Family - July 2007

Thank you to all those wonderful feed backs that I have been recieving... I have decided it was time io move. I have mentioned it to my mother, and she does not seam upset or surprised!! Thank you!

2007-07-06 20:45:30 · 7 answers · asked by debra_ehu 2

I lost my Dad to cancer in November 2005. I find that I love hearing cherished memories others have of their own fathers -- random moments, anecdotes from their childhood. It helps me remember things about my Dad.

2007-07-06 18:27:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-06 18:25:37 · 3 answers · asked by peacehome 1

I posted today looking for my half sister and brother

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AvCDXKCqVm0uV15J9Uuta3_sy6IX?qid=20070706113224AACoqH1

Julie gave me a link and I followed it straight to them!! I found them!!

I spent about 3 hrs or so on the phone with both of them who never even knew I existed, needless to say my sister was totally shocked and my brother was overjoyed!! Thank you Julie for directing me to zabasearch.com

2007-07-06 17:59:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm now starting second year in college... and thinking back - My father has such a terrible view of me - I come from a semi-liberal non-practicing muslim family that still holds up some of the old fasioned values (although very liberal by comparison to others).

My Dad always seemed to think I'm stupid - and he makes it known - It never really bothered me...

When I was in early High School he caught some Porn on my computer (yes... I'm sorry - teenage boy - guilty) and ever since then it seems that he thinks I'm a dirty child molestor or something...

he even keeps me out of the room when my female cousins come over, and he was suspicious when he came and saw a camcorder at my efficiency (which I swear I was not using for anything improper - i mean... lots of people own camcorders).

I keep thinking back to childhood - early childhood was nice, and he was my hero - things started to go downhill as I got older - we used to fight so much - whenever I see him we still do

- thoughts

2007-07-06 17:59:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My aunt is only 40 and has 2 very young kids that love her deeply and it breaks my heart when they ask "why is mommy at the hospotal". She has cancer all over her body and in her brain, and doesnt have much longer to live. Everyone is praying a lot and tried everything to help her, but it seems to be getting worse. I feel so bad for her kids not being able to grow up with their mom like most others. Why isnt anything working, like praying? I cant even say goodbye because she lives across the country and cant even move or talk. Its so hard dealing with this and watching my family, and her kids suffer. Please give me any type of advice that will help me make more sense of this situation and how to deal with death and my family. I have never lost anyone so close before.

2007-07-06 17:48:13 · 2 answers · asked by Krissy 2

My 17-yr. old sister calls me a whore after every sentence while talking to me. Ex: I'm about 2 go 2 da sto', hoez! (Translation-I'm about to go to the store, whores). It really drives me to daunting INSANITY! & I can't keep a man because she sleeps with every boyfriend I get. Now who's the REAL whore?

2007-07-06 16:51:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

You have time to save ure family, pets and one possession..What would that possession be ?

2007-07-06 15:39:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok my dad was at europe for a buisness trip and while he was there he went to germany where my great uncle faught in the war with hitler and my dad told me that he was only 17 when he got shot and died and he wanted to fight so much that he lied he was 18 and i started tearing up is that normal

2007-07-06 15:00:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

We're wanting to go out and do something together tommorow...my mom suggested put-put, whitewater rafting, or bowling (but i did that last week.) all that's fun...but it IS 4th of July weekend...(almost)...can someone give me some ideas??? Thanks!

2007-07-06 14:57:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 21 years old and my parents still treat me like I am a kid. Is there anyway that I can get them to treat me differently? I have a steady job and I go to college, I take care of myself, but they will not let me move out. They are old fashioned and want me to stay at home until I am married!!!!!! They still ground me from my car because they won't let me buy it from them. I don't want to move out because they will dis-own me they say, but I can't be held hostage here my entire life. Any advice?

2007-07-06 14:56:46 · 9 answers · asked by Kayla B 1

Parents love you. Why not just accept what they are doing, or not doing, and know that it's for a good reason? They are looking out for you. Trust them.

2007-07-06 14:29:29 · 4 answers · asked by Julie S 2

I have lived as the only girl in my family for as long as I can remember.I am the only girl out of 8 boys and I am the smallest.It has always been hard for me to fit in and be comfortable.What can I do to be more comfortable?

2007-07-06 14:25:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay so yesterday I was out in my backyard by my pool. My twin sister (13) as well as me (13) and my cousin (14). We were swimming, then we decided to get out. My sis pushed me for some reason and I accidently hit him in his private area! He got hard and we laughed thinking it was funny. Then my sister took it a little bit too far and asked him to show us. He did and I thought it was gross.

Later that night I was going to sleep, in one room. Across the hall was my sis and my cousin in another room. My parents room is downstairs. I was woken up by my sister and cousin nudging me. My sister whispered me that we were going to try something new. sex.... I didnt like the idea, but my cousin did and so did she. They started from there and of course I joined in. blah blah. I kinda liked it and so did they. I think they want this more : O. What should I do? Or say?

2007-07-06 14:06:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im a big sisterand i didnt mean to do it i was really mad at my bro. He is 15 years old and he had a girlfriend. Ok i told his girlfriend some mean things about himand some rumors too and i told her that he was a perv(which he aint) and broke up with him right after i told her. I told her these things becausei thought my little bro was saying rumors about me that were bad but he told me that it was a lie but i didnt believe him. Then i found out he was telling the truth and i feel awful. Now hes not talking to me and he looks sad. Everytime we have dinner i see his eyes and there all watery and his friends are worried about him cause hes really sad. He said he always looked up to me and he always trusted me and i feel really awful. He just seems so sad . What should i do??? sorry for it being so long

2007-07-06 13:30:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My dad is mad and sad and my mom's even sadder, I'm depressed and the whole house is really gloomy :( The bank we got a loan from for our new house made the monthly mortgage really high plus we have to pay a ton of other stuff (not including new furniture and all the other things) we are a family of 6 and I don't know what to do! All the papers have already been signed. Any advice? I'm so desperate, I feel stupid for posting this question.. if you think this question is plain stupid, don't answer.

2007-07-06 13:24:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance has an older sister. He isn't extremely close with her. She lives in same town, and has just moved to a new house - a big one. She asked my fiance (on his day off) to help unpack etc. Then his sister's husband starting going on about how much the new house has cost them and therefore how broke they are! Everytime we see them they have no money etc etc. But, hey, they've just brought a brand new BMW and an old one to pull their caravan! Its nice but I dont (and my fiance doesn't) understand why they moan so much in front of everyone. Its really boring! Plus, they've just had their second child, so they should be happy? ANyway, my fiance had enough and told his sister's husband to 'Give it a break, you're boring!' - As anyone in a 'family' should be able to right? He has taken round flowers, card and wine. His sister said "Don't speak to him like that, take you flowers and go!" Then she mumbles "I've had it with him!" I thought she was rude. What are your comments on this?

2007-07-06 13:16:18 · 6 answers · asked by Fairy Dust :*:*: 2

My cousin joey. He stole a construction truck so he could make it on time to see his parole officer.

Thats one dumb mofo there.

2007-07-06 12:45:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been caring for my 7yr old daughter for almost 2 years with minimal help from her mother. There was a time where she didn't see her mother for weeks at a time.(per her mother).
My daughter is living with me and sees her mother more in the recent year since she has settled down and had another 2 kids with her boyfriend. Now that they are married she has insisted that she wants to be with her daughter more and I can have her on weekends.I don't think that it's fair that she can assume none of the responsibility of taking care or providing for my daughter for these last couple of years, and now when its convenient for her she wants her back. Things were hard for me to when we broke up but I still handled my responsibility. she has not pitched in at all for her school clothes, or expenses and now wants to make demands. What can I do. I don't want to keep her from her mom, so at most I would like joint custody. What are my chances.

2007-07-06 12:37:20 · 6 answers · asked by darkwolfe_01 1

what do you do when your 18 year old son wants to stay in a house to go to college 5,000 a year and he is going to school 2 days a week full time and is only 45min from the house im worried about how his college is going to be paid for and all he is worried about is how is he going to pay his rent 500.oo a month

2007-07-06 12:33:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm going on a boat tomorrow with 3 of my friends, and 1 of my friends' family. Ever since I took a trip to Six Flags, and read in the car, I have realized that I get car sick or motion sickness easily. What can I do to ease the pain while on the boat? What are the chances of my getting seasick? What kind of pills should I take to ease the pain? Thank you so much in advance.

2007-07-06 12:26:19 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am 10 yrs old and my cousin is 9. we live in the same state, different towns. we are both girls. the kids in my school, (i'm going into 5th grade) all look older than their ages. they are all in puberty and some of the kids have their periods and have bigger boobs and are at least 5 foot. all the kids in her school (she's going into 4th grade) all look so young and the 5th graders look like 2nd graders and they probably all start puberty in like 6th 7th grade. my cousin does not know responsibility! she thinks she is a baby. i told her she's growing up but she dosesn't listen. she still has her baby blanket! i have my period and i am 77 lbs. she didn't even start puberty...58 lbs! she thinks shut up is a bad word. she thinks stupid is a bad word. she doesn't know responsibility! how can i tell her she acts like a 6 yr old! other details please!

thank you!

2007-07-06 12:15:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Our kids 10,11,12yrs. Other kids are 23, 21, 20-girls by one woman & 14-boy by another. All of this was B4 we met. I found out by his mom 3dys B4 wedding. DEVASTATED. He has no relationship w/any of them. Never did. Since we married I demanded blood tests, he claimed they weren't his. All tests came back yes and he has been paying childsupport since. My kids do not know. Should we tell them? Our daughter thinks she is the only girl, but there are three daughters of his out there. Our oldest son thinks he is the first born and named after my husband. Thing is, I found out the 14yr boy is named after my husband also. I feel this complicates things more. I am carrying this in order to protect my kids from heartache. I keep them away from his family so they will not find out. I think of this and often times HATE my husband but am starting to hate myself for choosing to marry him and put future kids in the middle of it. He's an excellent father/husband, there's just this one thing. HELP!!!!

2007-07-06 12:08:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Who here is sick of this pathetic little Troll, and hopes that little zachie ends up losing much more than just the one arm?

Come back to the Library, dad, and finish the job!!!!!!!!

2007-07-06 11:45:22 · 3 answers · asked by Bubbles 5

My father highly pisses me off, he was never a dad, has other kids outside of marriage that i never knew about for awhile, and is selfish. He doesn't like to pay bills.

All throughout my academics, he did not support me not once. He offered not one dime to help with school tuition. In fact, he doesn't take care of any of his other kids. My mom has gone through hell, and I don't know why she continues to stay with this clown.

I get so enraged i conceive thoughts of premeditated murder with a firearm or taking a heavy object and making it one with his head. I sometimes can't help it. Plus, he's very close-minded to see the errors of his ways. All the pain he has caused me and my mom brings me to conceiving such thoughts of homicide.

2007-07-06 11:16:50 · 7 answers · asked by Enigma 1

2007-07-06 11:05:43 · 8 answers · asked by puppylovr203 1

my adult daughter & son live at home w/me and got into an altercation (physical). My daughter called the police and placed a restraining order on him which now he had to move from my home and I feel bad because he is homeless. I believe he attacked her physically first and she retalliated to protect herself. He asks to come take showers and says he sleeps wherever he can find a place. He is 21 and never been away from home and is having trouble finding employment so I give him some money for food. Am I wrong? to help him, and should I ask her to cancell the order?

2007-07-06 10:41:05 · 26 answers · asked by sissytwo 3

She is 16 and does cocaine. She and i are very close and im the only one who knows but since she told me i feel i have to tell her father. She will never speak to me agin but how can i convince her its for her own good?

2007-07-06 09:52:58 · 17 answers · asked by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4

I have two kids that are adults. Girl is 23 and boy is 21. Both are high school drop outs. Both are not working, nor are they helping out around the house. I do all the cooking, cleaning and paying the bills. My hubby works all the time. My daughter that is 23 is very mouthy and causes problems with my hubby and myself. She does havea boyfriend of two years now. He does not like us and he believes everything my daughter tells him. What do you think we should do about our kids?

2007-07-06 08:45:44 · 18 answers · asked by april79_2000 2

I know a family that has had bad luck after bad luck. Now because of some circumstances they are about to loose their home and vehicles just because they had to get pay day loans to take care of bills they had and now the payday loans are so high in interest they cant afford anything else, I want to help them but cant and I know their are alot of people who would just trying to find them is the trick.

2007-07-06 08:39:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous