My fiance is 20 years old, we have been together for almost 2 years. I HATE HIS DAD!! He rude, he controls my fiance in everything that he does. He still lives at his dads because his dad makes up excuses to why he cant move in with me yet, the first and the worst was " if you move we will cut ties" basically saying his will disown him, or that my brother who lives with me does drugs and now not til he finishes college. His truck has a topper, and his dad wont let him take it off because he says it will look "retarded" if he takes it off!! ITS A TRUCK!!! He watches porn in the family room while we are there and he walks around naked!!! How can I help my fiance get out of his father tight grip!?
2007-07-11 03:28:12 · 2 answers · asked by Kaden James born 4/11/2009 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
your boyfriend's lifestyle isn't up to you. your boyfriend is allowing his father to control his life, and it won't stop until your boyfriend puts his foot down.
there is nothing you can do.
i hope you don't intend to marry this guy, knowing he is under his father's thumb. he will be for eternity!
you can't stop the insanity.
take care of yourself.
2007-07-11 03:36:55 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is what it is, so maybe you need to look above the immediate situation and think about whether you could live with this forever. I think not. Anyway its your boyfriends issue not yours to solve. Until he has financial freedom , he is stuck. You both need to study mmore in school so you can get terrific jobs and not need his dad or anyone else. I know you can do it. Good Luck
2007-07-11 10:41:59 · answer #2 · answered by barthebear 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋