me and his mom is fine well at least that is the way she makes it seems but his sister still act like a ***** and i really dont trust her at all

Answer 1

just do what you think is best and keep the kids safe and if child services does come to your door make sure that your house is clean and your trash is picked up and every thing will be fine . they have to investigate an allegation when it is made . However if your house and clean and trash is picked up they cannot take the kids away . good luck .