His baby is due in less than a mth & the trailer they live in needs major work done by then. He tears up the floor in the center & then says he is just going for a ride with the neighbor. He then dosen't come home for 2 days & when he does he is quiet for a time then just starts to critisize everything that we have done saying he could have done it in an hour himself. He starts to do some work for a time & then starts to put us down once again & then goes to sleep til the night. He awakens & starts to work again preventing us from doing what we are doing & is making alot of noise for the time & just tearing out more & constantly telling us that we have done nothing at all that he is the only one that has done anything. It esculates & he tells us to get out and leave him alone & gets violent threating to call the cops, we say go ahead, he then smashes both of our cell phones hits both of us & smashes everything in sight telling us to get out of his face & blames it all on us.
2007-05-28 13:27:46 · 30 answers · asked by skitzer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
No, Excuse my aunt's husband of 24 years hit my grandmother and aunt while she was pregnant...and you know I will never forgive him for hitting my grandmother.....My aunt on the other hand has forgiven him and they are still together.......I wouldn't have stayed with him for all the tea in China
2007-05-28 14:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by Ebonee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter whats going on his life or hes doing drugs or drinking or whatever you and that pregnant girls priority is the child. You enable his behavior, dont entertain his crap next time call the police and teach him a lesson, also change the locks or move, he wont change as long as both of you stay and put up with it, leave him he has to hash these problems out and remember violence escalates and theres no excuse for it and noone deserves that
2007-05-29 02:57:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has no excuse. If he is not on drugs then he is just dog mean. Call the police and file charges. Tell his girlfriend to get a protective order, and you get one too if you need to. He will not improve on his own, and may not improve with counseling. The best you can hope for now is to protect yourselves, and his unborn child, perhaps someone else later on, and hopefully him from the consequences of ever escalating behavior. Best of luck to you all.
2007-05-28 13:38:05 · answer #3 · answered by claudiacake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a terribly dangerous situation for the girlfriend, the mother, and the baby. Get out of that trailer now. That guy doesn't seem to be really caring for you, and it could be really dangerous with his behavior. Get out. Find a friend, get a hotel, but leave, for your sake and the baby's sake.
2007-05-28 13:32:39 · answer #4 · answered by Mary D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No excuse. You both need to get out of there to a safe house immediately. Violent, abusive guys don't "get better." Their women just end up dead.
Really. Get out now. Don't let this baby be raised around an abusive man.
2007-05-28 13:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by Ottergirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No there is nothing that gives him the right to hit you or his girlfriend especially if she is pregnant. He could have killed his own kid if he hit his girlfriend hard enough does he want that does she?? I bet no....so what he did is inexcusable and sadly i believe his girlfriend shoud leave him i mean i know he is your son and all but do you want your grandchild in that what if he gets that mad again?? Maybe you both should talk to him and maybe have him talk to someone. I wish you luck and hope things end well
2007-05-28 13:34:36 · answer #6 · answered by Just_A_Goof 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call the police or go to the station and file an assault charge. You need to do something NOW before the baby gets here. You know he will abuse it too and it's your duty to protect it. Get a restraining order too.
2007-05-28 13:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by DOT 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like he might be doing drugs if thats the case then you two need to find you a place to go or try and get him help but if he is putting his hands on a woman that is carrying his child he is threating the child as well and as far as the mother it shows he dont have any respect for her either
2007-05-28 13:35:24 · answer #8 · answered by allgoodformeallgood 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is NO EXCUSE! He belongs in jail. Call the cops on his ***. If he leaves marks on you show them. He shouldn't be anywhere near you guys he's a LOSER! GRRRRRRRRR I hate guys that do that. If I stepped up on him he'd probably start to cry. FRY his assssss Send him to jail!
2007-05-28 13:32:19 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like withdrawal symptoms to me goes away does whatever, comes back with a pang of guilt and as he detoxes he starts taking it out on you two, my only suggestion is to get out, otherwise it could get worse.
AJ
2007-05-28 13:33:11 · answer #10 · answered by andyjh_uk 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋