2007-07-12 08:22:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
sue c,
It is going to be hard but you can't put your younger child at risk keep him away from your home tell your daughter to not to allow him in the house if you are away and try to talk him in to rehab if you can while he is sober. Good luck!
2007-07-12 08:27:48 · answer #1 · answered by Blaqchinah Violation Queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he refuses help then you need to kick his 29 year old butt out of your house. You have a 12 year old to protect. I would hate to see a story on the news about your son raping, beating or killing your daughter just because you didn't take the appropriate action by kicking him out. I hope he gets help but right now you gotta take care of your daughter, he is a grown man and he has every opportunity to get clean, he just has to be willing.
2007-07-12 15:28:08 · answer #2 · answered by Lil_MissVal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can call the police and possibly have him arrested but there is no guaranty he will stay there or sober up. tough love get a restraining order to keep him away, there is no talking to him he is an adult and you cant tell him what to do or how to live his life. Contact Narcotics annonymous in your area
2007-07-12 15:29:13 · answer #3 · answered by monise62@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop enabling to live with you, if he does. let him back if he agrees to go to rehab and get straight.
you can find help by checking out the Narcotics Anonymous website, or going to a meeting in your community. You will meet a lot of people with similar experiences, who will have good advice and suggestions.
please take care of YOU and do something today.
hugs
2007-07-12 15:26:57 · answer #4 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him arrested and change the locks. As much as you don't want to kick him out your not helping him by letting him continue this behavior. He needs more help then you can give.
2007-07-12 15:32:11 · answer #5 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police and get him out of your house, what if he brings loser friends home and they rape your daughter. Tell him he can't live with you until he goes to rehab. and cleans up his life. Be Safe.
2007-07-12 15:30:29 · answer #6 · answered by bluebird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him 2 choices
1] the police
2]rehab
if he doent agree wit either one call the cops on him and kcik him out they wl know at to do
or you can always call DR.PHIL
2007-07-12 16:25:18 · answer #7 · answered by Leila A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have him arrested, then he will be in jail and sober up finally.
2007-07-12 15:25:36 · answer #8 · answered by spadezgurl22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋