My sister in law ( she is married to my husbands twin brother) has for some reason completely cut me off. I have been calling and texting her for a week and a half with no response. We are good friends and I dont know what it is I have done wrong. At first I thought she had had an argument with her husband or was busy at work, but now its really obvious she is blanking me. I asked my husband if he new why and he said he has not heard anything.
Im not a bad person, so this has upset me. Its the second time she had done this now. I have erased her number as I felt an idiot constantly calling and leaving messages to see if she was ok and what was wrong.
i am now tempted to wipe her out of my life for good, even if she does contact me in the future. I have lots of good friends who would not act this way. If I have done something wrong She should tell me so I can put things right. Its hard, but should I just forget about her?
2007-05-27 23:27:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Do not jump to conclusions. Mail her a thinking about you card and see if she comes around with talking with you.
Ask her to join you doing something such as having coffee at a fast food place. I myself would let her go for awhile because she may have something on her mind. I Do Not Think You Did/Said Anything To Her! She is acting like a child. She should return your call, if for only a very few short minutes. She is not worth your time. Let her be. She will start asking why you are not contacting her,if she is interested in conversing. I would try the card thing first, then let her ride on by.
2007-05-28 01:01:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are very sensitive. You may have said something that bothered her. Also, there are some very moody people in this world. Just wait for her to call or at least until you find out why she is mad. Don't worry yourself sick over it. Something will come to surface sooner or later. Your mother-in-law may know what is going on if you are all that concerned.
2007-05-28 06:33:15 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is an old saying .....
"If you love something, set it free"
Maybe you need to just continue on with your life without her ~ To be absolutely honest, is she worth it,.....? If she is causing you all of this distress, then just move on ~ If it is meant to be she will come back to you.
I really believe that you have done nothing wrong,...
Let her take the time to come back to you and explain.
If she doesn't ~ well,...sorry to say, but obviously no great loss.!!!!!
You are better than that!
Good luck! :)
2007-05-28 06:35:23 · answer #3 · answered by pandora_293 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how nice that would be to simply "forget about her". unfortunately, looks like this IS family and you have to use some form of tact with her.
You do seem upset about the situation. I am sorry she has hurt you like this. What was the problem last time that she did this? is it possible it could be the same reason she is ignoring you again?
2007-05-28 06:33:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FACE the facts SHE DOES NOT LIKE YOU
It may not be anything you did and you can still be a good person But NOT everyone in the whole world has to like you
While I do not know you until disproven
I like you just the way you are
:-)
2007-05-28 06:35:44 · answer #5 · answered by EEK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what she thinks she has done wrong to you. People don't get pissed off because what they say you did to them, but what they are ashamed that they have done to you.
Find out what she has done and get it out in the open.
2007-05-28 06:31:25 · answer #6 · answered by furryshotgun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has she left the country?,maybe she has feelings for you and needs to do this to get her head strait.??? I don't know,women are a complex work of art...
2007-05-28 06:35:56 · answer #7 · answered by Tom z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋