anymore since they killed my mood and they done alot of damage to the family i mean serious that all i care about is what iam focusing on other things. iam numb to them now and my mom says shes also staring to feel that way. its not because iam depress either i can love them or leave them
2007-05-28 10:37:00 · 5 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Personally speaking, I don't think it's wrong to have no feelings toward the family. You can't pick your family nor can you be held responsible for having no feelings for them. Sometimes, family members do things that bring numbness and eventually apathy toward them b/c of their actions. These same family members should be considerate and think before they act. In other words, they should follow the golden rule; they should treat others better than they treat themselves and think about their actions and words before acting or uttering them.
2007-05-28 10:44:55 · answer #1 · answered by Virginia rocks! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE ISNT ANYTHING REALLY WRONG WITH IT BUT THE BEST THING TO DO IS LOVE THEM BUT KEEP UR DISTANCE SO THEY WONT CAUSE ANYMORE DAMAGE ON UR FEELINGS. IM GOING THRU THE MOTIONS WITH MY FAMILY ALSO. THEY ARE THE TYPE OF PEOPLE THAT TALK ABOUT U IN UR FACE AND BEHIND UR BACK AND THEY WONDER WHY I STOPPED COMING AROUND....... IKEEP MY DISTANCE SO THEY WONT KEEP HURTING ME....BUT I STILL LOVE THEM BECAUSE THEY ARE FAM AND IF PUSH COMES TO SHOVE I WOULD BE THERE FOR THEM IF IT BECAME NECASSARY BUT OTHER THAN THAT IM NOT AROUND
2007-05-28 17:44:45 · answer #2 · answered by sweetnuthinz06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel guilty? You have no obligation to a family that is not a family to you. You don't pick your blood but I feel you have the right to choose your individual life....if your family is not bringing you positivity, there is no reason for them to be around.
2007-05-28 17:56:18 · answer #3 · answered by Lioness 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well families can make each other mad at times. But the most wonderful thing to do is to forgive, don't hold grudges, work towards friendship, and love them to the fullest.
2007-05-28 17:40:56 · answer #4 · answered by kandykell2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is a legitimate response to a stressful and chaotic situation. i have done the same cuz i couldn't take the turmoil in my family.
a little distance is OK
2007-05-28 17:42:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋