i miss for my late father.what should i do?

Question

my father was 62 & he died about 3 month ago. now i miss for him and like talk with somebody as him age who is father. who can help me?

Answer 1

So sorry for your loss! My 63 year old Dad died suddenly and I still talk to him and think of him daily. I remember his smile and laugh out loud sometimes thinking about the corny things he said. You can talk to your Dad too. Perhaps if you need answers you could talk to a friends dad or a teacher or a neighbor. This is one of the hardest things you will ever experience, so just know that you will never get over it, BUT, it will get much easier as time passes. God bless you!
Oh, by the way, my Dad died 30 years ago.

Answer 2

First of all I am really sorry for this unfortunate event in your life! But that's the way our life goes .........well you said he was 62 so I guess you are quite grown up ! I am 15 and lost my father when I was just 13......It was very difficult yet I managed. If I could do that then you can also do ! Just do things which according to you would have made him happy ...........! Take Care ! I know you will be fine ! and if you feel like then just cry it out ...it helps trust me!

Answer 3

I'm not 62, but I lost my dad the day after St. Patrick's Day and he was 70. I saw him last 3 years ago, and we said goodbyes. I miss him as a guage for my own progress. I'm the same age he was in 1973, so he's now in my life span, and I in his. It makes you reflect, and I remember sometimes, really recall moments and events like the car ride to get stuff from Lowe's listening to the Redskins up on the Eagles-fond memories overwhelm the negative, though they remain as a study in how I got to be who I consistently am. And a way to avoid his pitfalls. Fare well to departing fathers who leave us with a shore to steer towards...

Answer 4

Did your father have any brothers? If you have an uncle or a close friend of your father's who was near his age and was close enough to your dad for you to talk to him as a friend, you should share some of your feelings of loss with that uncle,.friend or family member. If you do not have anyone close to talk to, you should speak to a personal or grief counselor about your emotional episodes of grief and need for fatherly advice since your dad's death. This is a normal need following the loss of a parent. Best wishes to you.

Answer 5

I'm not his age and I'm not a man, but I also lost my father. He was 69 and died uselessly of prostate cancer because he didn't think it was "manly" to go to a doctor to get his private parts examined. I share your loss and sympathize with you. I find myself talking to my father about things we used to share and then I realize he isn't here. But maybe he hears me anyway. Remember the good things about your father and talk to him in your heart.

Answer 6

hello there. i'm sorry for your lost and i feel your grieve. you don't have to find someone who is your father's age to replace him. nobody is similar late father. all you should do is remembering the beautiful memories you had with him. you can do the things he loved to do. you can go visiting his friends and do nice things to people he liked and loved. and the most important thing is that, don't be afraid to feel sad and cry for your lost. grieving is a part of healing. it shows how humane you are and how much you love your dear father. again, i'm sorry for your lost. please be strong..

Answer 7

به نظر تکراری میاد جواب من، تجربه نکرده ام ولی همیشه در خوف چنین روزی میلرزم. برای من پدرم همه چیز من است و مطمئنم اگر چنین اتفاقی بیافتد، همیشه به روزی فکر میکنم که از این دنیا برم و اونرو دوباره ببینم. نمیدونم اگر در غربت بودی. همین حسه، تو هر روز به برگشت فکر میکنی، اما خب در غربت زندگی تو هم میکنی. همیشه به این فکر کن روزی میبینیش دوباره. مثل یک سفر که تموم میشه، پس زندگی ات رو ادامه بده مثل همه و هرشب به امید روز دیدارش بخواب. زندگی شاد داشته باش و همیشه به یاد پدرت جشن بگیر و شادی کن. یادش رو با خوشحالی یاد کن.
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