Family - May 2007

so my sister wants me to babysit for her cause she and her husband are going on a 4-day cruise but i have 3 kids and trying to work too and i can't say no to her cause she is my sister. help! she has 2 kids and they both are young and i would have to cut my hours at work to watch them and it seems hard. what to do?

2007-05-28 12:38:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, so my sister is one year younger than me. When I am in my room then it is fine, she will knock if anything, but really she doesn't ever need to come in. But, when I am out, and not home, she always snoops around my room, taking my candy, clothes, and other tings. I know that it is her, but she is stubborn and always denies it. Any suggestions?

2007-05-28 12:35:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my 3 younger cusins r always messing with me i already dont hang out with them alot and is startin to hate them exspesaly for what they did to my sis but why do they have to test and pester us older children who can be just as bad or even worse than them . i just cant stand my family there worse than girls tryin to act like there all that or still your bf b/c there cter than u ....bla bla bla bla man my family sucks can anyone out there convence me not to cut them out of my life as they do me.

2007-05-28 12:11:55 · 8 answers · asked by Sasha 1

My brother n laws only child is almost 8 yrs old and has autism. Everytime my wife and I go over to there house (or vise versa) their daughter hurts our 4 yr old. Just yesterday when the older girl jumped off the swing she would literally sling the swing back into my daughter (she did this not just once or twice but 4 times).
And when we "go to the rescue" of our daughter's hard cryin, we hear things like. It's not XXXX'x fault, she's just that way, just gotta let her go /or the swing just dont swing straight. Not even an attempt to disapline.
My wife and I both for years tried to "keep the peace", but our child is getting hurt and how long till it's serious? What would you do?

2007-05-28 11:13:54 · 10 answers · asked by IndianaHoosier 5

He comes in my bedroom even through he's not allow, he says I'm retarded and stupid, tells me to shut up, interpputs me when I'm talking to someone, hits me in the arm and teases me about everything! And I mean everything! What I watch, what I do now the computer (I even have to keep it a secret to my parents that I'm writing a story in microsoft word, so he wouldn't bug me and tease!) He also teases me about how I much friends I have (eight friends is bad?) And teases me about almost everything. Once in a while he can be nice, but most of the time it seems like he's a monster. Please help me!

2007-05-28 11:10:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK, so im 16, and i have this assistant teacher. This is his first year being an assistent. I sit in the way back of the class and he always sits next to me. When i ask for help then he always stares at my boobs. His name is Mr. Wudulomi. He's kinda cute tho. He always stares at me, even when hes not talking. When i got a 100 on my test, then the paper said come see me. When my class ends, he gets to leave the school. So one day i was walking home and he pulled up with his car and asked if i wanted a ride. Then another time when we were going out of class, then i was walking out and i was squished bc everyone was trying to get out of the room through the small door way and then he pressed up against me against the wall and he put his hand up my shirt a few inches. It was reall y weird.Oh yea, then he told me to come to his house for tutoring then my parent swanted me to go, so i went and we didnt talk about math at all. And when he laughed hE WOUld touch my leg! Does he like me?!?!

2007-05-28 10:58:01 · 14 answers · asked by calientaXOchica<3 2

in the dirt eventhough she was wrong. so she can atleast give piece to the family. my aunt whos not her mom. thinks diffrently

2007-05-28 10:40:16 · 5 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7

anymore since they killed my mood and they done alot of damage to the family i mean serious that all i care about is what iam focusing on other things. iam numb to them now and my mom says shes also staring to feel that way. its not because iam depress either i can love them or leave them

2007-05-28 10:37:00 · 5 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7

i talked to my grandma today. i told her it feels like she forgot about me and hates me. i spy on my grandma and she is always giving my cousin cookies and giving her presents. she always gets to go out to eat. my cousin is 18 and alittle to old and she hates me and lately my grandma gives her all the love. lauren is finding ways to not let my grandma see me. she is painting my cousins house. so i cant see her for even longer. i usually see her once a week. now i never do. the last time was three months ago. grandma says she wishes she has time for me and she misses me. help! i miss her so much. she gives my cousin kisses and hugs and gives her sweaters with love in every stitch. grandma always has some excuse for not seeing me. help! i miss her!

2007-05-28 08:28:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mother has a quicksand personality, it seems like she's been having a bad day for my entire life. She refuses to go to counseling or listen to common sense. I guess those two go hand in hand. I seriously believe she is bi-polar.

Now that I am moving out and not a "burden" on her anymore, she's mad at me?! This hurts me so much, because I don't know what else I can do as her daughter. I feel like nothing will ever be good enough for her. She doesn't realize that she's turning into her own mother, and turning me into her! Im scared because I don't want to ever be anything like her, she was a horrible mother. How do I stop this cycle!

2007-05-28 08:05:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mother in law is extremely ill and will not be with us for much longer. My darling husband is beside himself. He is not coping very well at all. What can I do to help? I am always here for him. I feel useless. She's a wonderful lady and a credit to the family. She will be missed terribly. I need to know how I can help him. I am feeling it too.

2007-05-28 07:54:00 · 8 answers · asked by purplehairsarah 2

2007-05-28 07:21:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Or not really?


And why?

2007-05-28 06:22:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-28 05:53:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-05-28 05:52:42 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

She's nine and a half years older than me. She's an adult! But she still treats me like dirt. Whenever she does something wrong, she just turns around and laughs at herself, and I don't say anything about it. But when I do something wrong, she has to stab me in the heart! She always has to have what she wants! One time she wanted me to go to WalMart with her. But I was really tired. So I gently said no, I kinda just want to stay here. And she stormed out of the house yelling that everyone in the family was lazy and never wanted to do anything! For the littlest things she says things to me that our family doesn't consider "appropriate." I don't think it's fair. She always has to be better at everything. Once I made an accomplishment that I was really excited about. I was excited to tel her, but when I did she was just like: "Oh great." In a dull voice. Why is she like this? What can I do to make her stop?

2007-05-28 05:27:01 · 11 answers · asked by SingingImp 6

my family has some serouse anger problems of course in or own ways and levels of anger but i have an anger problem to althow im the most calm one in the family will there anger change me or will i remain the same.

2007-05-28 05:20:32 · 7 answers · asked by Sasha 1

i am 22 and my fiance is 25 and we have a 7 month old girl!! i am thinking about leaving him but i don't want him to not have any part in our little girl! he is the type who gets mad very easily. i know that if me and my little girl leave he is just goin to leave and move out of state and never speak to us again!! i need help!! should i stay just for the baby or what?

2007-05-28 04:33:04 · 7 answers · asked by ananda 2

if you have them: how often? Is it more trouble than its worth or do you enjoy the time and can't wait to see them next time?
I'M curious because our social fabric is being torn apart wider each year and families dont appear to be as close to each other as just one generation ago. What's your opinion?

2007-05-28 04:02:12 · 13 answers · asked by dwayne j 2

my husband is out of town(with his sister for work again)and my neice is staying since her and her mother now have a restraining order from him. my neices boyfriend was staying over that night in the guest bedroom(i said they couldnt share a room)and everything was fine when we went to bed. so i got undressed(i sleep w/o clothes on sometimes)
at about 12:30 i woke up and my husband was massaging my breasts. after about 5 more minutes we were making out and i remembered that my husband was out of town! when i realized this wasnt my husband i looked a little harder and found that it was my neices boyfriend!!(she is 16 and he is 18)
i told him to get out and go to his own bedroom and he did but the next morning he kept on making kissy faces at me over breakfast and when my neice went to the restroom he walked up to me and started makeing-out with me again!

what should i do?
tell somebody?! or should i just stay away from him?!
what if he keeps coming over and trys to kiss me?!

2007-05-28 03:57:43 · 14 answers · asked by supersexyx5 1

ok for about 6 years now my step mom has complained that i have a badass attitude and that i piss her off everyday. well im 13 and i hate her. well my mom and dad have been divorced since i was 16 months old and ever since then my dad took care of me and my brother by himself. i gave all my mothers day stuff to my g-ma and havent gotten used to givin it to my step mom since and really i dont get her anything. well now she says she doesnt even care about me and that she knows i hate her and uses my mom against every ****** time i get in trouble. she talks bad bout her. well in like a week im goin to my blood mothers house and i think my step mom is jealous
just yesterday i think she tried to start a relationship with me... but i dont want one with her because i really do hate her with a passion.. what should i do?? ignore her, or try to build a relationship too??

2007-05-28 03:50:23 · 19 answers · asked by lind.say.le.anne. =] 2

2007-05-28 03:31:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I tend to compare my life to others too much. I envy others and do not appreciate the good in my own life. I look at what is lacking and not what I do have.

I don't know how to really stop doing that.

This Memorial Day weekend, my ex-husband, his two sisters and one of the sister's kids and my daughter and her grandmother are getting together.

I am busy this weekend, but do feel sad because I am not surrounded by family like them.

I have to remind myself that if I was there with them, I would not be happy and instead would be compared to his sisters and put down. I would be ignored and told that I was not good enough compared to them.

2007-05-28 03:17:23 · 4 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

My son was a disgruntled teenager who decided that he didnt like the rules at home and to live elsewhere. These guardians said they wouldnt take support from me and just wanted to see him get thru school. After the court date they were the first to the child support office. Next I loaned them my insurance card which i used for his sister living at home. They refused to give it back. Next they started hanging up on me and refused to let me speak to him. Now my mother who lives in the stoneage, invited these so called people to our graduation party for him. I think its an insult especially the way I was treated by these people. Oh and I forgot to mention, after they started recieving support (900 dollars/mo) they all of a sudden could afford a brand new suv. She works as a desk receptionist at a hotel and he works once in a while. 2 kids in college. What can a person do about this so they dont mooch off of another family?

2007-05-28 03:15:23 · 3 answers · asked by dee 3

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2007-05-28 03:10:49 · 11 answers · asked by swordxka 1

My soon to be mother in law is driving me nuts... My fiance and I have been together for 4 years, She thinks I have to stop what I am doing to run errands for her at her beck and call. She is in a wheelchair is totally "with it" mentally. and doesn't understand that I can't run for her every day. I work full time night shift, and he works full time day. I go to the grocery story to get her ridiculaous list. and run medications from the pharmacy at least 4 times a week. i wouldn't mind doing it once a week. I have told her how we feel but she thinks we are mad at her. She is divorced from father in law, has 3 sisters of her own, she is late 40's. Please someone tell me what to tell her. I have told her I can't because of work, the kids, gas prices. I don't run to the grocery store 4 times a week for my self. I don't want her to think I hate her, but my lord this is ridiculous.. any thoughts??

2007-05-28 02:27:02 · 10 answers · asked by Holly 2

Our mom is a nurse and quit her job to be a part time waitress. A bad decision I know and when my sister found out, she said, "How stupid can a person get? " My mom had money problems after that and my sister told her it's her own fault. Another time we went out to eat and I left the tip. My mom tried to pick up the tip and told us she got confused and thought she had left money laying on the table. My sister rolled her eyes and real loud said, "Give me a break! You know that money isn't yours so stop trying to steal it." When my mom asks my sister personal questions, my sister tells her to butt out, if she wants her to know something she'll tell her. She treats our mom rude and I tried talking to her about it and she basically blows me off. My sister and me are adults and she has no compassion at all for our mom. What to do????

2007-05-28 01:09:58 · 10 answers · asked by my_sister 1

Dear yahoo anwsers could any one help me with this problem
ive met daughter after nineteen years we were getting on ok then suddenly not heard anything for ages ive tried contacting her ringing texting etc but feel shes just cut me off is there anyway you can help? this is 6 weeks gone by
i feel heartbroken i did try for custody alot but mother would'nt help and did really try me & mother split up ages ago
but i feel she has poisoned my daughter

thanks cheers appreciate it

Rolandxx

2007-05-27 23:57:39 · 5 answers · asked by Roland 1

My sister in law ( she is married to my husbands twin brother) has for some reason completely cut me off. I have been calling and texting her for a week and a half with no response. We are good friends and I dont know what it is I have done wrong. At first I thought she had had an argument with her husband or was busy at work, but now its really obvious she is blanking me. I asked my husband if he new why and he said he has not heard anything.

Im not a bad person, so this has upset me. Its the second time she had done this now. I have erased her number as I felt an idiot constantly calling and leaving messages to see if she was ok and what was wrong.

i am now tempted to wipe her out of my life for good, even if she does contact me in the future. I have lots of good friends who would not act this way. If I have done something wrong She should tell me so I can put things right. Its hard, but should I just forget about her?

2007-05-27 23:27:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like to have different hair styles but they always tell me cut my hair ,so when i am out of my home i like to grow my hair ,but it is very difficult to convince them, what can i dooo?

2007-05-27 21:38:40 · 8 answers · asked by lacchiga 1