love with cousin?

Question

i am in love with one of my far far cousin.. she doesn't belong to my family hierarchy but from some ancestors grandfathers grandfather relative and so on..

is it safe to have love and marriage with such a deemed cousin ?...

is this any misconception ?

It would be great if anyone can guide me up
Thanks in Advance

Answer 1

The maximum limit of degree of prohibition relationship is father's father's father's widow or mother's father's father's widow or father's mother's father's widow or mother's mother's father's widow. If the person is not covered in this relationship then you can marry her legally there is no legal obstacle in such a marriage.

Answer 2

Cousin wants some action!!! Resist he is five years older that would be like hime being 17 and you being twelve, could you imagine flirting with a 12 year old boy????Something is wrong with that. Don't get stuck in a situation together alone HE WILL TRY SOMETHING!! he acts like that around his girlfriend b/c ppl can tell when a guy likes agirl by the way they act usually childish, giving wet willies and touching "innocently"

Answer 3

If they are that distant of a relative, I see nothing wrong with it. I worked with a woman who found out 17 years after she got married that her husband and her were related somewhere down the line. Like going back to great, great, great, grandfathers uncle...anyway it was some distant relationship. They have 4 children and all are healthy and none have flippers.

Answer 4

How old are you? What does your mother think about it? Could you talk to her about it? Would you think she might disapprove? If this cousin is so distant as you say, who would even know about it. I wish I knew more. If you marry and have children would the blood be bad or cause problems? I don't know but you could ask your family doctor. Or hopefully someone else will have a better answer than me.

Answer 5

Yes This is graet that u r in love,but the other aspact is also think,that your relation is so important in your family.The parents of your cousin belives on u thats they send their children with u without any warry.So think about your family first and if all the members are agree then u go forward.

Answer 6

In 19 states in the US it is legal to marry your first cousin. Check you state laws. If it is farther removed from first cousins, like second or third, you should be in the clear, although most families will frown on it.
The farther removed the cousin is from you the more diluted the gene pool is.

Answer 7

Well... if it's a very distant cousin then I think it might be ok...but let me tell you.. I have a cousin that married a cousin, and their kids turned out FREAKY....and I also have an aunt who married her cousin and one of her kids turned out FREAKY and the other turned out OK.

If it is very distant like your 8th cousin once removed or something then you're good to go.

But the general thing should be... if you met her at a family reunion...she should be off limits.

Answer 8

It is considered safe to marry a second cousin and beyond.
From the sounds of this cousin she would probably be about a 10th or 15th.

Answer 9

you can love anyone at any place at any time,
if u are in love with cousin, its not important, whether she also loves you, is important. in our most culture it is not acceptable, but law has not rule that u cant love ur cousin. Love is most postive emotion in mankind. it can happen both in the family and in the outside world. Love is also not in condition, so u carry on loving, leave the rest on god. Trust the god do whats must be good.

Answer 10

If it's a far ,far, far, cousin then I don't think there would be any problems. The question is if you got together with her how would you introduce her. Because you still call her cousin even though she is far, far.