My fiance's family is a mess. I dont have the greatest family ethier but not like his. I use to love his mother, I guess in the past she has had drug problems. Well within the last 6 months she totally went down hill. She got fired, she is a total mess. She lives with my boyfriend brother because they all are crackheads, and they enable her. There is also 5 kids in that house. Im wondering if I should call child services, which they have had them called on before but it doesnt help. My boyfriend has talked to them, but nothing. I dont want anything to do with them...And I get frustrated at my boyfriend for deling with them - Is that wrong? Yesterday they had some money, smoked it all up, But gave my boyfriend 100 to hold so they wouldnt touch it.They called and called all night till 1030 til my boyfriend finally brought them the money. It was their money but he wants to help them from not doing so many bad drugs as much as they do.The brother girlfriend, she twitches and looks a mess.
2007-07-10 03:24:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The kids are inncocent....ages 2 to 10. No one works in the house regularly...some kids get social security and then theres welfare. I want to call child services, But Im afraid it wont do anything. They have already had cases opened and closed on them. Should I call the cops...Its an all the time thing.
2007-07-10 03:26:13 · update #1
No my boyfriend doesnt smoke crack. They is a 3rd brother, who is "normal" also. He moved about 30 mins away to get away from his family because they are like that. My boyfriend wants to move....But Im not ready to move yet, We dont live far from them - They do not come over...I wont have them in my home, They are not trustworthy.
I feel bad if I tell my boyfriend he has to chose. Who is this a big enough reason to decide to break up? My boyfriend is a goo dguy with a huge heart but you cant help everyone.
2007-07-10 03:55:58 · update #2
i think you should call the cops and let them bust them ....the kids do not need that and as for your boyfriend he can only do so much......they have to want to help themselves and from what i hear they don't......i have family members that are on drugs and we have tried to help them but it don't work.......if they don't want help how do you think or does he think he can help them.....i know it's hard but just sit him down and tell him that you have tried to help but it's not going to work unless you have them busted and they go through a program that will try to help them get off of drugs........
2007-07-10 04:08:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! call child protective services... now.
your boyfriend's situation isn't a good one.
are you sure you're taking care of YOU by continuing this relationship? does he smoke crack too?
addiction is a horrible illness... perhaps get yourself out of the association with him... it's not safe for you...
i'm sorry this happened to you. hugs
2007-07-10 03:47:33 · answer #2 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋