Family - May 2007

he drinks too much and gives the family a lot of stress. he acts stupid and yells a lot when he is drunk. sometimes he doesnt go to work because of hang-overs and the worst part about this is that he does not pay the bills and doesn't even buy groceries, he only drinks his money away with friends. he has never been there for us as a father should and doesn't want to listen to to us and refuse to take advice from any of us. WE HAVE BEEN PRAYING FOR HIM FOR YEARS AND STILL NO CHANGE. what should i do.

2007-05-27 20:54:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

regards to the message she left on my machine. She was wondering if it was the right phone number since she got a man's voice on my machine. I have one of those answering machines with a guy's voice which I have no intention of changing since I'm a female who lives alone. I lead a busy life with working full time and doing other stuff. I don't think she seems to understand that I'm a busy person. I was gone a good part of the day on saturday when she had called.

When I did call her today late in the afternoon, I left a message on her machine saying I was returning her call. They weren't at home.

Oh, I should mention that I lost my mom to cancer last year and this particular relative in question has seem to have taken me under her wing. Something which I don't want since I already have a secondary mother figure in my life (another person) besides my deceased mom. The relative in question likes asking me really personal questions which I don't want to answer and try to avoid.

2007-05-27 19:38:14 · 6 answers · asked by clfrnedtr 2

Last afternoon after lunch my eldest brother(24) and younger bro(20) had a basketball competition in our backyard and my father supported my eldest in the game but I cheered for my younger one coz I love him a lot and also he was against two big guys. Somehow he won it and my eldest didnt like it and wanted him for a kickboxing fight which i enjoyed watching and again cheered for him.He won that too and our elder got pissed off and went away.After a wash my younger came near me and spoke about the game. While speaking I asked him to give me a soothing foot massage which he does most of the time.While massaging I found that he was fully bulged at that area as he was staring at my newly pedicured feet.He likes my feet a lot but I didnt know that he gets erected!!! He loves me a lot and just coz of this erection problem Im not gonna stop asking him to give me foot or any massage. Actually that day I was wearing very tight outfits and an attractive pedicure!!!(im a girl of 18!!)

2007-05-27 18:47:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My lil girl is due in October. i'm in the military and i deploy in September.
Do i have to sign the birth certificate to get my name on it?
Does my name have to be on the Birth Certificate to enroll her in DEERS?
Can I right an affidavit of use a power of attorney to get my name on the certificate?
Do i have to do a DD form 137-4?

Shes going to have my last name and I'm not married to her mother.

2007-05-27 18:46:40 · 10 answers · asked by Duke 2

she is 12 years old and her mom is unconcerned

2007-05-27 17:13:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

He said Mom, I just don't want you to be hurt. The last time you came, several kids said how fat you were. I am ashamed and disguted with myself, but I still eat.

2007-05-27 16:55:28 · 12 answers · asked by donny_mollysmom 3

He will say things like "I'm sick of this sh-t i'm leaving" or "thats it i can't take this any more" then i get the silent treatment for a day or so then hes fine.But we never talk or resolve the problem he just acts like it never happened till the next fight then he may bring it up again.I never yell or fight dirty i just would like us to work out any problems/disagreements we may have.

2007-05-27 16:12:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

what i mean is he will never stand up to her when she makes unreasonable requests.She calls all the shots and even makes "rules" for our house.In the 3 yrs i have known him he has NEVER said no or disagreed with her.I have heard her scream and sware at him and he just takes it and never says boo to her.(he has no problem screaming at me or anyone else its just her)now they have joint custody so she can't keep him from seeing his child plus there is plenty of times when his child is not around and he could set her in her place but he never does.He also was the one to leave her and if he still had feeling for her she would take him back in a heart beat.So why does she have such control over him?

2007-05-27 15:58:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know that there is a problem since I see my parents interact. Mom seems to be always angry at dad and it seems like she snaps at things for no reason.I don't know if they had addressed the problem or not but I know it needs to be addressed.They can't see couples counseling since they r both not fluent English speakers and the language barrier might be too big for the therapist.Is it appropriate for me to address with them together what is going on?How much should a child get involved in their parents' marriage?I'm 21 yrs old so i'm practically an adult.What should I do and how so that the worst, which I think is a possibility, can be avoided and my mom can see what a great guy she has by her side?Thanks

2007-05-27 15:51:43 · 13 answers · asked by Unicorn 3

my parents just got divorced they are both putting me in the middle of it....i just recently got engaged and i want to be with my fiance.....i don't what to do b/c he has to move to Elgin in 2 weeks. someone please give me a strait answere and proof...thank you!

2007-05-27 14:35:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-27 13:56:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

How many of you out there love your fathers? Sometimes i question whether i do or not cause of the way he makes me feel.

2007-05-27 13:33:48 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have started meeting more single or divorced friends. I am divorced and my daughter is 15. She lives with her Dad in another state.

I feel that I should not be doing this in my life at this time. I should be giving my daughter time and attention.

When I see other families together, it feels awkward for me to be alone doing things. My life is off track and not normal. I keep imagining what it would have been like if my mariage had worked out and my child was with both parents.

Moving to the state where my child and ex-husband live may be an option. Yet, they (he and his mother) do not want or let me stay alone. They persuade me to come back and live in the house with them.

I feel like I have failed as a person in life. We come to procreate and pass on things to the next generation. I was not able to influence my daughter and help her to succeed in High School.

This makes me feel bad and sad. I am alone and have ruined their lives by leaving.

2007-05-27 13:29:25 · 4 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

2007-05-27 13:28:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents have been divorced for 14 years and my father signed away guardianship and custody when i was about 6 or 7. i moved out of my mothers house about 6 months ago, and she has now decided that she doesnt want custody of me because she doesnt want to pay my medical. so now im stuck with a father who has no legal right, nor desires any, and a mother who is signing away her custody. so what happens to me? will i be declared an adult in the eyes of the law or will custody be signed over to someone else? i am 16, so im not sure what happens.

2007-05-27 13:28:28 · 12 answers · asked by _lolly_pops_ 1

well me and my mom dont always get along, she never hits me or anything but i feel unwanted. she is different to me. i have a sister and if she makes a mean remark it doesnt get any attention, but when i say something i get yelled at. she is not a good listener. i try to talk but she doesnt understand me. when i tell her something she turns it into something else. she always trys to think i mean something else. she thinks i am saying something else. she doesnt let me explain. i hate when she does that, i love her a lot but she is so i dont know. every time i talk to her she says i am deing rude when im not, nd when i try to tell her i feel this way she once said "its always about how u feel" she puts me and my sister down alot. she tells us we a failures sometimes if we dont do something in school. i tell her that she does this nd she thinks she doesnt, i always try tell her, but hse just is like give it a rest, nd i sometimes go in my room nd cry, how do i make her relize wat she does

2007-05-27 13:03:26 · 16 answers · asked by ♥Sarah♥ 3

okay why does my dad jump to the conclusion that the reason the computer is slow is that im a teenage boy so automatically the reason its slow is because im looking at porn? (which is not true) kuz i dont want the comp to run slow either so...magazines instead jk lol but ya why does he assume that and how do i prove and convience him that im not? thanks

2007-05-27 12:59:57 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey. This one is long but i really need help. My mom just quit smoking and then her mom came to visit us...but she smokes. So my mom started smoking again. My dad does nothing but put her down about how she's smoking. And i it!!! Everytime i try to stand up for her m dad just yells at me and says that i need to "respect" him. Well..it's not fair that i have to show im respect when he shows me nothing. And latley...the only time he's nice to me is after my mom gives him the "eye" after he made me cry. (he makes me cry almost everyday) He just keeps putting down me and my mom. WHAT IN THE WORLD SHOULD I DO!?!?

2007-05-27 12:19:42 · 6 answers · asked by Elephant Chick 2

she sugar coats it and makes exuses. and when i tell her the truth about that person she snaps. and now she says iam jealous of her relationship with her and my cousin whos not her daughter and thats why she says iam depress. anyways she said didnt i get even already by not being there for my cousin i said no she needs to clear my brothers name when everyone knows she was lieing about him. anyways my aunt thinks she shouldnt clear his name because its not nessary when its not brung up. i told her i hate my cousin for what she did. and now the family wants her back in the family parties will thell never see me again i rather be depress and be alone

2007-05-27 11:54:04 · 1 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7

I am in desperate need of a few words of advice, and since I have no one in this life I can turn to...maybe a few of you kind hearted people can help me through this. I am a 19 year old female muslim living in America all my life. My family comes from a quite traditionally conservative family. All my life they have expected me to be arranged to someone and get married, and although I quiety nodded, I know I cannot go through with it. I have met the most amazing guy of my life, who just makes me smile no matter what. He is simply perfect for me. Problem is, he is White. I am Pakistani. I want to marry him, he even proposed to me and I said yes. Now I do not know what to do. I dont know if I have to pick him or my family, because I know I can only have one. I tried breaking off ties with him, I cried my eyes out, he just wouldnt let go. he begged me...he said his life lay in my hands, and I just couldnt stand hearing that from him and seeing him so hurt. He is willing to convert for me

2007-05-27 11:39:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

well, i was @ my cousins house for a sleepover, and we had a barbq that day. so all of the boys and my uncles decided 2 go 2 a waterpark. but as much as we asked they said that the girls were a burden and that they would not let them have fun. i felt furious with anger! wat do i do 2 make them stop!!!!

2007-05-27 11:09:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

She is way against having this baby. And I want to have it. She is really stressing my boyfriend out as she over exaggerates things and dramatizes them. She called me and was very mean to me. And this is a lady who used to love me, but now blames me. in fact she even went as far as to claim I planned this and it is a conspiracy against her son. I want to write her a nice, respectful email, asking her to please let us decide and not to keep interfearing. And to just ask her to respect my/our decisions and not put in her two cents. And letting her know I want this baby and that just because I am being optomistic doesn't mean it was planned. What should i say???

2007-05-27 10:35:14 · 24 answers · asked by Lizzibear 2

Two months ago, my mom ask me would I like to get my own apartment if she helped me pay my rent. I thought that it would be a great idea to start to learn how to get out on my own. So I accepted and moved out of my dad's house (who I was living with. My parents are separated) and got an apartment. Both parents would pitch in money to help me. On the second month my mom decided to back out at the last minute ( this is something that I'm not surprised of) and left me to struggle. My dad is still helping me, but he can only do but so much. I just got a new job that pays better, but I don't get paid until the middle of the month. I have a car note that's past due, car insurance due soon, a cell phone bill due soon, next months rent that 's due soon, and absolutely no food in my apartment. I don't know what to do.How could a mother constantly let her only child down. She's never been there for me and when I thought she was turnning around, she let's me down. What can I do?

2007-05-27 10:15:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My family tree: Mom_Doug= sister 1,2, 3 (divorced after three)

Mom_Dad= ME! (divorced after me)

am i related to my sister's cousin on there dad's side at all?

2007-05-27 09:37:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

heres a hint its a hindu name that starts with A and ends in H

2007-05-27 08:51:43 · 6 answers · asked by i like apples 1

What should do husband and what wife
Maybe they should share their work about house
How do you think about it?

2007-05-27 04:33:00 · 8 answers · asked by Maria 2

I am very scared of husband attitude.he loves me he cares me,
but when i went with him out side i saw he always watch girls..
i dont like...how i react on this ........plz help me

2007-05-27 03:27:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Because she is always wanting to talk and be like Best Friends(which of course we are not) and I am like I already have like two best friends to talk to I need a mother. But then she gets all mad and will tell me to go to my room or do something that doesnt involve me in her face! So what is the deal with mothers?

2007-05-27 01:57:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last weekend was his weekend. When she came home that sunday she told me that her step mom took her sister to the movies and she had to stay at the house. Wouldnt you think that its only fair to take both of them? (dads on house arrest) it was a childs movie for gods sake. (shrek 3). i guess i just dont understand it. should i confront them. it really hurt my daughters feelings.

2007-05-27 01:39:18 · 9 answers · asked by Cassie K 2

2007-05-27 00:13:03 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous