oh God! what will I do? I terribly miss my mother. she just gone abroad. for the past months that she's here with us I hated her. because of a sin that she had done that nearly makes our family broken. in spite of what had happened, I still miss her. what would be the best way to express what I really feel? I always feel shy to tell her that I miss her every time she calls from abroad.
2007-07-10 03:28:01 · 12 answers · asked by pink 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you should do something nice for her. maybe send her a package with photos of both of you together or something she really likes with a letter about how you feel. You can still love your mom even though she commited a sin. Or do something as simple as send her an E-card. Just remind her you love her once in a while
2007-07-10 03:32:07 · answer #1 · answered by makeyourselfsick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We make not love what a parent does all the time but, that does not mean we do not love the parent. If I was you I would take advantage of having your mom around. If she goes abroad and calls please tell her you miss her as one day she may not be there to tell. My mom passed away when I was 21 looking back I regret not saying I miss you. You still have that opportunity.
2007-07-13 06:53:42 · answer #2 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry it truly is a tragic day for you - it could have been a large loss to you all those years in the past. i assume that as quickly as my mom kicked the bucket, it replaced into this variety of alleviation, and there have been no regrets in any respect. She replaced into 89 and had dementia, and we could in basic terms placed her call down at a locked facility using fact she replaced into taking off to wander. thankfully, she kicked the bucket interior the nicest way, asleep with a e book propped on her knees and her favourite radio programme enjoying . She'd been an distinctly perplexing person while she replaced into youthful - she had some psychological well being issues and we had an unhappy courting for some years . while she grew to alter into demented, it replaced into as though she "forgot" all her loopy behaviours and grew to alter right into a unusual yet friendly previous woman. So I had a pair of years the place we've been given alongside large, and that i asked her all approximately her youthful days, and her early years of marriage to Dad. I felt like, at last i in my view have been given to renowned her in a greater suitable way . i'm happy that she had a robust loss of existence - i'm hoping i bypass a similar way that she did. i do no longer incredibly omit her - our situations together have been turbulent for see you later, maximum of my strategies are undesirable ones, with basically some stable ones on the top. All i will say approximately her, is that she performed the enjoying cards that have been dealt to her, the only way she knew how. RIP Mum.
2016-10-19 03:36:20 · answer #3 · answered by leinen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sin is a pretty big word. I wonder if whats happening here is you are placing blame on your mama for something you don't want to feel inside yourself. My advice is to read a book called "Familes and How To Survive Them" by Robin Skinner and John Cleese, not a heavy therapy book and extremely useful.
With regards to your mum, I agree with the others that it would be best to send her a letter.
2007-07-10 03:51:58 · answer #4 · answered by Bethany B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her a beautiful card and write your feelings inside.
I know what you mean, a mother is always a mother, whatever we feel, anger, frustration, revenge, all those things go away when you know that she is and was and will be there, for you, as a mother. Come on, go to the post office buy a card NOW!!!
2007-07-10 03:38:42 · answer #5 · answered by Spark S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I miss my mother too. She passed away ten years ago. I regret some of the things I said, but not nearly as much as the things I didn't say.
2007-07-10 03:33:52 · answer #6 · answered by Fern O 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi hon... i miss my mother too, but she's dead.
if you can find a way to get in touch -- a letter? the phone? let her know you miss her, and are looking forward to seeing her again.
maybe that will help... sometimes we have to say things which are difficult to get out of our mouths, but once we start talking, it's not so hard.
hugs
2007-07-10 03:42:27 · answer #7 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl let God handle her sins. You only get one mother and one life. You better tell her how you feel. If you lost her tomorrow, you would be wishing that you could share your feelings with her. Your feelings are only natural. It takes time to overcome such a situation. But none the less you need to honest with her and tell her how you feel. She is probably waiting on you to be honest with her. Mom's usually are in tuned to us and know these things already without words. TELL HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-10 03:37:03 · answer #8 · answered by Lil Momma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her a care package with pictures and things she loves with a lovely letter telling her how much you appreciate her.
2007-07-10 03:41:22 · answer #9 · answered by aintlifegrand 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes , writing something is easier than saying it face to face - send her a note , letter , a card , flowers ,with " i miss you "...and i am sure she ll get the point
2007-07-10 03:32:53 · answer #10 · answered by pink-world 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋