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I have lived as the only girl in my family for as long as I can remember.I am the only girl out of 8 boys and I am the smallest.It has always been hard for me to fit in and be comfortable.What can I do to be more comfortable?

2007-07-06 14:25:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Family

13 answers

Be comfortable as far as what??? There isn't enough information to answer this. But what I will say is that, no matter what u are trying to feel comfortable at, just be yourself, and allow others to see you for who u really are. I'm sure as long as you do that then the comfort ability will ease itself on its own.

2007-07-06 14:30:02 · answer #1 · answered by Ghetospydr 2 · 0 0

Do you live in the same house as them? (you didn't give your age) If so, try and find a place or room in your house or outside where you can go to be alone. If you can't find a place, explain to your parents how you feel and see if they'll help you out. If you can find a comfortable room, even a closet, you could hang some pictures up, maybe put some of your things in there (laptop, journal, snacks, etc) you'll feel a lot better!

Good Luck and God Bless!

2007-07-06 21:35:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It sounds like you are not comfortable b/c you are trying to be someone that you are not! Try being yourself, if you are unsure of who you are: sit down and write out all of your good qualities (nothing negtive) all the things you enjoy doing, etc.... Build confidence in the fact that you are the only girl, therefore that makes you special and unique. Do not try to keep up with the guys in your family, that is almost impossible, just be YOU!!! Good Luck

2007-07-06 21:31:07 · answer #3 · answered by tcconssw 4 · 0 0

Thats a problem most younger siblings get. I grew up as the youngest in a family of 8 girls.

It wasnt so good but as an adult I find I can understand my partner much better. She seems to think I can read her mind. lol. The fact is I guess I go used to reading the opposite sex a litle better.

2007-07-06 21:29:42 · answer #4 · answered by philip_jones2003 5 · 0 0

find a place thats yours that you can just lose yourself in.do whatever you want to get out the feelings that make you feel uncomfortable around your brothers.then,maybe when youre around them,you wont think of them that much because you got them out of your system

2007-07-06 21:29:15 · answer #5 · answered by Wes 2 · 0 0

play with the guys.. do some sports with them.. bond more.. then maybe you will get closer to them and feel more comfortable.. try baseball.. it's fun, and guys like it too.. plus, it might be better cuz your smaller..
♥me.. hope i helped..

2007-07-06 21:28:13 · answer #6 · answered by grneydmexi 4 · 0 0

become more involved in what the boys are doing

2007-07-06 21:29:29 · answer #7 · answered by queen_of_a_bitch 3 · 0 1

hang out with your bros and best friend

2007-07-06 21:31:28 · answer #8 · answered by Hottie101 1 · 0 0

beat up all the guys so they know you're serious about it. haha

2007-07-06 21:34:15 · answer #9 · answered by Lor*n 3 · 0 0

Try to get close to them,, and share their hobbies,, =)

2007-07-06 21:29:13 · answer #10 · answered by Miss C.Ronaldo 2 · 0 0

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