Family - July 2007

oh God! what will I do? I terribly miss my mother. she just gone abroad. for the past months that she's here with us I hated her. because of a sin that she had done that nearly makes our family broken. in spite of what had happened, I still miss her. what would be the best way to express what I really feel? I always feel shy to tell her that I miss her every time she calls from abroad.

2007-07-10 03:28:01 · 12 answers · asked by pink 1

My fiance's family is a mess. I dont have the greatest family ethier but not like his. I use to love his mother, I guess in the past she has had drug problems. Well within the last 6 months she totally went down hill. She got fired, she is a total mess. She lives with my boyfriend brother because they all are crackheads, and they enable her. There is also 5 kids in that house. Im wondering if I should call child services, which they have had them called on before but it doesnt help. My boyfriend has talked to them, but nothing. I dont want anything to do with them...And I get frustrated at my boyfriend for deling with them - Is that wrong? Yesterday they had some money, smoked it all up, But gave my boyfriend 100 to hold so they wouldnt touch it.They called and called all night till 1030 til my boyfriend finally brought them the money. It was their money but he wants to help them from not doing so many bad drugs as much as they do.The brother girlfriend, she twitches and looks a mess.

2007-07-10 03:24:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

it has to do with my brother in law and his wife. they met a year ago , got pregnant and married after less than a year of knowing eachother . the problem is that he abuses her physically and emotinally , and i have witnessed , me and my husband , such abuses repeatedly either in the family encounters, or in public when we went out .have decided to put and end to my relationship with them ,because i am anti violance . also, when i heard the news about pregancy , i got very annoyed thinking of the poor baby they will bring to this world. any chance they will stop the violance and have a normal life ? would the new baby help ? pls let me know because i am really worried about them , and do not know what to do.

2007-07-10 02:45:04 · 6 answers · asked by pink-world 1

My sister is missing and I am going to make posters and cover the city with them. What info should be on it, and what info should not be on it (like for her safety)?

2007-07-10 02:23:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My neighbor is 25 years old and he was badly injured a a car wreck Friday on his way to work. They were not sure if he was gonna live. Now, he is going into surgery tommorow to see if they can keep him from being paralyzed. They have a 3 year old baby girl and now they are both out of work. How can I help this family? Whats the best way to raise money for them?

2007-07-10 02:23:04 · 13 answers · asked by tonyaniezek 2

What can she do to make this easier for him and her. He is fine once she gets him in the car, but it really hurts her and they do nothing to help the situation.

2007-07-10 02:20:31 · 3 answers · asked by tessa.dawn 2

Older sister helped me out with lending me money 2 years ago, with the terms of I will pay you when I have it. We just recently got into the older sister / younger brother power struggle, when I put my foot down, and told her she is responsible for herself, and I am responsible for myself (Boundaries). Obviously when you put up a boundary to someone who is aggressive controlling, she felt the only card she could play was to demand payment of the money she loaned me. So my question is, what is the correct response back to her when she is emailing me "When am I getting my money??????", when I feel like she is doing this more to make herself feel better, that I lent you money, you owe me now buddy.

2007-07-10 02:12:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

A little background on the situation my mother was married at 21 had me at 24 got divorced at 26, never had a close relationship with my biological father. My mom remarried when I was 7, and my step-father has raised me and been more of a father than anyone could expect, my mother was never able to have kids after me, so it has been the three of us for twenty years now. Now my step father has moved out and she is so heartbroken, he told my mother it was a mid life crisis situation and he doesn't make friends easy so the thought of him seeing some one else was so far fetched, well my mom found emails because she figured something was going on and sure enough an old girlfriend from highschool who lives hundred of miles away. I don't know what to do for my mom she is my best friend, it hurts that he left but it hurts more to see my mom cry. Our roles are reversed right now and I just want to make it better. And advice or guidance would be greatly appreciated.

2007-07-10 02:08:47 · 5 answers · asked by ARoberts 1

Well, I volunteer at a hospital and I didn't feel like going today, but my parents are strict with me going there. So today, i got dressed, said goodbye to mom and parked down the street and waited for my mom to leave to work. As soon as she left she saw my car (i think) and passed by it. I haven't talked with her yet but what is a good excuse. And trust me my parents will be pissed if they find out I skipped

2007-07-10 01:37:19 · 12 answers · asked by Goffffaaa 2

My husband and I have been married over 3 yrs, have a 2yr old daughter of our own. My husband has a 6 yr old daughter from a previous & short marriage. She started having problems after her 5th bday and it has continued to get worse. We have joint custody
(she is w/ us half the week every week) My husband works versy long hours(sales!) so I am w/ her the most. She is good for the most part but is continuously rude, talking back and disrespectful. She was in trouble alot in kindergarten and was refered to the school counseler for group session during the school year. She is now in counseling one on one b/c of some troubling things she has said. My husband and I constantly disagreeingand argue over this, I feel he disregards and brushes off her bad behavior, and he feels I have gotten to strict now that she is having problems. Any advice or thoughts? Thanks so much!

2007-07-10 01:18:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

A couple of yrs ago a new pole dancing club opened in our town. When it first opened, my partner's friends all all wanted to see what the fuss was about when we were out drinking so we went and had a drink there. To cut a long story short, one of his friends decided to have a lapdance (even though he had a gf back home) and my partner was so angry he told me we were going home. His words were 'Im so discusted in him!'
Last night my partner turned round to me and told me that before he met me he had a lapdance and it was 'no big deal' its 'something men do' and 'if they didnt want to do it, they wouldnt be there'
Is this double standards? Should I be angry with him for something he did before he met me? Is this sort of thing as degrading as I think it is?

2007-07-09 23:51:03 · 49 answers · asked by Wicked Top. 3

One day i got pantsed by a friend. everything went down.>< There were girls around and they saw which was very embarassing. I have one of those girls for class. What should i do if she gives me a look or if she talks to me?

2007-07-09 21:31:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would it be considered "gay" if I'm a flight attendant? I'm a guy in my early twenties, and kind of want to try it, while I'm launching some internet companies. It sounds like a fun job, a chance to travel a bit.

2007-07-09 21:25:24 · 18 answers · asked by yo yo dog 2

Well my mother died of a major heart attack last month! anyway that night i was at a party and when i got back there was no one home this is normal in my household so i didnt think anything of it i proceeded by playing on my computer when i got a phone call from sister and she said i dont know how to tell you this but mom is dead... i thought she was joking till my other sister that was balling her eyes out told me my first reaction was nothing! i didnt cry i didnt feel sad i didnt feel happy either i arrived at the hospital and there was family all around and they were all crying i was the only one not crying i didnt even feel sad.. i eventually cryed but it wasnt for losing my mom it was for not feeling sad about losing her! I guess one of my reasons could be that growing up she was a great mom but had an alchahol problem she drink everyday when she was sober she was a great mom and i loved her but when she was drunk i hated her! should i feel like it doesnt matter that shes gone?

2007-07-09 20:59:47 · 13 answers · asked by Peter West 2

2007-07-09 20:52:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My dad comes to visit us and stays with us most of the time. He doesn't like my husband, and always tries to find anything to start a fight. Sometimes he just gets angry for no reason. I did my best to please him, buy him things he likes, take him to all kinds of places. But seems like he can never be satisfied. He abuses my mom very often, verbal abuses, hit her, many times. Don't know if this is already considered domestic violence. My mom told me once he tried to push her to the road while all the cars were passing by. He also uses knife at my home to threaten my mom, and threatens to kill my family including my daughters, threatens to set my house on fire...... What should I do now, should I call police? He is a leagal perment resident, will he get deported?

2007-07-09 20:05:48 · 27 answers · asked by barbarbei 2

If you know your kids hate you should you just give up?

2007-07-09 19:25:40 · 6 answers · asked by detour 4

I have a SD who is 20 and I pretty much raised her. I am paying alot of money for her to go to college, she helped her find a good job and she was living at home rent, utilities and food free. Her boyfriend is very untrustworthy and we told her she had to move out. She decided to trade her family loyalty and respect for her BF who was disrespectful to her family and also hit my 12 year-old daughter (her 1/2 sister) and was verbally abusive to her as well. I was very generous to my SD all her life and worked very hard to help her get where she is today. I became very hurt and suffer from major anxiety attacks because of this situation. People tell me that I did too much for my SD for too long. My husband feels the same way about the situation and feels that my SD needs to live on her own with less help from us. I am just so angry because her 22 year-old BF came along and just destroyed everything. Or should we say that she should be held responsible for her actions as well?

2007-07-09 19:08:59 · 9 answers · asked by TooGenerous 1

I am moving out of state and my parents do not want me to go and she is giving me a major guilt trip but today she said that she feels sorry for my kids that there leaving with me and that she raised a good person but my husband has made me not to be that person anymore. I am so hurt by what she said and not quite sure what to do about it. I am not gonna let the guilt trip get to me but the hurtful things she are saying to me is just making me want to move as soon as possible any suggestions on what I should say or do?

2007-07-09 18:55:35 · 31 answers · asked by kschall2 2

why do moms always ******' disconnected the internet lines??

2007-07-09 18:52:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do women call their girlfriends sweetie?
I have a friend that I haven't had for very long and I wish good things to her and stuff and she called me sweetie for the first time.

We are both girls... what does she mean by it?

2007-07-09 18:47:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok here is my dilemma: My one son won't talk to me at all. My second son does not respect me or really like me he just pretends for the sake of giving me a little respect. He always ends up blurting out the truth he puts me down says I don't know anything about him etc. I have always believed that my ex has been responsible for teaching them to disrespect me. My problem is this: I have made my children my focus and it really is too painful for me to continue my life happy without them treating me right. I can honestly say I have been a good mother I know that. It is I believe that they have been taught by their male role model to hate me. Is it possible realistically to go on when my children basically don't care about me? In other words my sons mentally abuse me they are both young adults.

2007-07-09 18:19:50 · 3 answers · asked by detour 4

how can i apologize to my mother and show/tell her that I really really mean it?

we have just gone through a very very very very very big fight, and she started to even talk about me getting a foster parent! it's THAT bad!

of course, i've said the words, "sorry" but that just doesnt seem to be enough!

I really dont have enough guts or money to go walk to the local counselor and discuss my options, or what i can do.

Plus, I'm way too scared of death to commit suicide. Yes, I'm a coward.

PLEASE HELP EVERYONE! IM IN HELL!

I am 15 years old.

2007-07-09 18:16:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I pay no rent at my mom's house, but I'm already 23 years old and would like to have my own things even if that means spending a lot of money that I don't have. I'm willing to get all the jobs I need, so do you think I should move out or stick around freeloading

2007-07-09 18:10:54 · 8 answers · asked by Leo 3

Sometimes my older sister gets on my nerves with little things that she does and it pisses me the hell off sometimes. When i confront her about it she gets a damn attitude about. So how can i let her know without us trying to kick eachother's ***?

2007-07-09 16:51:44 · 2 answers · asked by flower_power 2

Well, my parents aren't the nicest people. Whenever they are mad, they blame me for something stupid that I did. Like if I don't have my room clean. My dad has punched me in the face and called me a stupid b**** and a little f*** just because my room was messy. And my dad says that kind of stuff to me all the time. Also, both of my parents smoke pot.

2007-07-09 16:45:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

grandmother talks to my uncle and i talk at the same time
than all the sudent she gets angry and yells and screems at me

2007-07-09 16:40:28 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 13 i got beaten up at town today by a group of teenagers older than me there was 3 of them and i was on my own walking home from my friends house, i got kicked in the stomach really hard and now i got a bruise coming on my stomach and i got kicked in the head but i don't wanna tell my parents but my friend thinks i should tell them?

2007-07-09 16:36:12 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

Whats some things i could do in the house! im bored and everyones being buttholes.lol and I dont have anyone to talk to so what can I do to cure my bordem!? gosh thanks!

2007-07-09 16:27:21 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I came home early tonite and found my mom smoking bud in her room. The worst part was that she was in there with some guy who wasn`t my dad. I AM SO AGGRIVATED, She`s a church freak not a frezk inthe sheets and a stoner.

2007-07-09 15:48:22 · 24 answers · asked by Bob Boblaw 2