so, as i said, my fiance is downloading porn to my computer.i keep hearing that all guys like porn and i should be ok with it, but he knows that it upsets me.i really feel like if he's gunna do it don't save it to MY COMPUTER IN MY FILE!at least hide it if your gunna be dirty, right?beyond that, the fact he doesn't care that it hurts me is such BS.its not the first time he's been that way when it comes to my feelings.i know most guys like porn, but he shouldn't be putting it in places where i can't help but see it.at least respect me enough to not download porn to my computer.being pregnant is hard enough without his disrespect.what should i do?
2007-05-30 11:01:00 · 8 answers · asked by Bane 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I feel that u should tell him how u feel and stress to him the point that u r prgnant and do not need this kind of stress on u because it is not healthy 4 u or 4 the baby. And if he still is disrespectful and not abiding by ur decisions then maybe he is juss not the person 4 u. I understand that u want him to b there for the sake of the child but what good will it do for him 2 b there if all that he is doing is cause more hectic and problems for u. And at this point in time that is not what u need. Good Luck!
2007-05-30 11:11:44 · answer #1 · answered by SexieIndianPrincess 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all, NOT ALL GUYS LIKE PORN. That is a stereo type. Yes, I'll agree that guys are more "sex minded" than women are. However, if your fiance can't give you the minimal amount of respect and insist on downloading porn inspite of your request and your feelings. Then that should tell you something. I don't know about you, but for me it's CLEAR as GLASS. He doesn't respect you. Don't expect him to change either. Now you may feel "ok" with the level of disrespect that he's giving you. However, you need to realize that you will be bringing a child into the world and that kind of environment is not healthy nor suitable for any child. Not only that but your child will now grow up feeling it's "OK" to disrespect women. Is this what you want for your future?
I think not and I believe you know what you need to do. But just incase you are still not sure. You need to shake him off like a bad cold! If he's the father of that child. Don't forget the "child support".
Good luck!
2007-05-30 11:40:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 17:03:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if he watches porn without you, it will do him no good morally. In most cases of rape, the police find porn back at the guy's apt. With you right there in his life-why does he need other females to look at?? You do know that if he had the chance he would have sex with them, right? eventually it will lead to cheating. Those girls are in his mind's eye all day. Besides that he is a liar and insensitive, which you already know.
2007-05-30 11:09:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should seriously reconsider your union with him. I know you are pregnant and the thought of being a single mom is scary. But you don't want to be married to someone who has no respect or consideration for you. You don't want to be modeling that for your child. If you are not okay with porn then those are your limits. A husband should love you enough to respect those limits.
2007-05-30 11:12:16 · answer #5 · answered by NONAME 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
put a lock on your computer. many guys like porn. that's no big deal but,lets face it, internet porn can be really disgusting. whatever happened to penthouse? the fact that he ignores your feelings and wishes makes me wonder if you should be with him at all.
2007-05-30 11:34:22 · answer #6 · answered by racer 51 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give him an ultimatum... porn or you? it is disrespectful to do things that you know upset or hurt ppl.
2007-05-30 11:05:31 · answer #7 · answered by The Chic 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Put him on the back burner and tell him you will keep him there until he get his **** straightened out.
2007-05-30 11:10:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋