if you have a family with anger problems will u have the same anger problems as them ?

Question

my family has some serouse anger problems of course in or own ways and levels of anger but i have an anger problem to althow im the most calm one in the family will there anger change me or will i remain the same.

Answer 1

It will probably come out once you get into a relationship. You will probably find that you will be the dominant one & you will overeact or snap at silly little things. Make sure you get professional help if you see these signs.

Answer 2

The Jesuits would say give me the child till hes seven and we'll give you the man.I also consider the Philip Larkin poem
They **** you up, your mum and dad.
They may not mean to, but they do.
They fill you with the faults they had
And add some extra, just for you.

But they were ****** up in their turn
By fools in old-style hats and coats,
Who half the time were soppy-stern
And half at one another's throats.

Man hands on misery to man.
It deepens like a coastal shelf.
Get out as early as you can,
And don't have any kids yourself.

Answer 3

yaaar it's upon u that how u handle ur mood or anger because nobody can change anyone
just do onething that whenever u think that now u can't tolerate or u will become angry or something like that then divert ur mind to thinkof some one u like nd love most

Answer 4

it happens. unless u make a change in urself. n dont let them bring their anger into ur life when ur on ur own..but what is seem when u are growing up is usually a learn'd behavior n is wht u do when u get into a situation ..u seem to revert back to it. so unless u unlearn wht u seen n was use to ..then u will revert back to their behavior

Answer 5

Only if you let it change you. Your attitude determines your attitude. Get 'anger management' help for yourself.

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Answer 6

i think it will change you because my family has anger issues to and it changed me big time.

Answer 7

Probably. We are all products of our environment.