Family - May 2007

so, as i said, my fiance is downloading porn to my computer.i keep hearing that all guys like porn and i should be ok with it, but he knows that it upsets me.i really feel like if he's gunna do it don't save it to MY COMPUTER IN MY FILE!at least hide it if your gunna be dirty, right?beyond that, the fact he doesn't care that it hurts me is such BS.its not the first time he's been that way when it comes to my feelings.i know most guys like porn, but he shouldn't be putting it in places where i can't help but see it.at least respect me enough to not download porn to my computer.being pregnant is hard enough without his disrespect.what should i do?

2007-05-30 11:01:00 · 8 answers · asked by Bane 1

I dated this guy for months. To make a long story short, it didn't work out. He has some issues. The one I am most concerned with is that he's a pathological liar. I'm pregnant with his child. With all of his psychiatric issues I'm concerned about him being involved in this child's life.

2007-05-30 10:55:26 · 15 answers · asked by JoMay 2

2007-05-30 10:53:22 · 3 answers · asked by turbospd 1

ok so my mom found a bottle of vodka under my sisters bed the other day IN MY SISTERS ROOM.....and she immeditaly blames me. ive told her a thousand fking times that it wasnt mine and she just doesnt listen to me. it honestly isnt mine and she keeps on calling me an alcoholic.....i cant deal with it anymore...what can i do?

2007-05-30 10:39:45 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for about 7 months but have known my husband since junior high. Therefore, I know his family very well and we are close. Our wedding planning was hell because everyone is in everyone's business...DRAMA! His cousin was in our wedding, on my side because I had felt we grew close and are close in age. Now we are no longer speaking due to an incident while we were at a bar for my husbands bday. She brought herself into our business, publicly when I had run into a high school ex of mine...drama. Now she has written me emails that have put me down in ways no one ever has. She said horrible things and brought the whole family into it. She talked down on our marriage, our wedding and me as a person. I am NOT ok with that. We have not talked since Easter and it is uncomfortable at all the constant family get togethers. People think I need to be the bigger person and forgive her, but I am extremely hurt and mad she was in my wedding feeling the way she did????

2007-05-30 10:35:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

we had talked about porn early on in our relationship and had decided that we don't want each other viewing it.today i found pornography on my computer that he downloaded LAST MONTH.i am 4 months pregnant and i take this as a huge betrayal of trust.when i asked him about it he denied it, then admitted it, then blamed it on him trying to get some for his friends at work.i know that its total BS and even if it were true i feel like what he did is wrong.should i not be infuriated by this?to make matters worse, he told me its none of my f***ing business and laughed when i was bawling about it over the phone.i want to know what other people think...should i just move out and move on with my baby?or should i get over it...?thing is, he refuses to talk about it except to say i am overreacting.

2007-05-30 10:30:32 · 28 answers · asked by Bane 1

It's hard to believe but it's true I swear.

2007-05-30 10:26:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

please give decent suggestions i would appreciate it..

2007-05-30 08:13:43 · 32 answers · asked by SenSored 2

I am 15 and my cousin is 9. Why does my mom have a big issue with me hanging out with her sometimes. Sometimes I like to sit down with her in the dark and tell her ghost stories. She loves hearing my ghost stories and I scare the bejeezus out of her. Hahahahaha! She is a girl and I also have another girl cousin around my age who is 13 and sometimes we play bingo and stuff. My mom will be like, 'why don't you play with Aaron?' Aaron is there brother, my boy cousin. I mean, I hope my mom doesn't have such a sick mind as to think her own child would commit incest. What other reason is there? She hit the ceiling last week just because she saw me and Alicia hanging out. Alicia always begs me to tell her ghost stories and stuff or just play other games and have fun. I also like playing with my other cousin, Andrea. I just like playing with Aaron less because the only thing he likes to do is watch boring movies and play boring video games.

2007-05-30 08:02:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My step dad is always putting me down. I have a really close friend and I we say I love ya, but we mean it like sisters. So my step dad in turn always is calling me a lesbian and stuff. I tell my mon about it but she just says he's joking. I don't take it as a joke because my sister is a lesbian and it really bugs me. We don't have a good relationship as father daughter already and he just makes it worse.

2007-05-30 07:56:28 · 15 answers · asked by DJ 1

I had a family party and did not invite him. I just did not feel comfortable with having him in my house, around my kids and the kids of my guests. Was this wrong, or should I have invited him anyway? I feel bad because it seemed to have bothered my aunt & uncle (though I had already told my aunt how I felt several weeks ago and she totally understood and was ok with it).

2007-05-30 07:54:19 · 9 answers · asked by julesl68 5

would you have kids again?

2007-05-30 07:50:32 · 10 answers · asked by girl24gr 3

I live bymyself I have a girlfriend I have a job but my family is piss broke all the time my other 6 brothers and sisters are starving ,always calling me they they get a check from ssi retirement fund but they have no good money management skills so they call and call and it makes me sad ! My mom refuses to cook and my dad never helps out they wont leave me alone and they will make me feel bad for not bringing them a pizza everyday!! They call me an ********e brother for not helping them out while Im working my butt off to pay my own bills should I worry???

2007-05-30 07:40:40 · 9 answers · asked by harlingenguy_2000 1

I'm 14, 8 months ago I went through a bad phase. Bad crowd, I got disrespectful, fough ta alot w/ my lil bro. I regretted and apologized sincerely, but I got a harsh punsihment and for some months especially my mom tortured me emotionally, showing she didn't trust me though I had apologized and showed that had been just a bad phase, They didn't act like parents, showed they didn't love me. I got very sad and depressed, even has suicide thoughts. Fortunately some people , especially my grandma helped me, showed trust and understood me. She could convince them to let me live w/ her from July on and I was very happy about this. But now my parents came up w/ the bad idea we should try family therapy to fix our relationship. They decided against my will and I have no choice. What can I expect from it? I'm afraid the teherapist will be against me. I think a fair condition for me to cooperate is the therapist don't say anything I don't want to hear. This should be a contract.

2007-05-30 07:21:17 · 5 answers · asked by Mariah 1

My sister-in-law approached me at a party for my mother and said "Your mother doesn't know what's wrong with you. She says she can't talk to you and I'm more of a daughter to her than you are." And I'm sure she said it.

While my mother and I have never been confidantes, I feel I've always been there for her. My family and I had driven 5 hours to be at this party for my mother and I've always been there when she needs me and have spent every holiday with her. It's also true that I moved away young because she's very controlling and critical and I didn't want to be too close.

But I thought that was a very hurtful thing to say (and relay) and I'm ready to limit my dealings with both of them. Am I overreacting?

2007-05-30 06:52:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does it hurt to have your peroid?Im 15

2007-05-30 06:48:51 · 35 answers · asked by ? 3

We are a very happy family. my husband and I love each other. There is no abuse or inappropriate behavior and there is no hitting or yellling. I have 3 grown children from a previously marriage. My current husband and I have been married for 9 years. He has a very good relationship with my older kids.

My husband had never been married and has no other children so he thinks the sun rises and sets over our 6 year old.

My daughter is happy, intelligent, has lots of friends,gets along great at school, loves her older brothers and sister, who in turn love her, but every now and then she is just mean to her father. If he says " I love you", she says "I love mommy" or she ignores him. He will be going to work and she won't go to the door to say good by.

Normally she is crazy about him. He gives her plenty of attention but every now and then it seems like she does it just to be mean.

She can also be quite bossy.

Any ideas

2007-05-30 06:17:10 · 13 answers · asked by Busybake 3

Have you seen some close calls ?? or bad judgements ?? while cell phone users where driving ??

It is getting more popular every day to talk & drive.
Our safety is at risk.
I am fed up with the way the ones on the phones are driving.
Paying more attention to the phone then the rules of the road.
I use a cell phone, but not while I am driving.

2007-05-30 05:28:52 · 15 answers · asked by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7

while they had a meal at a close by restaurant. Has anyone actually told them that is really irresponsible. They are celebs now and their little girl is missing becuase of their incompetance.

2007-05-30 05:26:56 · 40 answers · asked by Claire 2

is it the time for me to move out of the house?
even though Indian parents hate kids to live without them.
I wish to have a dog and they came up with telling me a lie that they are allergic to pets. Should i just agree to them being mean to me all the time..

2007-05-30 05:13:41 · 13 answers · asked by lovemychihuahua 3

Urgent!!

2007-05-30 04:44:45 · 4 answers · asked by Atmaram S 1

I have a really nasty sister who basically found out something about me, told my equally nasty broither and sister...but years after not being friends with my mom, they now are talking to her to tell her what they found out. She really was'nt bothered, but I think the aim is to try and break me and my wife (of a foreign race) up. They have never liked my wife, and nothing wiuld give them greater pleasure than to break us up. We arestrong so I hope we'll get through this. by the way teh secret is one I won't share here, but I have'nt killed anyone, stole anything or had an affair. And in any case, my wife knew what it was before we got married. I just wondereed how any of you coped / dealt with it, if you feel others are trying to use this info against you?

2007-05-30 04:22:29 · 11 answers · asked by jonoxk 3

I feel sorry for my grandad, he always talks about winning the lotto, and how he would do this and that for his daughters. he has a drinking problem also, and today he broaght my mum some fruits which i find sweet.

He said to me the reason why he drinks (not going to say), but then he broke down and left. my grandad has 4 daughters 1 is in dominica, and one is my mum.

Ive noticed my mum doesnt see him much, and he lives locally, i was wondering if i could do anything for him?

I only want serious answers please, I really do feel sorry for him

2007-05-30 03:45:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay so I've tried comfronting my parents about this but after you see the whole story you'll see why it wouldn't work.
Okay so my sister is 7, almost 8, and she is the biggest cry baby. If one of my parents yells at her she'll go crying to the other one. When she's around my parents she's a little angel and as soon as they leave she is a devil. She doesn't open the door to me when I knock and I was locked out for 2 hrs. until my mom got home. My parents baby her so much and they let her get away with anything. They say that I'm being a difficult teenager and that I need to be nicer to her, which isn't true because I'm 12. (This is my friend's account because she is 13)
She jumps around when she is walking in the mall and yesterday because of this she jumped on my toe and made it fall off. And she stained my new shirt because she threw pizza at it. And she cries about EVERYTHING!!! IS this just a phase or will this keep going on? What could I do to stop her?

2007-05-30 03:04:59 · 31 answers · asked by S. 4

2007-05-30 01:33:35 · 11 answers · asked by tia_oita 1

My brother is unemployed and just got outta jail. He doent live with me but just kinda drifts from each family members house. He has been diagnosed with Bipolar disorder( crazy) any way if I let him use my address so he can get Food stamps will I be in trouble. I do not receive any govt benefits.What is out there help wise for people like him?

2007-05-30 01:03:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents are way too strict, i spose im better off than some people in ways. but i just cant take it anymore. Im 16 and finished school, and want to start takign control of my life. I planning on moving out as soon as i can but this weekend i want to stay out... not that much of a big deal usually. its just i want to stay at my boyfriends... i asked my mum this and instantly she started screaming at me. I try to talk to her, but it just seems she doesnt trust me at all. Now it juts seems that everytime i ever try to talk to her, she screams and shouts and threatens me that she'll tell my dad... i dont live with him but i am geniunily scared of him when hes angry.. he can get slightly violent sometimes... have they got any right to stop me now im 16 and how can i get them to just talk abotu stuff.. and trust me.

2007-05-29 23:53:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

where ever they may have passed on to?

For me, I always hope that my father is taking care of those that are coming up from earth..you know? I always tell him, "be on the lookout for so and so!!,and remember to tell those people that come to see you, that they are gonna be okay!"
and I also just ask him to watch over them...and be a good friend to all, if he can...you know..just sort of reach out...and "be there" as a good bud'!
I also think that maybe my dad is just hanging out(hopefully not smoking..but, I can honestly picture him doing that STILL, lol!! Just as he did in life!!! I kind of figure that that is one habit that would be pretty darn hard to break, even after death!
I think that he would either be smokin' a pipe or as many cigarettes as he could find "up" there! LOL!

so, what about you all,and your parents or whomever...what do you think that they are doing, and are they up to their old tricks?
LOL!!......

2007-05-29 23:47:21 · 8 answers · asked by smilingflowergirl 2

So I love my family and they are all REALLY committed Christians, my immediate family and all the others too. And there is this girl who I have had a crush on for many years, we will leave it at that, and she asked ME out once but I said no because she wasn't Christian and that was a conflict of morals for me. But now I have decided I don't believe anymore, and I am affrayed of how my family will react because I can't bear to have them see me as a "lost soul." But I would have to tell them if I were to pursue this girl, who I am so crazy about and have been friends with for 3ish years now. So I'm 20 still at home and in community college, and I could really use some input or some empathy.

2007-05-29 23:38:30 · 7 answers · asked by David H 2

He was known to go in a pub called 5 or 3 bells in Thorne Yorkshire and was married with kids. His name is Rob or Roy i have no last name. This was about 50yrs ago. I know i am shooting at the stars but there maybe someone out there that can help i have tried every thing else with no last name i have had no luck my mothers name is Kathleen Tye and no she will not give me info as all i had off her I.D was a name but was able to track her down after many yrs, it was not good meeting but found other siblings which i keep in touch with. I cannot get hold of my dad through mother as she flatly will not give me his last name as she knows i will find him that way. I do not want to upset his life just to know what he looks like would do me fine

2007-05-29 22:56:14 · 7 answers · asked by JULIE F 1