My step-brother is always with guys. He's 18 and doesn't seem to have any interest in girls except just friends. He has never had a girlfriend and isnt bad looking.
2007-07-10 20:16:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i had a friend that went thru the same thing. his family thought he was gay cause he was 22 and never had a girlfriend.
needless to say, they found out differently. he's not gay at all. i knew all along but never butt in.
your brother is still young, there is plenty of time for girls. don't pressure him.
2007-07-10 20:33:44 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Charmed One♥ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes kids are just private. He may like girls but not tell you or maybe he is shy. By 18 my brother did not have a girlfriend. He had his first at 20 I think. He was just a "late bloomer". Don't spend your time worrying about that. Worry that he is safe and happy and not getting into trouble. Also, love him no matter what. He will still be your son.
2007-07-11 03:22:25 · answer #2 · answered by AMe 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why should you be worried.....he is probably gay.Nothing to do with good or bad-looking,he just doesnt FEEL attracted to girls,nothing new.Even though he is not your real brother,you can have a heart-to-heart like real brother and sister,I hope so for him,if he feels he cant express his feelings he might chase the wrong guys....
2007-07-11 03:23:26 · answer #3 · answered by ajal 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing to be worried about. Don't come to any judgement. Some guys are late starters and show interest in the opposite sex only after they are more matured and secure.
2007-07-11 03:22:20 · answer #4 · answered by yuvan53 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should not be worried. Let your step brother find himself. If he turns out to be gay. So be it. It is his life and you should love him just the same. I know several people that are gay. I feel true gay people are "born with it". My cousin is gay. You could tell from the day she was born. But I love her to death and I don't think of her any less. It is her life. Let them be happy!
2007-07-11 05:57:01 · answer #5 · answered by Kendra420 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Theres no point in worrying if he is gay (assuming thats your concern). If he is, theres nothing you can do about it. Perhaps he has other things distracting him in life. If you really want to find out, why not just ask him if hes met any girls lately or ask him outright if he is gay?
2007-07-11 03:22:22 · answer #6 · answered by Somaesthesia 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Cool. He has spared himself of the pain and confusion of dating before he is truly interested in it - I say leave the guy alone and let him enjoy his youth.
2007-07-11 03:22:05 · answer #7 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No,not really, it could be just he is shy of girls dating wise.He might have a hard time asking girls out.or if your implying he might be gay, ask him about it or make a joke about if has girl shyness troubles.and if he is gay,really,thats his choice and you should support at what he does because hes family...thats my opinon
=)
hope it helps
2007-07-11 03:22:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No I don't think you should worry. He just is doing what he enjoys. So let him be.
2007-07-11 04:07:03 · answer #9 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! FA G alert-Yikes!-J/K. No. Because my friend's bro. was like that, he is 23 and still does't have a girl friend, he just hasn't found his type-but I do hope he's gay, that way no chick can have him!
2007-07-11 03:20:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋