Im a big sisterand i didnt mean to do it i was really mad at my bro. He is 15 years old and he had a girlfriend. Ok i told his girlfriend some mean things about himand some rumors too and i told her that he was a perv(which he aint) and broke up with him right after i told her. I told her these things becausei thought my little bro was saying rumors about me that were bad but he told me that it was a lie but i didnt believe him. Then i found out he was telling the truth and i feel awful. Now hes not talking to me and he looks sad. Everytime we have dinner i see his eyes and there all watery and his friends are worried about him cause hes really sad. He said he always looked up to me and he always trusted me and i feel really awful. He just seems so sad . What should i do??? sorry for it being so long
2007-07-06 13:30:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
if you haven't already...apologize to him....then start spending some time with him...try to build a relationship again....maybe you could even talk to his ex and explain to her what happened....The most important thing is to try to mend this relationship as quickly as possible...show him that you're sorry and how important he is to you....and always remember, words hurt and try not to do it again...to anyone..
2007-07-06 13:37:37 · answer #1 · answered by Julie S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's hard to give advice particular to this because it's a done deal now and you were certainly in the wrong. Try to fix it, tell his girlfriend you were wrong in what you told her, that you actually lied, I mean you have to admit it. And also apologize to him of course, although I doubt that will go over real well it still needs to be done. But I think the learning in this is that even if someone makes you mad, or does something to you, it IS NOT the right answer to "get them back." You don't do things "to" people in anger or jealousy or whatever the emotion is, EVEN IF they did something to you.
2007-07-06 13:40:25 · answer #2 · answered by The Scorpion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come clean. Tell everyone that you made up all the things you said. Get a hold of the girl friend and tell her the truth. You could have ruined your brothers reputation. School is hard enough as it is to fit in and have friends. You owe your brother big time and if I were you, I would do whatever it takes to fix this and to get your brothers forgiveness.
2007-07-06 13:40:59 · answer #3 · answered by CARM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You screwed up big time, and probably lost his respect forever unless you can fix this. Talk privately to his girlfriend and tell her why you did what you did, and hopefully she will forgive you and also get back with him. Yes, you are awful and mean. In case he has not said that.
2007-07-06 13:54:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should apologize immediately once you have the chance to your younger brother.
As for his girlfriend, you should sit down with her and tell her that all you said were things that you lied about. Also tell her that you were trying to impress her and obviously didn't succeed. Apologize as well to her and you do to your brother.
God bless.
2007-07-06 13:42:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with the girlfriend and tell her the truth.Try to patch up the relationship with the girlfriend and your brother.
2007-07-06 13:38:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beyond telling him that you're sorry, I sure don't know. I don't have much sympathy for a girl who would go out of her way to cause trouble for her little bother.
2007-07-06 13:35:49 · answer #7 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should apologize and tell his ex the truth. What you did was extremely vindictive and you have a long way to go to make it up to him.
2007-07-06 13:38:14 · answer #8 · answered by dixie8026 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call his girlfriend and tell her that you lied because you were feeling spiteful. Beg her to go back to him. That was his girlfriend and you messed his relationship up.
2007-07-06 13:42:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow mmmmmm i would try and sit him down evven if he wont talk to you and just tell him that ur really sorry for what you did and that you would do anything to help him also call his gfd back up and telll her that it was all a lie
2007-07-06 13:35:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋