My mother has a quicksand personality, it seems like she's been having a bad day for my entire life. She refuses to go to counseling or listen to common sense. I guess those two go hand in hand. I seriously believe she is bi-polar.
Now that I am moving out and not a "burden" on her anymore, she's mad at me?! This hurts me so much, because I don't know what else I can do as her daughter. I feel like nothing will ever be good enough for her. She doesn't realize that she's turning into her own mother, and turning me into her! Im scared because I don't want to ever be anything like her, she was a horrible mother. How do I stop this cycle!
2007-05-28
08:05:30
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It should be said that I'm really trying not to judge her if she does in fact have something mental going on: I just wish she would get some help, and stop taking it out on her kids!
My mother does not appreciate anything. She has no respect for the little coffee or lunches or the big things, on holidays, birthdays. I am 24, but I still don't want to be in the house all by myself on Christmas AND my birthday without so much as a phone call. The only thing that matters to her, is how SHE feels, etc. I have a hard time even carrying a conversation with her.
I try talking with her, but it always goes back to how she feels, what she's doing: she doesnt ask how Im feeling, or doing, etc. Never.
2007-05-28
16:26:00 ·
update #1