Family - May 2007

Well, today I'm making homemade plum jam, and I have to much, do you think it's a nice idea to give some to my boyfriend and his family, they were nice to give me and my family some walnuts and cherrys, or what do you think.

2007-05-29 09:22:05 · 14 answers · asked by kitty 6

I found out my step-son who is 14 has been sniffing precscription meds, drinking, and smoking pot. and I am upset with him for many reasons but because of his habit and new cool friends he brought this into our home and encouraged my 14 year old son to try pot and sniff pills. I am angery at both of them, my son was honest when we ask and the step-son tried lying until he knew he was busted. I care for my step-son and I don't want anything to happen to him but now I am afraid I can not have the same relationship because he brought this into the home and I feel he is somewhat responsible for putting my son in the situation. I know my son made his own decision but I can hear my step-son calling him pussy and every other word there is. I don't want to have hatered or be angry with my step-son, I am very dissappointed in my son and feel deep in my heart he knows he did wrong and won't let this happen again. My step-son I don't feel he is taking any of it serious.

2007-05-29 08:38:56 · 16 answers · asked by true2b 1

they say i not well is it this ones ?

2007-05-29 07:46:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my fork when hardly knowing me but a few weeks or so just saying that my mouth looked clean any

2007-05-29 07:33:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-29 07:05:42 · 19 answers · asked by terence j 2

When I was Younger My sister died at a young age. I was only ten at the time and she was 14 going on 15 for a couple of months I sort of just shut down. Then I got over it. But for the next 3 years my grandpa, grandma, great aunt, cousin, and uncle died. Mostly because of dieases or accidents. I was close to all my relatives. As I went to one funeral and then another I realized that these deaths didn't affect me at all. In fact the first thing came to mind was to get my old blazer out and a respectable tie. Now when I think about my parents dying or siblings I just think about what kind coffin there going have or how many people will be there and who will I know. These thoughts no longer make me sad. Do I have soul?

2007-05-29 07:01:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Mom is conservative and keeps a custom that at home, I and my lil sister have to wear a sweet frilly pinafore with a bow in the back. It's We gotta wear one all the time, even if we aren't doing kitchen chores. Mom also wears a pinafore like that, but isn't so strict w/ herself as she is w/ us. This is terribly embarrassing, we gotta wear them no matter who comes to the house. When my friends are over I get really embarrassed but it's a mom's law . She just says it's the right thing to do, every girl should wear those frilly pinafores and doesn't back off. Sometimes I even have to go out wearing one. I did everything to talk her out of this, she didn't back off. I even tried to rebel but shes my mom and I didn't succeed, got grounded and, of course, wearing my pinnies. How I can handle this situation? Am I stuck with my pinnies? She's a good mom, caring, nice, treats us with much love, but we gota wear those pinnies. Everybody says we look cute and sweet in them, but it's embarrassing

2007-05-29 06:05:16 · 6 answers · asked by Rose 1

If your daughter had about 5-6 car accidents started smoking, drinking & drinking coffee\sleeping all day to recover for the next party would you pay for her education? What if she moved in with a guy as well. She has not yet, or has she who knows she slept with him last night. all this at 18. She is taking one coarse over now so her summer to her may be ruined. The way things are going I am afraid for her & afraid to spend more on her. What to do as a dad?

2007-05-29 05:58:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

well one day i had ask my mom can i get a cell phone and she always says yea u really need a cell phone and I am like mommy if I need a Cell phone why wont u give me one then she be like well u have to earn the phone and im like aww man momma i really want to have one

2007-05-29 05:41:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

have been togather 6 years and have to kids. been through hell and back. but he has a verble and mently abussing problem. he says he don't meen the stuff he says, but after hearing the same mean things for 5 out of the 6 years. you start to believe what you hear. he says i'm to bitchie, but wouldn't u be when they can't say or be nice at all unless he is buzzed or messed up seems like the only time he is nice and acts like he loves me. i feel that if u can't like me sober than i don't want u to like me at all, that is being fake if u ask me!!! i've told him about he says he will change, but haven't really made any inprovements,but he is a excalent father!!

2007-05-29 05:24:03 · 20 answers · asked by mombomb 1

how can i not be bored? i have no one to talk to etc.... and im not REALLY close to my mum ither

2007-05-29 05:17:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I"m only 14 but me and my mom fuss all the time about any and everything! and then i'll hear her talk about how this kid is bad or that kid is bad or their parents are not good for them and then i look at us and its the same exact problems! But when we talk i get scared to tell her really whats the matter with me so what do i do?

2007-05-29 05:06:43 · 16 answers · asked by Eureka_17 2

Yesterday my sister had a bunch of people over for a picnic and i watched as she basically insulted them in one way or another throughout the day. She would bring up embarrassing things that have happened to them or things they clearly didnt want to discuss with a group of people they didnt know that well, and it was humilitating. Why does she do that, and how can i get her to stop! People were leaving because they were so uncomfortable. She sees nothing wrong with it!

2007-05-29 03:29:54 · 7 answers · asked by Me, myself, & I 3

This has quite possibly been the worst weekend of my life! First I got grounded for 3 weeks for sneaking out (which i accept) then I find out my bf slept with some whore at prom so now he's treating me like crap, then my sister moved out because she hates my parents (now my mom thinks she failed as a parent and is really upset) then my other sister's bf tried to break into a corner store by our house and got arrested (so now she's upset because of that and becasue my dad is basically rubbing it in his face). So now I have all this stress and I'm upset and don't know what to do! Can anyone give me any advice on any of these problems I have? I can't handle anymore stress like this!

2007-05-29 03:23:26 · 7 answers · asked by mandy 1

Ok.. so, way back when my mom had me, my biological father left us, and mom remarried and this new man adopted me, who I now call my dad. But, we don't get along. AT ALL! Like, we have tryed seeing a psychologist, and he admitted that he treats me differently because I am not his biological daughter. He nags at me for every little thing, and doesn't even say hi to me in the morning! He gets up and yells and nags at me all day. Then, to top it all off, he cheated on my mom about a year ago. I don't even see him as a person anymore. We have tried talking to councellers buyt that just ends up in me getting hurt, cause he tells them lies. What should I do?? Like, it got to the point that a couple years back I ended up in Foster Care, cause I guess I was too much for him to handle...

2007-05-29 03:21:43 · 8 answers · asked by ? 3

This last friday was my graduation. My parents are divorced and married to someone else. Well at the ceramony my dad was carrying around some roses.They weren't for me, so i automaticly thought they were for my step-sister. Well they werent. They were for her best friend who had forgot them at our house. Well my mom didnt know that they weren't for my stepsister, after she had promised me she wouldnt start anything, she started yelling at my dad. She was saying "how could you?" "your daughter is so pist at you!" "our daughter is more important than that ***** and her kids"....blah blah blah.....my dad just left.....then my mom tried to appoligize to my grandmother.....and my grandmother (my dads mom) said "im not accepting any appolagies, that was uncalled for!" My question is why did they have to fight on my graduation day which is an once in a lifetime oppertunity for me to be the center of attention?

2007-05-29 02:16:52 · 18 answers · asked by sunny365 2

my dad treated me if i got my gf preg and i did he said he would kill me now im about to run away i need somethings i need to do before i do run

2007-05-29 01:49:10 · 17 answers · asked by aglowacki102690 1

Hi, I am a 16 year old guy. I share my room with my 20 year old sister. My sister is a tomboy sort of a girl and she has no inhibitions with me. She barges into the bathroom when I am in the shower, on the toilet seat or when I am changing without any inhibitions. She changes her clothes when I am around and walks in on me when I am nude in the bathroom. She pulls my towel and strips me nude playfully when her friends are around and tells me it is all in good fun.She has seen me nude most times and tends to stare at me and has fun doing that.Has anyone experienced such behaviour? I do not want to act too paranoid, coz she is my sister and this might be common among siblings who are close in age? Has anyone gone thro the same with his sister? Girls have you walked in on your brothers when they are nude and had fun ? Please let me know your experiences

2007-05-28 21:45:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm getting married in November and I have a stepfather and obviously a biological one. To avoid complications I chose my nine year old son to walk me down the aisle. My real father hasn't always been there for me, he's more a friend than a dad. I didn't choose my stepdad because I didn't want to hurt my real dad's feelings. It didn't work. Today my real dad found out that I want my son to walk me down the aisle and he's pretty upset. Am I wrong? I mean I could understand where he's coming from, I am his only daughter but at the same time he was nowhere near the father he should have been. Problem is, is that he doesn't realize that he wasn't a great father.

2007-05-28 19:02:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

my daughters being raise by my ex sister in law (not by my choice)i just want to no if i should stay out of her life i dont want her confused their great to her and can give her more then i ever could i just dont no whats best is their any one who can help

2007-05-28 18:49:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

im a foster child longing to go home. my brother is what caused me to get pulled out of my home but he is now gone. another reason why im with another family is to finish school and get my license cause i cant get them back home. there is nothing in the world that i want more than to be with my family again. what should i do? go home and drop out of school or finish all this up and be away from them for a few more years?

2007-05-28 18:34:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-28 17:27:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've screwed up a lot of times, and this time was the last straw with my mom, so now she has grounded me and is threatening to move me to my dad's which is in wisconsin, BUT ITS MY SENIOR YEAR! i didn't really screw up as bad as i did in the past but now i'm getting kicked out? i don't really know what to do, i'm stuck. i wanna stay in town and graduate with my friends here, i wanna live with my mom and i wanna be ungrounded and enjoy my summer. i just don't know what the heck to do! help anyone?? suggestions?

2007-05-28 17:26:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't have a clue. My kids have told all the benefits but left out any nagatives that I may have to face. So I'm tapping your brains and experiences with your kids and their dealings with My Space. What do I have to look out for or be aware of ...and like a lot of other things when it come to computers and the web...how would I even know if something is or isn't going on as compared to a parent that would know far more than me.

2007-05-28 17:06:16 · 11 answers · asked by Paul 3

i am in love with one of my far far cousin.. she doesn't belong to my family hierarchy but from some ancestors grandfathers grandfather relative and so on..

is it safe to have love and marriage with such a deemed cousin ?...

is this any misconception ?

It would be great if anyone can guide me up
Thanks in Advance

2007-05-28 16:28:33 · 34 answers · asked by idunix 1

They say the music I listen to is "Devil worshiping music" My dad deleted all my lamb of god slipknot marliyn mason,ect
I dont worship the devil. I just love the sound of death metal

2007-05-28 15:24:51 · 9 answers · asked by Zach 1

I've seen my mother in law twice in the last year, once at my wedding and once at Christmas. I really would like to try to see her more often, but neither she nor I are much into making conversation. Thus, I'm looking for activities to do with her. We live in a small city, so there's some things to do, but not a lot. Any ideas that don't include sitting across from her trying to come up with something to say?

2007-05-28 15:06:39 · 6 answers · asked by gwenlyn 1

His baby is due in less than a mth & the trailer they live in needs major work done by then. He tears up the floor in the center & then says he is just going for a ride with the neighbor. He then dosen't come home for 2 days & when he does he is quiet for a time then just starts to critisize everything that we have done saying he could have done it in an hour himself. He starts to do some work for a time & then starts to put us down once again & then goes to sleep til the night. He awakens & starts to work again preventing us from doing what we are doing & is making alot of noise for the time & just tearing out more & constantly telling us that we have done nothing at all that he is the only one that has done anything. It esculates & he tells us to get out and leave him alone & gets violent threating to call the cops, we say go ahead, he then smashes both of our cell phones hits both of us & smashes everything in sight telling us to get out of his face & blames it all on us.

2007-05-28 13:27:46 · 30 answers · asked by skitzer 1

Okay, my brother has gotten in LOTS of trouble like doing drugs and all. So my mom sent him to boot camp(mma) and when they let him come home for summer he ran away and he was doing drugs and while he was still their but my mom wasn't he did drugs AGAIN. He ran away so many times and my mom can't trust him to go out with friends so when ever he asks to go out, she says no and he gets angry and sometimes runs away and when he's old enough to get out of the boot camp he's probably going to do drugs and ruin his whole life. And its a shame because he's hansome and smart and he could do better than this! We don't know what to do with him.
HELP!!!!!!!

2007-05-28 12:53:27 · 19 answers · asked by luckyduckling688 1

my dad was so mean and hatefull, got a kick out beating his kids, other things as well. hope never to see him again ,not this life or the next, what happens to people who make others life a liveing hell on earth, please let me know. also dont want him around my brother who died too . my brother was a cool big brother, dad made him steal. he dye running from the law 25 ago. dad has no right to see him in the next life. he did not love his family, he hated us kids, so mean too us all, mom went a long with him on everthing, she was suppose to go frist. she real sick too.also will mom last long, she is only 82 pounds.will mom go to the same place as dad, we sure hope not somebody let us know ok,worried about mom soul.

2007-05-28 12:40:00 · 7 answers · asked by god gift 1